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IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ? ( Archived) (52)

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#0
Jun 13, 2009 11:38 AM CSTIF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
Red_Cherry
Red_CherryRed_CherrySurabaya, East Java, Indonesia5 Threads 5 Polls 54 Posts
Red_CherryOPSurabaya, East Java, Indonesia54 posts

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i never did something bad IF theres noone did something bad first to me. so, becoz he did bad things to me, i did it too to him/her.
i think Thats not my fault. as he/she hurt me first.
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#1
Jun 13, 2009 11:39 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
somechick
somechicksomechickCincinnati, Ohio USA106 Threads 11,116 Posts
somechickCincinnati, Ohio USA11,116 posts
Red_Cherry: i never did something bad IF theres noone did something bad first to me. so, becoz he did bad things to me, i did it too to him/her.
i think Thats not my fault. as he/she hurt me first.



I was taught that two wrongs don't make a right.
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#2
Jun 13, 2009 11:40 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada10,499 posts
Red_Cherry: i never did something bad IF theres noone did something bad first to me. so, becoz he did bad things to me, i did it too to him/her.
i think Thats not my fault. as he/she hurt me first.



It depends on what they did,or did to somebody I CARE ABOUT.
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#3
Jun 13, 2009 11:42 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
krishatokyo, Kanto Japan6,375 posts
hi cherry,when someone threw u stone u mean u must threw same stone?i dont think so,that is not a right way,if someone did that to u,try a diplomatic ways ,u will see the person will change their mind...and will be good with u...used a kind word...let their heart open,and they will respect u more...comfort
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#4
Jun 13, 2009 11:44 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
goodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2,573 posts
Red_Cherry: i never did something bad IF theres noone did something bad first to me. so, becoz he did bad things to me, i did it too to him/her.
i think Thats not my fault. as he/she hurt me first.


No sometimes we have to rise above what hurtful folks do to you, i believe what goes around comes around bigtime..wave
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#5
Jun 13, 2009 12:00 PM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Taterspringfield, Illinois USA3,326 posts
No.. because I'm not 3yrs.old, If someone does wrong to me..........................all I say is BYE>>>>>and Get to STEPPIN!!laugh
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#6
Jun 13, 2009 1:52 PM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
KajunQueen
KajunQueenKajunQueenSomewhere, Louisiana USA18 Threads 630 Posts
KajunQueenSomewhere, Louisiana USA630 posts
If someone does bad to me,I don't do anything.I just try not to let them do anything bad again.If they do something bad again,shame on me for letting it happen,right?
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#7
Jun 13, 2009 1:56 PM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
Goddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK3,131 posts
I believe what you do to others you get back 3-fold. I also believe it works both ways cheering
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#8
Jun 13, 2009 2:01 PM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
LillymSliema, Majjistral Malta3,391 posts
somechick: I was taught that two wrongs don't make a right.


Good Answer... totally agree thumbs up
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#9
Jun 13, 2009 2:02 PM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE
NAKEDMUDPEOPLENAKEDMUDPEOPLEunknown, Wisconsin USA27 Threads 7,370 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLEunknown, Wisconsin USA7,370 posts
I'm a runner. If it hurts, I find a safe place. They will only have a small bit of me and are not worthy of knowing all of me.
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#10
Jun 13, 2009 2:03 PM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
dunny2
dunny2dunny2clovis, New Mexico USA2 Threads 100 Posts
dunny2clovis, New Mexico USA100 posts
goodfriend: No sometimes we have to rise above what hurtful folks do to you, i believe what goes around comes around bigtime..

thumbs up
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#11
Jun 13, 2009 2:16 PM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
pikengrenlake worth, Florida USA2,003 posts
revenge is a funny thing. they say it is a dish best served cold, and i think that is a very true statement for a few reasons.
if you do something out of anger, you could be overreacting.
if someone does something bad enough to you that you are considering revenge, wait at least a year before you even think about planning it.
within that year many things may happen. number one is , it may not be so important to you any more. enough good things may have happened in your life that you really just don't care.
number two, someone that makes a habit out of screwing people over is playing the odds, and sooner or later they will do it to the wrong person, and someone else will get them.
number three, someone that makes a habit out of screwing people over will have done it to quite a few people besides you within a year, so if it is still worth it to you, by that point, they will not necessarily know which one got them back.
about 99% of the time, you'll find that after a year, (ususally way before that) that you really just don't care about it anymore.
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#12
Jun 13, 2009 2:24 PM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
Ashes
AshesAshesPunta del Este, Uruguay7 Threads 5 Polls 469 Posts
AshesPunta del Este, Uruguay469 posts
Red_Cherry: i never did something bad IF theres noone did something bad first to me. so, becoz he did bad things to me, i did it too to him/her.
i think Thats not my fault. as he/she hurt me first.


NO, never, what goes around comes around....sooner or later!handshake
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#13
Jun 13, 2009 2:29 PM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
Revenge is pointless..

Its painful, exhausting, uses up your positive energy supply and never makes you feel better.

The best revenge is to get on with your life, be happy and content, and move on..thumbs up
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#14
Jun 14, 2009 8:54 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
Red_Cherry
Red_CherryRed_CherrySurabaya, East Java Indonesia5 Threads 5 Polls 54 Posts
Red_CherryOPSurabaya, East Java Indonesia54 posts
krisha: hi cherry,when someone threw u stone u mean u must threw same stone?i dont think so,that is not a right way,if someone did that to u,try a diplomatic ways ,u will see the person will change their mind...and will be good with u...used a kind word...let their heart open,and they will respect u more...



hhehe.. no. thats not what i mean
IF someone threw me stone, means he/ she hurt me, thats the reason why i dont want to keep in touch with him/her anymore.
i give black list in my mind n my heart !

i dont think i will let that kind of people to enter my life.
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#15
Jun 14, 2009 9:01 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
Red_Cherry
Red_CherryRed_CherrySurabaya, East Java Indonesia5 Threads 5 Polls 54 Posts
Red_CherryOPSurabaya, East Java Indonesia54 posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: I'm a runner. If it hurts, I find a safe place. They will only have a small bit of me and are not worthy of knowing all of me.


IF u could run, u will run
But how if u cant?
How if u put in the situation which made u always meet her/him everyday, n she always did bad things to you over n over

u cant run. u hv to face it, as its already became a problem to you.

as sometimes, the words is more sharp than a sword
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#16
Jun 14, 2009 9:04 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
Red_Cherry
Red_CherryRed_CherrySurabaya, East Java Indonesia5 Threads 5 Polls 54 Posts
Red_CherryOPSurabaya, East Java Indonesia54 posts
krisha: hi cherry,when someone threw u stone u mean u must threw same stone?i dont think so,that is not a right way,if someone did that to u,try a diplomatic ways ,u will see the person will change their mind...and will be good with u...used a kind word...let their heart open,and they will respect u more...


How IF the one who always did bad things to you is your family KRISHA ?
could b ur mom ur mayb ur blood sister?
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#17
Jun 14, 2009 9:04 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
Tater: No.. because I'm not 3yrs.old, If someone does wrong to me..........................all I say is BYE>>>>>and Get to STEPPIN!!


THE NEXT TIME SOMEBODY SHUD HIT YOU IN THE FACE YOU BE THE BIGGER MAN AND WALK AWAI



grin


(i hit back........more then onece)grin
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#18
Jun 14, 2009 9:05 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
If they come for more I'll put salt at the doorgrin
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#19
Jun 14, 2009 9:16 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
smilemore
smilemoresmilemorecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK1 Threads 72 Posts
smilemorecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK72 posts
i think all depend from the gravity of what happened , professor
for example if a woman who stay with me ..is going with another man (happen frequently) ..i don't think going to look for a woman to stay a night for have a revenge!
but maybe a person get mad and try to shoot you with a gun ...well maybe in this case ..is better you do something laugh laugh laugh laugh
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#20
Jun 14, 2009 9:23 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
RayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France6,611 posts
"Getting even" never heals the hurt.
Nor does it satisfy.

It actually amplifies and perpetuates the bitterness.

"Forgiving" is harder to do at first, but the results are a lot better.
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#21
Jun 14, 2009 9:48 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
chococherrie78
chococherrie78chococherrie78samarinda, East Kalimantan Indonesia37 Threads 4 Polls 542 Posts
chococherrie78samarinda, East Kalimantan Indonesia542 posts
i believe in karma!
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#22
Jun 14, 2009 10:00 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
krishatokyo, Kanto Japan6,375 posts
Red_Cherry: How IF the one who always did bad things to you is your family KRISHA ?
could b ur mom ur mayb ur blood sister?


i understand what u mean,but i guess u have a big mind and open heart,used the right way u know and god will bless uhug in a family specially big one like us in asia ,its happen that sometimes there is one of our own family annoying us because of jealousness,now that is cause of big trouble that ended in a bitter situation of each one,should be the parents or who olds in your family knows what is goin on,consult them and dont decide alone...
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#23
Jun 14, 2009 10:02 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
ali110online today!
ali110online today!ali110Hamburg, Germany1,842 Threads 428 Polls 27,975 Posts
ali110Hamburg, Germany27,975 posts
Red_Cherry: i never did something bad IF theres noone did something bad first to me. so, becoz he did bad things to me, i did it too to him/her.
i think Thats not my fault. as he/she hurt me first.
I will try to forgive,this is better for medunno
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#24
Jun 14, 2009 10:06 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
Red_Cherry
Red_CherryRed_CherrySurabaya, East Java Indonesia5 Threads 5 Polls 54 Posts
Red_CherryOPSurabaya, East Java Indonesia54 posts
ali110: I will try to forgive,this is better for me


Yes i try to forgive, n silent
but in my heart i wished, that lets the KArma catch him/her grin
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#25
Jun 14, 2009 10:07 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
caspatch
caspatchcaspatchgalena, Missouri USA83 Threads 1 Polls 3,832 Posts
caspatchgalena, Missouri USA3,832 posts
krisha: i understand what u mean,but i guess u have a big mind and open heart,used the right way u know and god will bless u in a family specially big one like us in asia ,its happen that sometimes there is one of our own family annoying us because of jealousness,now that is cause of big trouble that ended in a bitter situation of each one,should be the parents or who olds in your family knows what is goin on,consult them and dont decide alone...

i have had to intervene with my children to resolve issues not vary often matter of fact rarely but it was misunderstanding now they come to me before there is a problem and ask for advise, even about their mother and her husband, i have been lucky so far and have kept problems at restcomfort
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#26
Jun 14, 2009 10:07 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
Red_Cherry
Red_CherryRed_CherrySurabaya, East Java Indonesia5 Threads 5 Polls 54 Posts
Red_CherryOPSurabaya, East Java Indonesia54 posts
chococherrie78: i believe in karma!


Yay, me too dancing
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#27
Jun 14, 2009 10:09 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
ali110online today!
ali110online today!ali110Hamburg, Germany1,842 Threads 428 Polls 27,975 Posts
ali110Hamburg, Germany27,975 posts
Red_Cherry: Yes i try to forgive, n silent
but in my heart i wished, that lets the KArma catch him/her
I saw and that is fact that God gives the reward for behaviourdunno
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#28
Jun 14, 2009 10:11 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
Red_Cherry
Red_CherryRed_CherrySurabaya, East Java Indonesia5 Threads 5 Polls 54 Posts
Red_CherryOPSurabaya, East Java Indonesia54 posts
krisha: i understand what u mean,but i guess u have a big mind and open heart,used the right way u know and god will bless u in a family specially big one like us in asia ,its happen that sometimes there is one of our own family annoying us because of jealousness,now that is cause of big trouble that ended in a bitter situation of each one,should be the parents or who olds in your family knows what is goin on,consult them and dont decide alone...


is it only happened in asia?
nooo, i dont think so.
there are lot of same situation in western, even worse.
YES, mostly yhe problem started with the jealousness, n the olds always right, never wrong, the youngest always wrong, thats the problem. confused
so, if im the youngest, everything weill be my fault
YAyyyyy peace
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#29
Jun 14, 2009 10:15 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
BrunoMcMahon
BrunoMcMahonBrunoMcMahonHardwick, Vermont USA20 Threads 3 Polls 733 Posts
BrunoMcMahonHardwick, Vermont USA733 posts
Red_Cherry: i never did something bad IF theres noone did something bad first to me. so, becoz he did bad things to me, i did it too to him/her.
i think Thats not my fault. as he/she hurt me first.


I’ve had to make it clear that there would be serious consequences for misdeeds in the past.

Usually payment in kind is a bad idea. Especially if the wrongdoer has connections in positions of power.

The books always end up balanced in the end though. Often with no effort from me.
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#30
Jun 14, 2009 10:20 AM CST IF somebody did something bad to you, will u do the same thing like he/she done to you ?
sambhava
sambhavasambhavaVasteras, Vastmanland Sweden3 Threads 1 Polls 584 Posts
sambhavaVasteras, Vastmanland Sweden584 posts
Those people in this world who ARE responsible for doing VERY bad things to you are so protected that you wouldn't even be able to get anywhere NEAR them in order to retaliate!
Tips: Some of those very bad things are happening right under your very nose!
Red_Cherry: i never did something bad IF theres noone did something bad first to me. so, becoz he did bad things to me, i did it too to him/her.
i think Thats not my fault. as he/she hurt me first.
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