can anyone tell me why good men get hurt (128)
calmheartseeks: Does this work for women too?
"Behold you women! never shall thou do the wrong unto men even though they(men)are stinky poo"... chapter 13, verse 13 (bible of love)
cristina: Thanks calmheart. A bit your heart is tender?
Do you know "tender heart" by Lionel Richie? Such a special song
Do you know "tender heart" by Lionel Richie? Such a special song
I bet instead of "A bit". I'm typing with my left hand cause I got a beer on my right one
I used to always get hurt in loving relationships. I would end up feeling abandoned, because I had unknowingly set myself up for abandonment. I only learned relitivly recently, I have needs too, and in a relationship I need to mind my vunerable heart
hi , I see some realy good answers ,learn from your mistakes and grow a little or it will keep happening over and over again ,women in their hunt for the right man to breed with will crush a few hearts along the way to find the strong and just man who will endure the insults and be the man they want...
so grow up a little and move on
so grow up a little and move on
i think its because good girls like me get douped by the guys who portray themselves as the sweet gentlemen that promise us the world then 3 months into the relationship they turn into the demon you tried to get away from in the last relationship and somehow seem to be worse.... there for women who get hurt continually will gradually put up a wall and have a sincere distrust in men in general... however im glutton for punishment and still give every man a fair chance... do they deserve these chances is the question?! is the pain that we feel worth the search for the good ones that are far and few in between?!
ButterflyAngyl83: i think its because good girls like me get douped by the guys who portray themselves as the sweet gentlemen that promise us the world then 3 months into the relationship they turn into the demon you tried to get away from in the last relationship and somehow seem to be worse.... there for women who get hurt continually will gradually put up a wall and have a sincere distrust in men in general... however im glutton for punishment and still give every man a fair chance... do they deserve these chances is the question?! is the pain that we feel worth the search for the good ones that are far and few in between?!
not a problem sweetie. i am not sweet..i m no gentleman either. But if you come to me, i will feed you, love you, support you..and then i will also give you a few cute little babies.
If we "HURT", it is because WE ALLOW it. The hurt is our feelings, we need to own our feelings. WHen we allow ourselves to hurt because of what another says or does, we are giving another great power over us..
Hi, good men tend to wear their heart on their sleeve. All women don't deserve or want a good man. Many want to be hurt...many want to hurt...many just want to play...and yes, some women are just into conquest. I know men have a hard time believing that but a woman can just as easily be into conquest as a man. So...take care how much of yourself you share with a woman in the first few months of a relationship until you're sure you know her!
In response to: because the evil women are out there... watching like this
Hi, good men tend to wear their heart on their sleeve. All women don't deserve or want a good man. Many want to be hurt...many want to hurt...many just want to play...and yes, some women are just into conquest. I know men have a hard time believing that but a woman can just as easily be into conquest as a man. So...take care how much of yourself you share with a woman in the first few months of a relationship until you're sure you know her!
In response to: because the evil women are out there... watching like this
oticklemepink: Hi, good men tend to wear their heart on their sleeve. All women don't deserve or want a good man. Many want to be hurt...many want to hurt...many just want to play...and yes, some women are just into conquest. I know men have a hard time believing that but a woman can just as easily be into conquest as a man. So...take care how much of yourself you share with a woman in the first few months of a relationship until you're sure you know her!
bingo!Eureka!
ButterflyAngyl83: lol i have two kids already thats taken care of i feed the family around here and work full time i dont ask for a man to take care of me or dote on me i just want a companion to share the things that life throws our way
sure..just buy me a plane ticket and i will fly to you everyday..and then accompany the hell out of you
Boban1: because the evil women are out there... watching like this
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....'Tongue in Cheek' and 'Stirring the Pot' Simple answer Dude ....Its program in Woman's make up, to 'Hurt' and 'Destroy' good decent and caring Men.....Its there 'Right'....So,just become a 'Bad Guy' and a complete 'Self Centered a**hole' and you will do just fine....Especially with Western European Woman................ .. ......... ....'Baaaaaaaaaaaaad Boy...J.D'J.D
virgiomonkey: ....................'Tongue in Cheek' and 'Stirring the Pot' Simple answer Dude ....Its program in Woman's make up, to 'Hurt' and 'Destroy' good decent and caring Men.....Its there 'Right'....So,just become a 'Bad Guy' and a complete 'Self Centered a**hole' and you will do just fine....Especially with Western European Woman................ .. ......... ....'Baaaaaaaaaaaaad Boy...J.D'
J.D
J.D
how did i know youd get here eventually JD
how are you doing todayButterflyAngyl83: although im a country girl through and through i take care of my father full time so flying to texas is out of the question lol
oh..you don't have to do the flying dear..i will do it for you. just buy me the plane tickets
friends4now: how did i know youd get here eventually JD how are you doing today
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Its 10.00am ,Saturday morning here in New Zealand .....Done what needed to done,Kids are doing there chores....Then in the late Afternoon of to the Gym ,to do a Gym workout where my Kids get there revenge on me,and turn there Dad into a 'Cripple'..................... ..... ..... ....Is 'Seekndestroy' here.????....This post would be right up his alley.......?????????????...... J.D
ButterflyAngyl83: if i were buyin a plane ticket it would be to get me away not the other way around lol
mylifewithu: Everyone can get hurt especially if we jump into something too soon without truely getting to know the other person.
Even then I want to say good and Bad people get hurt, cause I promise the bad men that I did get and thought they loved me, well I hurt them. I Left them So see they get hurt too. I don't need mistreated, but I did have to learn a lesson about taking my time to date and keep my heart out of it until I know him.
Even then I want to say good and Bad people get hurt, cause I promise the bad men that I did get and thought they loved me, well I hurt them. I Left them So see they get hurt too. I don't need mistreated, but I did have to learn a lesson about taking my time to date and keep my heart out of it until I know him.
Amen
The voice of reason amongst oh-my-poor-sensitive-heart crap.
If s/he is not that into you, whether you are too good or too bad, doesn't matter. Staying in a relationship is not a charity.
Training all these overly sensitive hearts to be a little sensitive towards others too, not just towards themselves, helps to lessen the pain.
Laura25: Amen
The voice of reason amongst oh-my-poor-sensitive-heart crap.
If s/he is not that into you, whether you are too good or too bad, doesn't matter. Staying in a relationship is not a charity.
Training all these overly sensitive hearts to be a little sensitive towards others too, not just towards themselves, helps to lessen the pain.
The voice of reason amongst oh-my-poor-sensitive-heart crap.
If s/he is not that into you, whether you are too good or too bad, doesn't matter. Staying in a relationship is not a charity.
Training all these overly sensitive hearts to be a little sensitive towards others too, not just towards themselves, helps to lessen the pain.
<---overly sensitive....I think the ones with the hard hearts need to come our way more...would make for a better world.
jeepers: Because the guys are the ones who make good friends. Seems like the "good girls" want the good looking tough guys with no brains.JMO.
Thats a Roger on that Good Buddie!
A Big 10-4, We Copy, LOUD AND CLEAR, Dont leave home with out your Helmet, and Body armor, and Sword, and Horse
Kinda Rought Out Here For A Guy with a Good Heart, But somebodys gotta do it!
mbcasey: <---overly sensitive....
I think the ones with the hard hearts need to come our way more...would make for a better world.
I think the ones with the hard hearts need to come our way more...would make for a better world.
Ken, in my year here on CS never did I hear you complaining that you are too good for the world or for the woman.
What I did see - you giving of yourself not demending of others
Read through this thread, you'll see what I mean.
superman27: i always get hurt all the time i treat her very good and im single and i always get cheated on and i always get played i know how to treat a girl why do we all get hurt all the time
Why do you get hurt..... because you have an ecpectation that every woman will treat you the same way as you will treat them.... not true !
Wake up and smell the coffee. !
There are many good women out there, who WILL treat you with respect, but there are many more who will not.
Be cautious, don't give your heart so freely, take your time and find the right one.
Many people, both men and women think they know what they want, but they don't.... in the meantime people like you get hurt.
Take your time, and it may take a long time, but you will find someone to love.... just don't fall in love with the first one that comes along and makes the right noises !!!
Laura25: Ken, in my year here on CS never did I hear you complaining that you are too good for the world or for the woman.
What I did see - you giving of yourself not demending of others
Read through this thread, you'll see what I mean.
What I did see - you giving of yourself not demending of others
Read through this thread, you'll see what I mean.
virgiomonkey: ............ Its 10.00am ,Saturday morning here in New Zealand .....Done what needed to done,Kids are doing there chores....Then in the late Afternoon of to the Gym ,to do a Gym workout where my Kids get there revenge on me,and turn there Dad into a 'Cripple'..................... ..... ..... ....Is 'Seekndestroy' here.????....This post would be right up his alley.......?????????????...... J.D
yes this IS his type of thread but I have not seen him today---i'm sure he will be soon enough though
The only people who get hurt are those that expect those who hurt them to not do so. Life is a BEEP. If ya get played walk away or play back.
Why are there posts that answer and question with a question?
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Do you know "tender heart" by Lionel Richie? Such a special song