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Jun 13, 2009 5:02 AM CSTWhen it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
Yvonne66
Yvonne66Yvonne66kiruna, Norrbotten, Sweden8 Threads 2 Polls 65 Posts

When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?(Vote Below)

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Yes
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Can a woman persue, should it be equal or should we just wait for the man to do the first moves. Primitive thinking, genetic or just oldfashion.
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Jun 13, 2009 5:05 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
I like to be hunted grin
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Jun 13, 2009 5:08 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
Yvonne66
Yvonne66Yvonne66kiruna, Norrbotten Sweden8 Threads 2 Polls 65 Posts
Sounds comfortable :) wouldn't it bee nice so to say.
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Jun 13, 2009 5:08 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
morgan5: I like to be hunted


Hi wave morgan,

I like that too, will give u some signs iam interested, but u have to do the rest grin
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Jun 13, 2009 5:10 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
whaaat: Hi morgan,

I like that too, will give u some signs iam interested, but u have to do the rest
helloooo hug me too all part of the fun bouquet
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Jun 13, 2009 5:13 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
Yvonne66: Sounds comfortable :) wouldn't it bee nice so to say.


wave Yvonne
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Jun 13, 2009 5:14 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
whaaat: Hi morgan,

I like that too, will give u some signs iam interested, but u have to do the rest
Most men are blind to signslaugh I would buy a red flag if I was youlaugh
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Jun 13, 2009 5:16 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
morgan5: helloooo me too all part of the fun


Most women like to persue, and our fellow men have adapted to that and are getting lazier by the day (not all of them, keep in mindgrin.

Now if a man persues, in my openion is a 65% a player. The world is going upside downconfused
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Jun 13, 2009 5:16 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
morgan5: I like to be hunted



wave go hide in another thread, I'll count to 20 and then try and find you rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Jun 13, 2009 5:16 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
Yvonne66: Can a woman persue, should it be equal or should we just wait for the man to do the first moves. Primitive thinking, genetic or just oldfashion.


I would love to make a move on a guy but i dont have that "hey i fancy you confidence" in me...i couldnt hunt..wave
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Jun 13, 2009 5:18 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
rodolpho: Most men are blind to signs I would buy a red flag if I was you


hahhaah ok Rodolpho, Iam on my way. to some point your right. geeeeeeeeeeeeeeez, how can we go back to those nice days, when the guy had to do all the working, while we sit back and our cheeks turn rose/red blushing blushing
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Jun 13, 2009 5:19 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
RDM59: go hide in another thread, I'll count to 20 and then try and find you


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 13, 2009 5:20 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
pebblesbamban
pebblesbambanpebblesbambanPennsylvania, USA3 Threads 4,038 Posts
Shoes and more shoes.....shimmy

some men are a cowers.... and someone are shy.... but not old fashion....cool
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Jun 13, 2009 5:22 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
morgan5: I like to be hunted


I like to lay traps like a spider's web and watch my prey get stuck and all 'wiggly' then....... yum! yum!

grin
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Jun 13, 2009 5:25 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
Sojourner
SojournerSojournerAndorra la Vella, Andorra31 Threads 2 Polls 472 Posts
morgan5: I like to be hunted
Me too...batting
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Jun 13, 2009 5:28 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
RDM59: go hide in another thread, I'll count to 20 and then try and find you
thumbs up count to 10 laugh wine
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Jun 13, 2009 5:31 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
morgan5: count to 10


Go put some strong perfume on and stand up wind, that will help laugh 10, 9, 8 ........
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Jun 13, 2009 9:59 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
Yvonne66: Can a woman persue, should it be equal or should we just wait for the man to do the first moves. Primitive thinking, genetic or just oldfashion.


I think that due to the confusing signals us ladies give out sometimes, I think that the man has kind of sat back a little, and waited.

I personally dont have a problem with making "The First Move"; if I see something/someone I want, I go for it. You can make the "initial advance" and still be a lady. I think the guys appreciate that, for once, we have taken the initiative.

I like to be pursued, yes, of course..its very flattering..but dating is a two way street, and sometimes you just have to go for it.
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Jun 13, 2009 11:05 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
I consider myself old-fashioned and conserative,and have been told that if I don't make the first move that I may lose out on the man I'm interested in.
I just don't want to come off as being desperate,plus I've heard that most men don't like women that come off too strong,either.

I'd much rather the man be the hunter.

I also have had it said where a man would perfer the woman to make the first move cause he's scared of rejection or may sometimes lack the confidence to approach her.
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Jun 13, 2009 11:13 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
Most women I've dated have always made the first move with me.dunno
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Jun 13, 2009 11:18 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
somechick: I consider myself old-fashioned and conserative,and have been told that if I don't make the first move that I may lose out on the man I'm interested in.
I just don't want to come off as being desperate,plus I've heard that most men don't like women that come off too strong,either.

I'd much rather the man be the hunter.

I also have had it said where a man would perfer the woman to make the first move cause he's scared of rejection or may sometimes lack the confidence to approach her.


Well, Im NOT desperate, and I make the first move sometimes!! Ive seen it said on here many times by guys,that they would be DELIGHTED for a woman to make the first move for a change..

Also, perhaps thats the reason why women also dont make the first move too - for fear of rejection..

JMO
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Jun 13, 2009 11:19 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2: Most women I've dated have always made the first move with me.


...and sometimes I'm shy.
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Jun 13, 2009 11:36 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
joyforever06
joyforever06joyforever06., Central Serbia Serbia1 Threads 58 Posts
thewall2: ...and sometimes I'm shy.



can men be shy?

or are you joking?
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Jun 13, 2009 11:38 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
petalbabe: Well, Im NOT desperate, and I make the first move sometimes!! Ive seen it said on here many times by guys,that they would be DELIGHTED for a woman to make the first move for a change..

Also, perhaps thats the reason why women also dont make the first move too - for fear of rejection..

JMO



It guess it mainly has alot to do with how I was raised I guess.My parents were old-fashioned too.We were never allowed to approach a guy call him and asking him out on a date cause it was more proper for a girl to wait until a guy asked them out.We were told it wasn't ladylike to do certain things or act in a particular way so guys didn't get the wrong idea about us.We also had to be in by a certain time on school nights and weekends.

Example:Men who wished to date any of us girls had to come to the door and knock and ask for either of us or we weren't allowed to date them.

I'll never forget the time my sister was old enough to date and the guy pulled up in our driveway and honked for her to come out.My father without saying a word walked out to that guys car reached inside the car and released the hood latch and walked around to the front of the car and opened the hood and undone the horn and then walked back over to my sisters date and told him that the next time he came to pick up my sister that he'd better come to the door and knock and ask for her like a gentlemen.
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Jun 13, 2009 11:45 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
USThumper
USThumperUSThumperMexico, New York USA4 Threads 3,957 Posts
somechick: It guess it mainly has alot to do with how I was raised I guess.My parents were old-fashioned too.We were never allowed to approach a guy call him and asking him out on a date cause it was more proper for a girl to wait until a guy asked them out.We were told it wasn't ladylike to do certain things or act in a particular way so guys didn't get the wrong idea about us.We also had to be in by a certain time on school nights and weekends.

Example:Men who wished to date any of us girls had to come to the door and knock and ask for either of us or we weren't allowed to date them.

I'll never forget the time my sister was old enough to date and the guy pulled up in our driveway and honked for her to come out.My father without saying a word walked out to that guys car reached inside the car and released the hood latch and walked around to the front of the car and opened the hood and undone the horn and then walked back over to my sisters date and told him that the next time he came to pick up my sister that he'd better come to the door and knock and ask for her like a gentlemen.
He sounds like my kind of man. bouquet
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Jun 13, 2009 11:51 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
USThumper: He sounds like my kind of man.


Hi thumpwave The funny thing was that that very same guy who wished to date my sister told my father that if he'd had a daughter that he'd done the very same thing.laugh

Thank you for the flower.
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Jun 13, 2009 11:55 AM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
joyforever06: can men be shy?

or are you joking?



Of COURSE,EVER SEE A WOMAN WITH DAGGERS in her eyes.....I HAVE.


THE WALL has been 300 feet up on a plank.....walked the dark alleys with NO FEAR woman....




but keep a woman scorned away from me.
lol
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Jun 13, 2009 1:25 PM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
somechick: It guess it mainly has alot to do with how I was raised I guess.My parents were old-fashioned too.We were never allowed to approach a guy call him and asking him out on a date cause it was more proper for a girl to wait until a guy asked them out.We were told it wasn't ladylike to do certain things or act in a particular way so guys didn't get the wrong idea about us.We also had to be in by a certain time on school nights and weekends.

Example:Men who wished to date any of us girls had to come to the door and knock and ask for either of us or we weren't allowed to date them.

I'll never forget the time my sister was old enough to date and the guy pulled up in our driveway and honked for her to come out.My father without saying a word walked out to that guys car reached inside the car and released the hood latch and walked around to the front of the car and opened the hood and undone the horn and then walked back over to my sisters date and told him that the next time he came to pick up my sister that he'd better come to the door and knock and ask for her like a gentlemen.


Thats very true, somechick..

I just feel sorry for the guys these days sometimes, because I think alot of ladies can give out conflicting signals..

But I agree with you; its installed in us through culture alot of the time..

thumbs up
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Jun 13, 2009 2:08 PM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
KajunQueen
KajunQueenKajunQueenSomewhere, Louisiana USA18 Threads 630 Posts
I would rather be the one getting asked on a date,but things have changed in the last 18 years and I hear it is ok if I do the hunting,so...I am off to grab my Smith and Wesson....LMAO...Just kidding...
I think it is best if the man does the asking,but since I have just now got back into dating,everyone tells me guys like it if the woman asks them on the date...So...it really does not matter either way,as long as you go on the date!wink
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Jun 13, 2009 3:04 PM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
petalbabe: Thats very true, somechick..

I just feel sorry for the guys these days sometimes, because I think alot of ladies can give out conflicting signals..

But I agree with you; its installed in us through culture alot of the time..



I too feel sorry for the men and wouldn't wish to be in their shoes. I've seen where they're damned if they do and damned if they don't.I also agree with you that alot of ladies do from time to time give out conflicting signals and have wittnessed this going on.
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Jun 13, 2009 4:07 PM CST When it comes down to dating, how oldfashion it may seem, do men want to be the hunter?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
somechick: I too feel sorry for the men and wouldn't wish to be in their shoes. I've seen where they're damned if they do and damned if they don't.I also agree with you that alot of ladies do from time to time give out conflicting signals and have wittnessed this going on.


I truly believe, that if us women want to achieve want we want in life, we have to stop confusing being "strong" with being "loud"..

An assertive, clear thinking woman is very different from a loud, beery, constantly swearing one. Some women dont seem to know the difference.
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