UrDreamsCumTru: We will all be alone if you are not willing to let others in. Humans were designed to be social and compassionate. Being "strong" does not mean total independence to the point of isolation a brave person is strong enough to get hurt but no dwell, to love and loose yet still give some1 else a chance. There are so many people out there you will only be alone if you choose to be. If thats what you want fair enough. But why are you on this site. I believe every single person on this earth wants to connect with others they want to be understood. They might not yet have the tools for this, it takes time concious effort but above all hope. Don't get caught in the trap of numbness, each bitter breath will decay wour mind more. This air is toxic and untill you try to break away from it, it will consume you. I may be young but I know. It took me over, nearly smothered and killed me. I'm free now I can breathe! We all deserve happiness but you have to believe that for yourself,when you do and feel comfort in your own skin you will find it. This feeling will fill you up and you will never again be alone! xxx
lovely4u7da: its mostly that I wont have someone that really loves me in my older age it seems easier to love someone then finding someone that will love you back
lion131: if you havent had a date for a long time,or if you have had a few dates recently,but all were disastrous,do you ever worry that you are destined to be alone in the future?
I think about the fact that I might be without a partner the rest of my life.
But that is different from being alone. I will always friends.
And no, I do not worry about it as such. I have to much to enjoy in life to bother about that.
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There are so many people out there you will only be alone if you choose to be. If thats what you want fair enough. But why are you on this site.
I believe every single person on this earth wants to connect with others they want to be understood. They might not yet have the tools for this, it takes time concious effort but above all hope.
Don't get caught in the trap of numbness, each bitter breath will decay wour mind more. This air is toxic and untill you try to break away from it, it will consume you. I may be young but I know. It took me over, nearly smothered and killed me. I'm free now I can breathe! We all deserve happiness but you have to believe that for yourself,when you do and feel comfort in your own skin you will find it. This feeling will fill you up and you will never again be alone! xxx
This is a Great words Of Wisdom! And Well said