do you ever worry about ending up alone in life? (82)

Nov 2, 2009 7:58 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
UrDreamsCumTru: We will all be alone if you are not willing to let others in. Humans were designed to be social and compassionate. Being "strong" does not mean total independence to the point of isolation a brave person is strong enough to get hurt but no dwell, to love and loose yet still give some1 else a chance.
There are so many people out there you will only be alone if you choose to be. If thats what you want fair enough. But why are you on this site.
I believe every single person on this earth wants to connect with others they want to be understood. They might not yet have the tools for this, it takes time concious effort but above all hope.
Don't get caught in the trap of numbness, each bitter breath will decay wour mind more. This air is toxic and untill you try to break away from it, it will consume you. I may be young but I know. It took me over, nearly smothered and killed me. I'm free now I can breathe! We all deserve happiness but you have to believe that for yourself,when you do and feel comfort in your own skin you will find it. This feeling will fill you up and you will never again be alone! xxx


This is a Great words Of Wisdom! And Well saidteddybear teddybear bouquet
Nov 2, 2009 8:00 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
faulty
faultyfaultyhamilton, Waikato New Zealand7 Posts
too late to worry about that ,
im already alone sad flower
Nov 2, 2009 8:02 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Not at all, but I do sometimes think about something happening health wise and nobody is here to call an ambulance or resuscitate me! sigh

I´m sure there must be many people living alone who have suffered a heart attack for example, and died because nobody was around to help.
Nov 2, 2009 8:05 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
lion131: some people worry about this subject,strict.they think they will grow old alone,with nobody to love
its mostly that I wont have someone that really loves me in my older age it seems easier to love someone then finding someone that will love you back heart wings
Nov 2, 2009 8:21 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
lion131
lion131lion131wexford, Wexford Ireland230 Threads 236 Polls 826 Posts
Jan1305: Not at all, but I do sometimes think about something happening health wise and nobody is here to call an ambulance or resuscitate me!

I´m sure there must be many people living alone who have suffered a heart attack for example, and died because nobody was around to help.
yes,that would be a terrible situation.
Nov 2, 2009 8:22 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
lion131
lion131lion131wexford, Wexford Ireland230 Threads 236 Polls 826 Posts
lovely4u7da: its mostly that I wont have someone that really loves me in my older age it seems easier to love someone then finding someone that will love you back
teddybear teddybear
Nov 2, 2009 8:24 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
lion131: if you havent had a date for a long time,or if you have had a few dates recently,but all were disastrous,do you ever worry that you are destined to be alone in the future?


I think about the fact that I might be without a partner the rest of my life.

But that is different from being alone. I will always friends.

And no, I do not worry about it as such. I have to much to enjoy in life to bother about that.wine
Nov 2, 2009 8:25 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
venere08:

But that is different from being alone. I will have always friends.
Nov 2, 2009 8:25 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
Jan1305: Not at all, but I do sometimes think about something happening health wise and nobody is here to call an ambulance or resuscitate me!

I´m sure there must be many people living alone who have suffered a heart attack for example, and died because nobody was around to help.


hey jan1, since neither of us want to live alone all our lives, can we please start loving each other?dunno
Nov 2, 2009 8:47 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
Sundown40
Sundown40Sundown40Houston, Missouri USA4 Threads 1,418 Posts
mnowsa: hey jan1, since neither of us want to live alone all our lives, can we please start loving each other?


applause applause Send her a flower bouquet Say NICE things to her....It just might work handshake



thumbs up hug
Nov 2, 2009 8:59 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
Sundown40: Send her a flower Say NICE things to her....It just might work


applause Yes Being Positive, learning, and Maturing all go hand in Hand.... But it has to be more than empty words!
Nov 2, 2009 9:02 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
Sundown40
Sundown40Sundown40Houston, Missouri USA4 Threads 1,418 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Yes Being Positive, learning, and Maturing all go hand in Hand.... But it has to be more than empty words!



Very Very true Larry...thank you hug
Nov 2, 2009 9:09 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
loneliness is my friend. cool
Nov 2, 2009 9:12 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
Sundown40: Very Very true Larry...thank you


You are Welcome! Misswink


Hope this life dont find me alone! Na, Someone may end up Wanting Me!grin grin
Nov 2, 2009 9:19 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
Sundown40
Sundown40Sundown40Houston, Missouri USA4 Threads 1,418 Posts
jeepers: loneliness is my friend.


Loneliness is just a figment of your imagination scold It only captures you if you let it hug

teddybear teddybear
Nov 2, 2009 9:21 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
Sundown40
Sundown40Sundown40Houston, Missouri USA4 Threads 1,418 Posts
HotrodLarrys: You are Welcome! Miss Hope this life dont find me alone! Na, Someone may end up Wanting Me!


You know they will Hotrod...you're a great person, very intelligent and a wonderful friend. hug

teddybear teddybear
Nov 2, 2009 9:22 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Sundown40: Loneliness is just a figment of your imagination It only captures you if you let it
wink I know. Thanks for reminding me. I do have a choice to be or not to be lonely I guess. tongue

Right now, I will remain alone, but not lonely. How's that ?grin
Nov 2, 2009 9:26 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
Sundown40
Sundown40Sundown40Houston, Missouri USA4 Threads 1,418 Posts
jeepers: I know. Thanks for reminding me. I do have a choice to be or not to be lonely I guess.

Right now, I will remain alone, but not lonely. How's that ?



Move the dog over...and don't forget me this time at the airport! blues

tongue laugh
Nov 2, 2009 9:28 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
Billstv
BillstvBillstvchugiak, Alaska USA9 Posts
Yes all the time. I am 45 and a single dad. So yes it is on my mind.

Bill
Nov 3, 2009 8:34 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
lion131
lion131lion131wexford, Wexford Ireland230 Threads 236 Polls 826 Posts
venere08: I think about the fact that I might be without a partner the rest of my life.

But that is different from being alone. I will always friends.

And no, I do not worry about it as such. I have to much to enjoy in life to bother about that.
wine grin
Nov 3, 2009 8:36 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
lion131
lion131lion131wexford, Wexford Ireland230 Threads 236 Polls 826 Posts
Billstv: Yes all the time. I am 45 and a single dad. So yes it is on my mind.

Bill
i am sorry to hear that.best wishes to you.
Nov 3, 2009 8:37 PM CST do you ever worry about ending up alone in life?
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
Bot a chance.
devil
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