Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date? ( Archived) (44)

Oct 26, 2009 6:10 AM CSTDo you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts

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well, like me, I somewhat from different family background so my mom told me i can't have boyfriend or date before i gradudate from University.Besides, I don't want to oppose my mom or hurt her either...


so...tell me..
Do you think youth around my age need permission from the parents to have a date or to have boyfriend/girlfriend?

bouquet bouquet
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Oct 26, 2009 6:11 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
Nope
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Oct 26, 2009 6:12 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
pubwrite08: Nope


haha..cooltongue wave
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Oct 26, 2009 6:14 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
I think the cultural differences may be coming into this, as well as your Mum being worried it may affect your studies. Western beliefs are different to Eastern in many ways, in the West i would say no it would rarely happen. wine
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Oct 26, 2009 6:16 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
Hey, Morgon..wave
Do you what going with thailand culture now?



thanks for advice..yes, she told me excatly like you said..she worry about my study...bouquet bouquet
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Oct 26, 2009 6:21 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
moonlove: Hey, Morgon..
Do you what going with thailand culture now?
thanks for advice..yes, she told me excatly like you said..she worry about my study...
wave No not really but i did live an Asian country and learnt abit about culture and saw that parental opinion was very important in the family, and is listened to,

Sure your Mum wants the best for you hug

Not saying either way is wrong, just different bouquet
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Oct 26, 2009 6:25 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
morgan5: No not really but i did live an Asian country and learnt abit about culture and saw that parental opinion was very important in the family, and is listened to,

Sure your Mum wants the best for you

Not saying either way is wrong, just different



yesss,I love her...grin cheers hug
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Oct 26, 2009 6:28 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
moonlove: yesss,I love her...
hug wine
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Oct 26, 2009 6:29 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
Lee464
Lee464Lee464Surin, Northeastern Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 397 Posts
moonlove you live in Thailand and are asking people who mostly don't live in Thailand for advice on something that is very cultural. Thai culture and western culture are vastly different so it's not the best idea to consult Falang about a Thai family problem...better to ask your classmates and friends.


90% of western falang will answer no to your question because they don't understand the cultural dynamics involved. I don't see it as a yes or no question...more like consult your feelings about your mom and your need for a boyfriend and find out which is stronger...also consider the pros and cons of each situation and make the decision that hurts you the least.

Tough choice I know but put some effort into it and I'm sure you'll work it out.
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Oct 26, 2009 6:30 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Lee464: moonlove you live in Thailand and are asking people who mostly don't live in Thailand for advice on something that is very cultural. Thai culture and western culture are vastly different so it's not the best idea to consult Falang about a Thai family problem...better to ask your classmates and friends.90% of western falang will answer no to your question because they don't understand the cultural dynamics involved. I don't see it as a yes or no question...more like consult your feelings about your mom and your need for a boyfriend and find out which is stronger...also consider the pros and cons of each situation and make the decision that hurts you the least.

Tough choice I know but put some effort into it and I'm sure you'll work it out.
Exactly wine
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Oct 26, 2009 6:32 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
Lee464: moonlove you live in Thailand and are asking people who mostly don't live in Thailand for advice on something that is very cultural. Thai culture and western culture are vastly different so it's not the best idea to consult Falang about a Thai family problem...better to ask your classmates and friends.90% of western falang will answer no to your question because they don't understand the cultural dynamics involved. I don't see it as a yes or no question...more like consult your feelings about your mom and your need for a boyfriend and find out which is stronger...also consider the pros and cons of each situation and make the decision that hurts you the least.

Tough choice I know but put some effort into it and I'm sure you'll work it out.


yes, you got smart ideas, I agree.....thanks...

sad flower
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Oct 26, 2009 6:34 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
hey UrDreamsCumTru

thanks for advice as well...hmmmmm...tough job..bouquet bouquet
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Oct 26, 2009 6:40 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
lonelyrk
lonelyrklonelyrkwestville, Illinois USA20 Threads 3 Polls 230 Posts
moonlove: well, like me, I somewhat from different family background so my mom told me i can't have boyfriend or date before i gradudate from University.Besides, I don't want to oppose my mom or hurt her either...so...tell me..
Do you think youth around my age need permission from the parents to have a date or to have boyfriend/girlfriend?
it is your life,your mom as to just deal with it.
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Oct 26, 2009 6:43 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
Lee464
Lee464Lee464Surin, Northeastern Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 397 Posts
lonelyrk: it is your life,your mom as to just deal with it.


Dead wrong...
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Oct 26, 2009 6:45 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
passion8
passion8passion8Shropshire, England UK3 Threads 158 Posts
Well, I suppose it depends on what age you really are. Your profile says 21, but you look more like 14.....
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Oct 26, 2009 6:48 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
kezza007
kezza007kezza007brisbane, Queensland Australia27 Threads 1 Polls 1,541 Posts
moonlove: well, like me, I somewhat from different family background so my mom told me i can't have boyfriend or date before i gradudate from University.Besides, I don't want to oppose my mom or hurt her either...so...tell me..
Do you think youth around my age need permission from the parents to have a date or to have boyfriend/girlfriend?



I don't think you need permission at your age, but in mind every culture can be different and speaking with parents on the issues is always a good thing.. cheers
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Oct 26, 2009 6:50 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
moonlove: well, like me, I somewhat from different family background so my mom told me i can't have boyfriend or date before i gradudate from University.Besides, I don't want to oppose my mom or hurt her either...so...tell me..
Do you think youth around my age need permission from the parents to have a date or to have boyfriend/girlfriend?


It all depends on Cultural and Famyly background.

Sorry I cannot answer your question. Sorry!

conversing
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Oct 26, 2009 6:50 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
passion8: Well, I suppose it depends on what age you really are. Your profile says 21, but you look more like 14.....


hey...passion8
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Oct 26, 2009 6:51 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
kezza007: I don't think you need permission at your age, but in mind every culture can be different and speaking with parents on the issues is always a good thing.. cheers



hehe, parents...NO NO NO and NO.....bouquet grin
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Oct 26, 2009 6:52 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
Lee464
Lee464Lee464Surin, Northeastern Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 397 Posts
Konigsberg: It all depends on Cultural and Famyly background.

Sorry I cannot answer your question. Sorry!


damn good answer!! Shows intelligence.handshake cheers
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Oct 26, 2009 6:57 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Lee464: damn good answer!! Shows intelligence.



Life, Counries, Cultures, People - are Different Universes

Thanks Lee cheers handshake
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Oct 26, 2009 7:00 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
Odysseus101
Odysseus101Odysseus101Roma, Lazio Italy46 Threads 12 Polls 925 Posts
I personally think all women should be in a nunnery until age 30...none of this western decadence, thank you!!..professor
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Oct 26, 2009 7:01 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
Lee464
Lee464Lee464Surin, Northeastern Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 397 Posts
Odysseus101: I personally think all women should be in a nunnery until age 30...none of this western decadence, thank you!!..



What are you...a priest? laugh laugh
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Oct 26, 2009 7:01 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
Odysseus101
Odysseus101Odysseus101Roma, Lazio Italy46 Threads 12 Polls 925 Posts
No, a transvestite nun...angel

Lee464: What are you...a priest?
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Oct 26, 2009 7:04 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Odysseus101: I personally think all women should be in a nunnery until age 30...none of this western decadence, thank you!!..
idea
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Oct 26, 2009 7:06 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Lee464: What are you...a priest?


He is lesbian priestess sounds oxymoron huh? laugh

Thanks, two of you laugh Gotta go! Garden is waiting wave
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Oct 26, 2009 7:06 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
Odysseus101
Odysseus101Odysseus101Roma, Lazio Italy46 Threads 12 Polls 925 Posts
Sorry Konig....application not accepted....you'd make a lousy nun...cool
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Oct 26, 2009 7:08 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
Odysseus101
Odysseus101Odysseus101Roma, Lazio Italy46 Threads 12 Polls 925 Posts
GARDEN??!!....bloody GARDEN??!!...this is the first time I've been stood up for a cabbage!!...doh

Konigsberg: He is lesbian priestess sounds oxymoron huh?

Thanks, two of you laugh Gotta go! Garden is waiting
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Oct 26, 2009 7:09 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Odysseus101: Sorry Konig....application not accepted....you'd make a lousy nun...


i know ... and anyway too late to be the one. I am spoiled with life moping
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Oct 26, 2009 7:11 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Odysseus101: GARDEN??!!....bloody GARDEN??!!...this is the first time I've been stood up for a cabbage!!...


Cabagges are dead they were frozen to death by the frost. laugh

Be Good, Italian ( if you can, of course) wave grin
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Oct 26, 2009 8:29 AM CST Do you think youth around my age need permission from parents to have a date?
moonlove
moonlovemoonlovechiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand79 Threads 29 Polls 650 Posts
Odysseus101: I personally think all women should be in a nunnery until age 30...none of this western decadence, thank you!!..


Really? >confused roll eyes roll eyes
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