How you prefer to be? (82)

Sep 17, 2009 1:45 AM CST How you prefer to be?
WhovianGeneva
WhovianGenevaWhovianGenevaGeneva, Switzerland28 Threads 1 Polls 466 Posts
Marriage is not important for me, but if my (future) companion want it, I'm open.


I just to say to her that she's my companion (ahead ?) of (my) God.
Sep 17, 2009 2:01 AM CST How you prefer to be?
hualapaiguy
hualapaiguyhualapaiguyKingman, Arizona USA146 Posts
somechick: I'd much rather have a partner and no marriage.Then if it doesn't work out we both can go our separete ways.Just easier is all.He takes what's his and I keep what's mine.

Boy, THERE's commitment!!! lol.
Sep 17, 2009 3:37 AM CST How you prefer to be?
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
zax80: What's your possiton on that?


Holy cow, when I read the thread header, I wanted to say "well done" as opposed to "medium rare" or "English." laugh
Sep 17, 2009 7:28 AM CST How you prefer to be?
zax80
zax80zax80Troyan, Lovech Bulgaria8 Threads 8 Polls 33 Posts
Who care?
Everyone is here for fun. Maybe would be better to type the header at russian or bulgarian. rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 17, 2009 7:30 AM CST How you prefer to be?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
i rather to have a partner,to learn each other then later on if marriage is needed not hard to decide.
Sep 17, 2009 7:32 AM CST How you prefer to be?
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Boban1: It does`nt really matter .... as long as i am happy with it...


lol It?!!!! Hmmm ... uh oh


But you know .. i agree with you.
thumbs up
Sep 17, 2009 7:33 AM CST How you prefer to be?
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
zax80: Who care?
Everyone is here for fun. Maybe would be better to type the header at russian or bulgarian.


popytaisya na Russkom ... maybe someone will atwtit na tvoi thread grin
Sep 17, 2009 7:37 AM CST How you prefer to be?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
zax80: What's your possiton on that?


Are you saying you can't have an intimate relationship if you're married? confused

Ahhh.............. you can have maybe an intimate relationship with somebody else other than your marriage partner?

I think one CAN have an intimate relationship with your marriage partner...... well, until it gets really really really boring until the tv suddenly becomes more attractive - for both of you!

Yikes!

Relationships require work!

No sweat no gain.

Oh......how I adore a sweaty woman! smitten
Sep 17, 2009 7:38 AM CST How you prefer to be?
zax80
zax80zax80Troyan, Lovech Bulgaria8 Threads 8 Polls 33 Posts
krisha: i rather to have a partner,to learn each other then later on if marriage is needed not hard to decide.

It sounds nice!
Sep 17, 2009 7:39 AM CST How you prefer to be?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
krisha: i rather to have a partner,to learn each other then later on if marriage is needed not hard to decide.


When can we start 'learn each other'? batting
Sep 17, 2009 7:45 AM CST How you prefer to be?
hualapaiguy: Boy, THERE's commitment!!! lol.



You can live together and still have a commitment.Sheesh.laugh
Sep 17, 2009 7:45 AM CST How you prefer to be?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
zax80: It sounds nice!


sometimes a bad experience teach us how to do the right things ,if we repeat again the same things we did before like we just fell inlove to someone and we quick decide to marry again then later on will ended in seperate or divorce,then no one will be blame,just ourself...we should to think a hundred times before we decide.jmo..wine
Sep 17, 2009 7:51 AM CST How you prefer to be?
zax80
zax80zax80Troyan, Lovech Bulgaria8 Threads 8 Polls 33 Posts
krisha: sometimes a bad experience teach us how to do the right things ,if we repeat again the same things we did before like we just fell inlove to someone and we quick decide to marry again then later on will ended in seperate or divorce,then no one will be blame,just ourself...we should to think a hundred times before we decide.jmo..


Yes, I agree with that wine
The time shows if ppl are good enough to become married or not.
Sep 17, 2009 7:55 AM CST How you prefer to be?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
RobertC2: When can we start 'learn each other'?


u choose,my birthday or christmass?laugh
Sep 17, 2009 7:57 AM CST How you prefer to be?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
krisha: u choose,my birthday or christmass?


When's your birthday? grin

I might need to consult my diary......... dunno
Sep 17, 2009 7:59 AM CST How you prefer to be?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
RobertC2: When's your birthday?

I might need to consult my diary.........


febuary 30grin
Sep 17, 2009 8:00 AM CST How you prefer to be?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
krisha: febuary 30


Bad gurl.......... bad, bad gurl!

I'll have to choose Christmas then!

grin
Sep 20, 2009 12:44 PM CST How you prefer to be?
Entwangled
EntwangledEntwangledBerkshire, England UK7 Threads 103 Posts
I've always been quite happy when single so single is with me.

I've never really thought about marriage much as it's not been something I've wanted in the relationships I have been in.

With a partner but no marriage...yep, I'm as happy with that as I am with being single,,as long as we're both happy in the relationship.

Intimate relationship just seems a bit pointless to me really and one or the other is likely to start to feel some kind of bond and get hurt.


Having said all that it just comes down to being happy in whichever situation you're in.
Sep 21, 2009 12:16 PM CST How you prefer to be?
ContraryCol
ContraryColContraryColcrawley, West Sussex, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 601 Posts
That is an impossible question to answer for me.
There have been times when I was married that I craved singledom as well as times when ive loved being married.
Then there has been times when ive been single when ive craved for someone close,to cuddle and talk intimately with,as well as times when ive felt that im well out of a relationship.
Then theres been times ive enjoyed having a run of short relationships/one off dates,then been fed up of them and wanted much more than that.
I guess that the bottom line is that,for many of us,we are never totally satisfied for long.
Maybe we expect too much out of life?

dunno
Sep 21, 2009 12:17 PM CST How you prefer to be?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
ContraryCol: That is an impossible question to answer for me.
There have been times when I was married that I craved singledom as well as times when ive loved being married.
Then there has been times when ive been single when ive craved for someone close,to cuddle and talk intimately with,as well as times when ive felt that im well out of a relationship.
Then theres been times ive enjoyed having a run of short relationships/one off dates,then been fed up of them and wanted much more than that.
I guess that the bottom line is that,for many of us,we are never totally satisfied for long.
Maybe we expect too much out of life?


I reckon you're 'normal' - sad, innit?

dunno moping
Sep 21, 2009 12:30 PM CST How you prefer to be?
ContraryCol
ContraryColContraryColcrawley, West Sussex, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 601 Posts
RobertC2: I reckon you're 'normal' - sad, innit?

If I knew what normal was then I may be able to answer that question too!!
dunno
frustrated
Sep 21, 2009 12:32 PM CST How you prefer to be?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
ContraryCol: If I knew what normal was then I may be able to answer that question too!!


Normal to me is 'FINE'

F'd up!

Insecure!

Neurotic!

Emotional!

Well, at least I know I'm 'fine'! thumbs up

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