can anyone tell me why good men get hurt (128)
Polarbutterfly: IMO,good men are hurt because
they make themselves vulnerable
to people who take advantage of
their good nature.
they make themselves vulnerable
to people who take advantage of
their good nature.
amen
Polarbutterfly: IMO,good men are hurt because
they make themselves vulnerable
to people who take advantage of
their good nature.
guess,thats why nice guys finish last.view,never changes,unless your the lead dog,lol.they make themselves vulnerable
to people who take advantage of
their good nature.
Boban1: Hi
yep thats me big as life and twice as ugly....
(Serbia got the silver medal in basketball last night)
yep thats me big as life and twice as ugly....
(Serbia got the silver medal in basketball last night)
Rubbish... I dont think that at all...
Actually quite the opposite...
- well done, re basketball.
superman27: i always get hurt all the time i treat her very good and im single and i always get cheated on and i always get played i know how to treat a girl why do we all get hurt all the time
Many you allowed yourself to get hurt
She went back with her ex-boyfriend.....Amongst many other unmentionable wrong-doings.
Forgive me for making light of my own misfortune.
Forgive me for making light of my own misfortune.
I am just saying alot allowed themselves to get hurt..
and see what is in front of them but rather ignore reality
and see what is in front of them but rather ignore reality
....and "return" comes from HIS disillusionment that he has some sort of ownership of her.
He was possesive, jealous, and physically abusive toward her...and somehow I ended up alone....
She is broken for wanting to go back to that.
He was possesive, jealous, and physically abusive toward her...and somehow I ended up alone....
She is broken for wanting to go back to that.
Why do you want someone like that anyway..
I know its hard to move on..but pls dont stoop to this low..
You deserve someone to love you like you love them
I know its hard to move on..but pls dont stoop to this low..
You deserve someone to love you like you love them
Um...
My last two posts where in reference to someone saying they did not like a joke I made about "returning my ex girlfriend to her ex-boyfriend and not getting my money back".
....I don't want to be with her.
My last two posts where in reference to someone saying they did not like a joke I made about "returning my ex girlfriend to her ex-boyfriend and not getting my money back".
....I don't want to be with her.
...And I know damn well she herself would think that joke is hilarious.
Okay was thinking you were talking about urself..
My bad..
Sometimes peopld dont have a sense of humor
My bad..
Sometimes peopld dont have a sense of humor
I see why you were confused.....for some reason I tried to quote the lady I was talking to, but, well, I guess it didn't work.
superman27: i always get hurt all the time i treat her very good and im single and i always get cheated on and i always get played i know how to treat a girl why do we all get hurt all the time
Becoz Good man present thier goodwishes wth white clean white and most women need players and dishonestthey like beauty and location not Honesty and sincerity
Those who know good and put out a hand of friendship and love among mostly jackels will get hurt. People re getting far from kindness, love, compassion....etc. Their children are not taught it and Tv teaches the other because of money.....people love the bad and laugh at the good. A rose in a crack in the street gets run over and crushed. But a rose growing in the garden of a gardening person is cared about and cherished. Pick carefully were you try to put roots.......because MOST soil in not fit for life grand!
RillyNiceGuy: Those who know good and put out a hand of friendship and love among mostly jackels will get hurt. People re getting far from kindness, love, compassion....etc. Their children are not taught it and Tv teaches the other because of money.....people love the bad and laugh at the good. A rose in a crack in the street gets run over and crushed. But a rose growing in the garden of a gardening person is cared about and cherished. Pick carefully were you try to put roots.......because MOST soil in not fit for life grand!
I read something yesterday...
Gardening tip: When picking weeds, make sure they are weeds and not flowers by pulling on the stem. You will know the difference because flowers will come out of the ground with ease.
Not that it really touched me or anything....just think it fits
Most people like a challenge in life...if you give easily...others will take easily...I have learned my lesson....there is a great deal of pleasure in giving to others but when it is abused that pleasure is robbed from you. It will harden you and change your character. We all need to be appreciated and respected more than all...Here's to the good people out there..
jbarnes8: I read something yesterday...
Gardening tip: When picking weeds, make sure they are weeds and not flowers by pulling on the stem. You will know the difference because flowers will come out of the ground with ease.
Not that it really touched me or anything....just think it fits
Good point....i like it!Gardening tip: When picking weeds, make sure they are weeds and not flowers by pulling on the stem. You will know the difference because flowers will come out of the ground with ease.
Not that it really touched me or anything....just think it fits
I am a strong person.....I know I am because I pulled up a weed once and the Whole world had hold of the other end of it.....and I still got it.
I think alot of men confuse how it is with how the want it. Nice people tend to view people through nice lenses, so they are easily manipulated. The other edge of the sword is that realism brings cynicism, making it harder to make connections. So to avoid getting shat on you have to be a strong man and hold some of your cards close to the vest, but dont be such a hardass you dont become unapproachable or cold.
I think in general physical attraction is more primal than we think, the bad boy type would reign over the nice guy type for most of humanities time here, this civilization business is pretty new. So I think it may be true that women like mean guys but may be unable to help it.lol..
I think in general physical attraction is more primal than we think, the bad boy type would reign over the nice guy type for most of humanities time here, this civilization business is pretty new. So I think it may be true that women like mean guys but may be unable to help it.lol..
RobbieM: Well some people see other people as something to use and discard like an old dishcloth.
Sometimes i think i'm on the wrong planet with the wrong species when i see some people try to treat other the way they do.
As for me, well i am unwilling to be taken for a ride around the paddock any more so i've taken up trying to do achievements on xbox games instead!!
That maybe a waste of time, but then the game doesnt want to be taken around to visit someone or be bought dinner before throwing up which lots of people seem to love doing in the UK on a friday or saturday night.
Sod that, i'd rather be playing a game, being attacked by my pets than be taken for a fool, so i like friendly nice people, not the kind who try to see what they can get out of people like their a vending machine in a snack bar.
Sometimes i think i'm on the wrong planet with the wrong species when i see some people try to treat other the way they do.
As for me, well i am unwilling to be taken for a ride around the paddock any more so i've taken up trying to do achievements on xbox games instead!!
That maybe a waste of time, but then the game doesnt want to be taken around to visit someone or be bought dinner before throwing up which lots of people seem to love doing in the UK on a friday or saturday night.
Sod that, i'd rather be playing a game, being attacked by my pets than be taken for a fool, so i like friendly nice people, not the kind who try to see what they can get out of people like their a vending machine in a snack bar.
hi i agree with you is my guitar for me aleast it has the shape of woman's body oh i can dream lol
good men accept everything and take everything positive
Everyone gets hurt some stage in life ,whether they are good or not so good! Nature of the beast, that includes men and woman ,good and bad!.
RobertC2: You not nice girl. You hurt man big time. You evil. You hide behind dark glasses. I like you!
... now You asking for TROUBLE ... 
Excellent look at it all. Thanks ..
Big_John: I try; therefore, I get hurt sometimes. So what! I get up and start over again. One time there will be no 'hurt', but the right one there for me.
Good attitude!
The only way NOT to get hurt is to preotect yourself and deny the possibility of ever loving again or being loved or getting hurt.
It takes a brave man or woman to allow love back into their lives when they have been badly hurt in the past.
Luckily there are many brave, decent, good men and women all over the world!
You Good Guys get hurt for the same reason we Good Women get hurt, we can be too trusting. But as John said, We try again and one day we will find the one.
superman27: i always get hurt all the time i treat her very good and im single and i always get cheated on and i always get played i know how to treat a girl why do we all get hurt all the time
most men that say this think they are nice when in reality they are spineless or they are pushovers. men need to stick up for themselves and not be so insecure and realize they need to be respected.
just the fact that you have a teddy bear and a cheerleader in this post is a bit whimpy. Toughen up and be respected instead of trying to convince women you are so sweet and sensitive. I bet it works. Good luck.
Anyone ever heard the saying, [Nice Guys Finish Last] 
Good people will be rewarded one day
mjames: most men that say this think they are nice when in reality they are spineless or they are pushovers. men need to stick up for themselves and not be so insecure and realize they need to be respected.
just the fact that you have a teddy bear and a cheerleader in this post is a bit whimpy. Toughen up and be respected instead of trying to convince women you are so sweet and sensitive. I bet it works. Good luck.
just the fact that you have a teddy bear and a cheerleader in this post is a bit whimpy. Toughen up and be respected instead of trying to convince women you are so sweet and sensitive. I bet it works. Good luck.
Well said.
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Out of the blue statement... but guess its you hey
Hi Boban, hows your country and life at the moment.?
Hi
yep thats me big as life and twice as ugly....
(Serbia got the silver medal in basketball last night)