can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails ( Archived) (49)

How so Krisha?You're saying two people
can't fall in love via phone/emails?
To prove you wrong,we did fall in love
in this way.But,it wasn't meant to be
because of the distance.So,don't be judging
too quickly.

I so agree Caspatch.

Love is suppose to be a miracle of perfection no matter what shape or the spirit is housed in.........thus falling in love at first sight....JMO

without pics how u in love? atleast with pics and i can hear his voice is possible but with out any sign what face he have ,scarry

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Okay never seen this person, no pic just e-mail and phone conversations. Sure I could be fall in like with you but love - I'd have to say nope, I'd be needing some visuals sorry.

with out pics,hope he dont have 2 head:?confused: love at first sight i believe u

That's the problem with S.O.C.I.E.T.Y. today,
peeps too in tune with the outer appearance.

yep

I think you can fall in love with who you think they are or might be But there has to be some phisical attraction there but keep in mind some of good looking pepole are trying to be who they think you want them to be and keep it going looks are not everything but has some thing to do with it dont be superfisial though

I'm not going to lie to myself, of course you don't want someone who is rotten to the core on the inside, that goes without saying. But to say that physical attraction has NOTHING to do with it well sorry I can't pretend it doesn't. Its may not be the MAJOR factor in selecting someone to love but it is important or else we'd all be attracted to each other.

good point.........must be easy on the eyes

It happened in London during WWII.
A guy dialed a wrong number and woman answered. They hit it off well enough in the first conversation to do it again the next night and the next.
This went on for some time and they never met. Like about 6 months I think, from spring through the summer. He did ask, but she always said no for some reason. I forget the reasons why. Something about waiting to see if it were true enough or maybe she was married or had already lost him in the war. Something along those lines.
Anyway he called one night and no answer. Eventually he went to her address and the house had a direct hit by a bomb.
Sorry it's not a happy ending, but it's true.

Agreed, not until you actually meet someone face to face and spend time on dates with them can you really know!

Yes, I know that story too.

I wonder what might have been?

awww sad.........some ppl come into our lives for a reason/season or a lifetime ...........im sure what little time they spoke on the phone they both provided some measure of love and comfort and joy for each other.

yes you can because you call in love with the image which conjures up all different illusions with regards to that person, its all about cultural perpection, so for a person you fall in love with, they will evoke a different response from some one local. for example an american girl will evoke an evocotive image based on the media, the wealth of the country and its superpower status with an english person ( of course the language barrier will be non existant but intriging non the less), also if u fall in love with a beautiful all arab girl it evoke some kind of exocitc emotions that are are far from reality but in truth have not some truth in them, so yes you can fall in love with a false image, thats why we have glossy magazines, and the mag and newspaper touch them up with paint shop pro etc to make a perfect image, so the rest of the girls and boys fallow.

bw

ther was a movie with divid niven who fell in love with a operator on the wireless during a bomber mission, he was a lancaster bomber and it was through her voice and conviction to save him that got him through