Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You? ( Archived) (48)

Dec 31, 2009 10:52 PM CSTDo u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
chughtayejee
chughtayejeechughtayejeeburewala, Punjab, Pakistan59 Threads 51 Polls 95 Posts

Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?(Vote Below)

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Easily
11
16%
Most of the times
9
13%
Sometimes
7
10%
Yes: but past always remains with me
28
41%
I may not
4
6%
Never
10
14%
Total Votes
69
Some ppl. believe on the quotation...
"Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names"

Some believe...
"Forgiveness is choosing to love. It is the first skill of self-giving love"

Which quotation do u follow in general life???bouquet
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Dec 31, 2009 10:55 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
soldierboyjack
soldierboyjacksoldierboyjackRasheed, Afghanistan4 Threads 39 Posts
in my job we never forget
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Dec 31, 2009 10:57 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
navygirl1
navygirl1navygirl1Calgary, Alberta Canada6 Threads 1,586 Posts
chughtayejee: Some ppl. believe on the quotation...
"Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names"

Some believe...
"Forgiveness is choosing to love. It is the first skill of self-giving love"

Which quotation do u follow in general life???


I don't forgive easily but eventually I do. No I don't carry the past with me but certainly learn from it.
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Dec 31, 2009 10:57 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
chughtayejee: Some ppl. believe on the quotation...
"Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names"

Some believe...
"Forgiveness is choosing to love. It is the first skill of self-giving love"

Which quotation do u follow in general life???


The second one thumbs up
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Dec 31, 2009 11:03 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
chughtayejee
chughtayejeechughtayejeeburewala, Punjab Pakistan59 Threads 51 Polls 95 Posts
soldierboyjack: in my job we never forget

I think we should never ignore humanity even during job
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Dec 31, 2009 11:04 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
I learned to let go of the past ..... for when I don't the only person I'm hurting is myself. For too long, I used to carry hurt around with me, after awhile its a heavy burden to carry and becomes shackles around you that smother you.
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Dec 31, 2009 11:06 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
chughtayejee
chughtayejeechughtayejeeburewala, Punjab Pakistan59 Threads 51 Polls 95 Posts
navygirl1: I don't forgive easily but eventually I do. No I don't carry the past with me but certainly learn from it.

Good. thats a practical way to forgive...
bouquet
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Dec 31, 2009 11:07 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
chughtayejee
chughtayejeechughtayejeeburewala, Punjab Pakistan59 Threads 51 Polls 95 Posts
trish123: The second one

I appriciate bcoz i m also of same feeling. Not only me but i think every human hearted person will think accordingly..thumbs up
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Dec 31, 2009 11:09 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
It takes me a while to forgive. Mainly depends on the situation as well.
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Dec 31, 2009 11:10 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
I guess I forgive to easily cause I'm not the kind to hold a grudge.
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Dec 31, 2009 11:13 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
chughtayejee
chughtayejeechughtayejeeburewala, Punjab Pakistan59 Threads 51 Polls 95 Posts
I guess I forgive to easily cause I'm not the kind to hold a grudge.[/quote
thumbs up this is the humanity...teddybear
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Dec 31, 2009 11:13 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
chughtayejee: Some ppl. believe on the quotation...
"Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names"

Some believe...
"Forgiveness is choosing to love. It is the first skill of self-giving love"

Which quotation do u follow in general life???
I forgive for my sake, but for your sake if you screwed me over, you best not come around. That is for you own safety.rolling on the floor laughing devil
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Dec 31, 2009 11:16 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
chughtayejee
chughtayejeechughtayejeeburewala, Punjab Pakistan59 Threads 51 Polls 95 Posts
mylifewithu: I forgive for my sake, but for your sake if you screwed me over, you best not come around. That is for you own safety.

ohhhhhhhhhhhh..hole
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Dec 31, 2009 11:20 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
ogdensburgbabe
ogdensburgbabeogdensburgbabeogdensburg, New York USA18 Threads 801 Posts
Nope, dont forgive, OR forget...

grin
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Jan 1, 2010 1:31 AM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
If I don't forgive and continue to reside in the past then I can't live for the future.
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Jan 1, 2010 1:37 AM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
YesWho
YesWhoYesWhoWoodbury, New Jersey USA2 Threads 2,322 Posts
I can forgive but I have not mastered how to forget.
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Jan 1, 2010 1:40 AM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
navygirl1
navygirl1navygirl1Calgary, Alberta Canada6 Threads 1,586 Posts
YesWho: I can forgive but I have not mastered how to forget.


I don't think any of us ever forget just as long as we can learn from it and not hold a grudge. professor
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Jan 1, 2010 2:28 AM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
YesWho: I can forgive but I have not mastered how to forget.
We never forget, we just don't allow our selves to dwelle on it live in it everyday. If we do, Then it becomes a problem, then we live for the past instead of the future.wave wink
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Jan 1, 2010 2:37 AM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
Pick myself up, dust myself down and get on with it..wave
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Jan 1, 2010 2:57 AM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
lakelander
lakelanderlakelanderLarnaca, Cyprus2 Threads 200 Posts
I can forgive but I never forget....
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Jan 1, 2010 3:01 AM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
lakelander: I can forgive but I never forget....


If we dont forget,have we really forgiven then dunno
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Jan 1, 2010 3:06 AM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
lakelander
lakelanderlakelanderLarnaca, Cyprus2 Threads 200 Posts
goodfriend: If we dont forget,have we really forgiven then


That's a good point goodfriend. I would say it depends on the circumstances....both the person and the subject.

I would say there are times yes, I have forgiven and other times not really.
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Jan 1, 2010 3:08 AM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
Milanda
MilandaMilandabangkok, Central Thailand Thailand1,129 Posts
forget ,coz I'm a short memory pp , grin grin
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Jan 1, 2010 3:14 AM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
Milanda
MilandaMilandabangkok, Central Thailand Thailand1,129 Posts
Milanda: forget ,coz I'm a short memory pp ,
Oops ! see ? I forgot again , doh tongue forget and forgive tongue I don't want to keep it if it was the bad thing in my life. dunno
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Jan 1, 2010 11:18 AM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
deacon6347
deacon6347deacon6347Amado, Arizona USA10 Threads 757 Posts
chughtayejee: Some ppl. believe on the quotation...
"Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names"

Some believe...
"Forgiveness is choosing to love. It is the first skill of self-giving love"

Which quotation do u follow in general life???
forgive and forget, don't do that and it will make you an bitter and unwanted individual, nobody is interested in your old baggage!!
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Jan 1, 2010 12:27 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
deacon6347: forgive and forget, don't do that and it will make you an bitter and unwanted individual, nobody is interested in your old baggage!!


yep, but sometimes, it's good to have a friend so that you can get the 'old baggage' off your chest..then just forget it.
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Jan 1, 2010 12:38 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
Raynew1959
Raynew1959Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA120 Threads 2 Polls 2,218 Posts
Years ago I met someone in a store that I had gone to school with. When he asked me if I remembered him, I said no and walked out to my car. I knew who he was before he spoke and remembered him as being a bully to those smaller than him. I was one of those he enjoyed beating on.

I very rarely speak to my first wife. I look forward to the day when my youngest son moves out of her house because then I won't have to see or talk to her.




Earl
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Jan 1, 2010 1:11 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
BlueDevil
BlueDevilBlueDevilKlagenfurt, Carinthia Austria1 Threads 1 Polls 90 Posts
I will never forgive someone who acts in bad faith,
I try to avoid to forget to be prepered for the next hit.
But I may forgive someone who is to stupid to understand things he/she does or is forced to do so.
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Jan 1, 2010 10:18 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
BigfootMichelle
BigfootMichelleBigfootMichelleBendigo, Victoria Australia90 Posts
BlueDevil: I will never forgive someone who acts in bad faith,
I try to avoid to forget to be prepered for the next hit.
But I may forgive someone who is to stupid to understand things he/she does or is forced to do so.


My first reaction to the question was 'no, I'll never forgive' But I like your answer better. However even then it would not be a quick process for me; it'll take years most likely. I'm stubborn. And stupid confused
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Jan 1, 2010 10:23 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
I'll forgive someone for the sake of MY peace, but I bet they will never get another one over on me.
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Jan 1, 2010 10:31 PM CST Do u forgive easily or carry the past with You?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
woodzchick: I'll forgive someone for the sake of MY peace, but I bet they will never get another one over on me.


Screw me over once, shame on you..scold

Screw me over twice, shame on me..doh
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