can anyone tell me why good men get hurt (128)
Laura25: Amen
The voice of reason amongst oh-my-poor-sensitive-heart crap.
If s/he is not that into you, whether you are too good or too bad, doesn't matter. Staying in a relationship is not a charity.
Training all these overly sensitive hearts to be a little sensitive towards others too, not just towards themselves, helps to lessen the pain.
The voice of reason amongst oh-my-poor-sensitive-heart crap.
If s/he is not that into you, whether you are too good or too bad, doesn't matter. Staying in a relationship is not a charity.
Training all these overly sensitive hearts to be a little sensitive towards others too, not just towards themselves, helps to lessen the pain.
Laura, you can be such a hard-hearted woman, but I like you anyway................ will you please die your hair blonde and pretend to be dumb again just for me? Pretty please?
I've always said that true love should not hurt; if somebody gets hurt it isn't true love as love is something wonderful and supportive and not insane and should never turn nasty.
Please note the saying:
'Practice what I preach, not what I do'
as I've suffered from being bitter in the past, although I really do love most people and could never hold a grudge for long except for a few exceptions!
RobertC2: Laura, you can be such a hard-hearted woman, but I like you anyway................ will you please die your hair blonde and pretend to be dumb again just for me? Pretty please?
I've always said that true love should not hurt; if somebody gets hurt it isn't true love as love is something wonderful and supportive and not insane and should never turn nasty.
Please note the saying:
'Practice what I preach, not what I do'
as I've suffered from being bitter in the past, although I really do love most people and could never hold a grudge for long except for a few exceptions!
I've always said that true love should not hurt; if somebody gets hurt it isn't true love as love is something wonderful and supportive and not insane and should never turn nasty.
Please note the saying:
'Practice what I preach, not what I do'
as I've suffered from being bitter in the past, although I really do love most people and could never hold a grudge for long except for a few exceptions!
DYE your hair not die..... that was a Freudian slip of mine dreaming of experiencing 'le petit mort' avec toi, my darling! 
RobertC2: DYE your hair not die..... that was a Freudian slip of mine dreaming of experiencing 'le petit mort' avec toi, my darling!
Nice people, good people, sensitive people get hurt more easily than those who are a bit harder. However, also people who are too needy, too dependent, and who choose the object of their affection less carefully tend to get hurt more often.Good people, nasty people; we all got hurt sometime but some people are just good at camouflaging or dealing with the pain. The only point is how often and that'd more for those who jump into a relationship with an open heart while wearing an earplug and eye mask.
ChanceAre: Good people, nasty people; we all got hurt sometime but some people are just good at camouflaging or dealing with the pain. The only point is how often and that'd more for those who jump into a relationship with an open heart while wearing an earplug and eye mask.
i've never jumped into a relationship wearing an earplug and eye mask but nice try at the allegory. bonus points for having real pics not fake model pics in your profile!
ChanceAre: Good people, nasty people; we all got hurt sometime but some people are just good at camouflaging or dealing with the pain. The only point is how often and that'd more for those who jump into a relationship with an open heart while wearing an earplug and eye mask.
You're not that ugly darlin'!
cristina: Because good hearts are normally extra sensitive
and thats the same in both genders 
Folks treat us the way we allow them too..
if this always happens op then you need to stop blaming all the women and start looking at why you are choosing so poorly.
So many people like to blame everyone else but many times people choose others that are bad for them but they can't, or won't see the truth.
AGain, if you stop being the victim and start honing up to what you might be doing wrong, you will be a much happier person.
If you pick poorly, it doesnt' matter how good you act, you will get hurt. Good people dont' make bad people good. If you choose a cheater, you get a cheater.
Look at what you can do to make things better; pick a good person, and it will end up good. Also many that say they are good, are more of pushovers than good. I dont know you so I dont know but its' up to you; I wish you luck.
So many people like to blame everyone else but many times people choose others that are bad for them but they can't, or won't see the truth.
AGain, if you stop being the victim and start honing up to what you might be doing wrong, you will be a much happier person.
If you pick poorly, it doesnt' matter how good you act, you will get hurt. Good people dont' make bad people good. If you choose a cheater, you get a cheater.
Look at what you can do to make things better; pick a good person, and it will end up good. Also many that say they are good, are more of pushovers than good. I dont know you so I dont know but its' up to you; I wish you luck.
morgan5: and thats the same in both genders
....................Very True.....
J.D
Probably for the very same reasons us women get hurt too.
somechick: Probably for the very same reasons us women get hurt too.
Sad, isn't it!
RobertC2: Sad, isn't it!
Yes it is very sad on how someone can just knowingly and purposely hurt another human being and then disgard them like they're yesterdays trash.
somechick: Yes it is very sad on how someone can just knowingly and purposely hurt another human being and then disgard them like they're yesterdays trash.
I'd never do that.
One can joke around all day, but human relationships are way too important to treat lightly............ plus ladies can come back and stab you in the back, or even in the front, and then your romancing days could be over - for ever!
RobertC2: I'd never do that.
One can joke around all day, but human relationships are way too important to treat lightly............ plus ladies can come back and stab you in the back, or even in the front, and then your romancing days could be over - for ever!
One can joke around all day, but human relationships are way too important to treat lightly............ plus ladies can come back and stab you in the back, or even in the front, and then your romancing days could be over - for ever!
It's not in my nature to hurt anyone either.
somechick: It's not in my nature to hurt anyone either.
Same with you. but I do always be hurt.
because it's very easy for me to trust a person.
But it's good that very easy for me to forget those unhappy thing.
Amenda: Same with you. but I do always be hurt. because it's very easy for me to trust a person.
But it's good that very easy for me to forget those unhappy thing.
But it's good that very easy for me to forget those unhappy thing.
No need to get hurt. Your heart is good.
Confuscius, he say:
'Woman with good heart no get hurt if she drive man wild slowly'
Don't be in too great a rush.
Allow friendship to blossom like flower on tree or waterlily slowly growing in pond of life.
RobertC2: No need to get hurt. Your heart is good.
Confuscius, he say:
'Woman with good heart no get hurt if she drive man wild slowly'
Don't be in too great a rush.
Allow friendship to blossom like flower on tree or waterlily slowly growing in pond of life.
Confuscius, he say:
'Woman with good heart no get hurt if she drive man wild slowly'
Don't be in too great a rush.
Allow friendship to blossom like flower on tree or waterlily slowly growing in pond of life.
where is Confucius??
Boringgggggggggg
i think we are old enough to just get on with life again ,at the time it hurts but life goes on , better to have crashed and burnt than to never have flown at all 
RobertC2: No need to get hurt. Your heart is good.
Confuscius, he say:
'Woman with good heart no get hurt if she drive man wild slowly'
Don't be in too great a rush.
Allow friendship to blossom like flower on tree or waterlily slowly growing in pond of life.
Confuscius, he say:
'Woman with good heart no get hurt if she drive man wild slowly'
Don't be in too great a rush.
Allow friendship to blossom like flower on tree or waterlily slowly growing in pond of life.
Yes, I exchange emails with my freinds everyday, their emails just like clear sweet water make my heart very comfortable. Friendship is just like waterlily blossom in pond of life.
superman27: i always get hurt all the time i treat her very good and im single and i always get cheated on and i always get played i know how to treat a girl why do we all get hurt all the time
We all get hurt honey some of us are more sensitive and caring than others....
cause they trying to hurt nice girls and don't succeed... 
Amenda: Yes, I exchange emails with my freinds everyday, their emails just like clear sweet water make my heart very comfortable. Friendship is just like waterlily blossom in pond of life.
Nice!
hyoscyamus: cause they trying to hurt nice girls and don't succeed...
You not nice girl. You hurt man big time. You evil. You hide behind dark glasses. I like you!
superman27: i always get hurt all the time i treat her very good and im single and i always get cheated on and i always get played i know how to treat a girl why do we all get hurt all the time
There is your problem
Women don`t want to be treated good or nice
they may say the opposite but subconsciously the want to be treated like ....
Because good woman also get hurt always...so...that's only a balance made by God...
Boban1: There is your problem
Women don`t want to be treated good or nice
they may say the opposite but subconsciously the want to be treated like ....
Women don`t want to be treated good or nice
they may say the opposite but subconsciously the want to be treated like ....
Whoa..... stop.... where did that come from???????????????
Out of the blue statement... but guess its you hey
Hi Boban, hows your country and life at the moment.?
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I hear what you are saying, but this is happening all over. I would bend over backwards for someone only to be cheated and mistreated.