Kattsrose: OK, you're just minding your own business when you spy a person of the "wrong" gender for you checking you out.
How do you feel about it.
We are all 'on parade' from the moment we step outside our homes to the time we lock ourselves in for the night...we see the world and the world sees us (and some expose themselves to the world on purpose!)...just shrug it off and have fun...
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
Kattsrose: OK, you're just minding your own business when you spy a person of the "wrong" gender for you checking you out.
How do you feel about it.
It could be a genuine mistake.... A few times I have clicked on a profile when I did'nt mean too.
Makes me feel quite embarrassed, thinking that the person may consider me to be gay.
When anyone looks at my profile, I am flattered but, if it's a male I am not interested so put it down to the fact they may have made the same mistake that I do.
Englishman55: It could be a genuine mistake.... A few times I have clicked on a profile when I did'nt mean too.
Makes me feel quite embarrassed, thinking that the person may consider me to be gay.
When anyone looks at my profile, I am flattered but, if it's a male I am not interested so put it down to the fact they may have made the same mistake that I do.
That's very true, I have clicked on a man's profile pic by mistake when trying to read their blog many times.
solitare: We are all 'on parade' from the moment we step outside our homes to the time we lock ourselves in for the night...we see the world and the world sees us (and some expose themselves to the world on purpose!)...just shrug it off and have fun...
Well, I could care less. Being a leo and all, out there in your face an all that, to me it is ok with me. What the heck. I am not skeered. Might be an old friend trying to figure out if that is you or not. Or someone that read your posts and wants to see if you have interesting things to say elsewhere.
I like reading interesting people's writings. I love to laugh and be entertained.
I don't care, you can look all you want but you cannot touch and besides where in a relatively safe place, you think. The other possibility is checking they're backround after conversing on these topics of the forums(curiosity). No big deal.
I am in the forums a lot.. I like to know whom I am talking to/about and just what kind of person they are.. I do or did not really think it either mattered or was relevant if someone looked at your profile or not.. Same gender.. again, mostly are the same forum chums I either fight with or pal with.. If it were a gay seeker.. I dunno.. kind of gives me the creeps.. but I would imagine that it is no big deal.. I'd be offended and or upset if they actually contacted me. Again.. I have never really thought about it.. now I wonder.. cripes.. I must be getting old... ---SoldierByte---
Englishman55: It could be a genuine mistake.... A few times I have clicked on a profile when I did'nt mean too.
Makes me feel quite embarrassed, thinking that the person may consider me to be gay.
When anyone looks at my profile, I am flattered but, if it's a male I am not interested so put it down to the fact they may have made the same mistake that I do.
If you put down that you are male and seeking a woman it won't show if a guy looks at your profile or vice versa - ok?
RobertC2: If you put down that you are male and seeking a woman it won't show if a guy looks at your profile or vice versa - ok?
sawadee ka robert,i not sure but i checked womans profiles befor many times to try see what person i talking with...it not mean checking them out only for dating
kanokwan: sawadee ka robert,i not sure but i checked womans profiles befor many times to try see what person i talking with...it not mean checking them out only for dating
Exactly!
I check out a few profiles of men to see what they have to say for themselves and to check out the competition (as an alpha male I have to make sure any real competition is destroyed as soon as possible!)........... heck, some of us men are as much idiots as some women just as some women are intelligent people who can write an interesting profile that doesn't just include banalities like 'I like walking hand in hand with my lover on the beach as the sun is setting and I can feel the crisp grains of sand crunching beneath my bunions'.
Flattered, of course. Interested.................................only if she's my type.
Although sometimes people may look at your profile if you post comments in a thread that make them curious about you for whatever their reason might be. Doesn't always mean they are attracted to you.
jeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
solsticemoon: What does it matter..I speak to a lot of lovely ladies on here and often look at their profiles just so I can tell em how gorgeous they look!
I check out a few profiles of men to see what they have to say for themselves and to check out the competition (as an alpha male I have to make sure any real competition is destroyed as soon as possible!)........... heck, some of us men are as much idiots as some women just as some women are intelligent people who can write an interesting profile that doesn't just include banalities like 'I like walking hand in hand with my lover on the beach as the sun is setting and I can feel the crisp grains of sand crunching beneath my bunions'.
We are all different - than God!
ROBERT............!!!! Don't be tellin on us..!! You're giving away all our secrets.....~!! You know how much I enjoy sipping fruit juice in a candle lit room full of rose petals, with the smell of jasmine wafting through the french doors as i draw a bath for my lover after I fix her super and feed her chocolates while she gently drifts off on a cloud of utter emotional bliss Now can I get my gun and go out shooting for a while..?? I need the practice.. her mother is suppose to visit this weekend.. ---SoldierByte---
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