For him to show up and match his pix so I can recognize him. So far it has been 1 out of 10 don't match up. They all showed. Last guy I actually met datelike we talked for 3 hours or more.
Very entertaining guy. He had some health issues so I figured it would be best we just be friends. I would hate to have it on my conscience if he had a heart attack. I am not easy on men.
amelie13: I don't usually have any expectations except that I'll enjoy myself. At the very least you can have an interesting meeting of the minds with someone you don't know well.
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
chughtayejee: its said....... A daytime meeting takes the heat off..
Expect to "GET"???!! Why should I expect to "GET" anything?!!
I would hope that I connected with that person, had a pleasant time and it was an experience I would rather have had than not...
If the "connection" wasn't there, perhaps we would end up great friends. That has happened to me. There are a couple of fellas that I care for dearly and we have remained the closest of friends. Surely that is an enhancement to my life, despite not "getting" whatever it was I was supposed to "expect"?!!
amelie13Sydney, New South Wales Australia327 posts
roseofsharon: Expect to "GET"???!! Why should I expect to "GET" anything?!!
I would hope that I connected with that person, had a pleasant time and it was an experience I would rather have had than not...
If the "connection" wasn't there, perhaps we would end up great friends. That has happened to me. There are a couple of fellas that I care for dearly and we have remained the closest of friends. Surely that is an enhancement to my life, despite not "getting" whatever it was I was supposed to "expect"?!!
roseofsharon: Expect to "GET"???!! Why should I expect to "GET" anything?!!
I would hope that I connected with that person, had a pleasant time and it was an experience I would rather have had than not...
If the "connection" wasn't there, perhaps we would end up great friends. That has happened to me. There are a couple of fellas that I care for dearly and we have remained the closest of friends. Surely that is an enhancement to my life, despite not "getting" whatever it was I was supposed to "expect"?!!
roseofsharon: Expect to "GET"???!! Why should I expect to "GET" anything?!!
I would hope that I connected with that person, had a pleasant time and it was an experience I would rather have had than not...
If the "connection" wasn't there, perhaps we would end up great friends. That has happened to me. There are a couple of fellas that I care for dearly and we have remained the closest of friends. Surely that is an enhancement to my life, despite not "getting" whatever it was I was supposed to "expect"?!!
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