Should a man be Capable of Approaching an interesting Women in a Group? (57)

BlainX: Much more to it then what it may appear?

What's to Fear?
1. Entertaining the group all at once?
2. Not being accepted by accepted and mocked by any of the group member's?
3. Not being well recieved by your targeted interest.
4. People are watching?
5. Not being heard, it's loud in a club.
6. BEING REJECTED

like you all have stated, There's Nothing to Fear??? Sure!

tomboygirl: yep that sounds well scary lol.

but....i would force yourself to do it anyway,a few times,WITHOUT ANY EXPECTATION OF OUTCOME.you will get used to it,and find the best way of handling the situation.

because...it will get easier and because preventing yourself from doing something you want to,due to fear,is a failure from the getgo.

BlainX: I live in a world of Regret. I go home thinking of all the things of should've said?

roseofsharon: Not necessarily. I don't envy men with things like this, it must be intimdating to approach a girl in a group. Its a matter of confidence I guess.

I am sure there is the fear of rejection but not grasping the opportunity, one will never know and possibly miss the girl of his dreams. It takes a lot, I'm sure but faint heart never won fair maiden....

roseofsharon: Not necessarily. I don't envy men with things like this, it must be intimdating to approach a girl in a group. Its a matter of confidence I guess.

I am sure there is the fear of rejection but not grasping the opportunity, one will never know and possibly miss the girl of his dreams. It takes a lot, I'm sure but faint heart never won fair maiden....

phoenixrising1: ok blain ... its like this.... im in a good mood so i will give you my best.....first ...if you want to feel confident ...should the situation arise... before you leave ur home .... who are you ??

ur shoes shined ?. or at least clean and confident in ur appearance

now ...use the group....mentality ....what happens when a nice lady walks by a group of football players.... cat calls???right??

ladies tease a man when they are in a group, if the man is presentable...

as you approach ..let them start to notice you....smile a big grin... and they start to giggle ...and banter secret conversation to each other....eyeing you!!

then slip ur card ... or stop ...ask for a pen ...write ur number and name ...and give it to ur choice lady .... then thank them all ,,with a gleam in ur eye..and walk away .... no mater how much they call!...lol

munching: It takes an extreme amount of confidence or arrogance.
I think the arrogant ones are usually sniffed out, but they sometimes get the girl. "faint heart" and all that.

BlainX: Thanks,

That's my GOAL, which is, I will not continue missing opportunities?

munching: It takes an extreme amount of confidence or arrogance.
I think the arrogant ones are usually sniffed out, but they sometimes get the girl. "faint heart" and all that.

Englishman55: The thing to remember is that most of these groups of women invariably end up in a nightclub dancing around their handbags.... safety in numbers and all that.

The trick now, is to run onto the dance floor and kick the handbags in different directions, thus splitting the group.

Now sieze your chance..... make sure you keep an eye on the one you are interested in, as you kick the handbags, and it's just a simple case of blocking her route back to the group once she has got her bag....
Job done.... apart from a corny chat up line that is !!

Englishman55: The thing to remember is that most of these groups of women invariably end up in a nightclub dancing around their handbags.... safety in numbers and all that.

The trick now, is to run onto the dance floor and kick the handbags in different directions, thus splitting the group.

Now sieze your chance..... make sure you keep an eye on the one you are interested in, as you kick the handbags, and it's just a simple case of blocking her route back to the group once she has got her bag....
Job done.... apart from a corny chat up line that is !!

Englishman55: The thing to remember is that most of these groups of women invariably end up in a nightclub dancing around their handbags.... safety in numbers and all that.

The trick now, is to run onto the dance floor and kick the handbags in different directions, thus splitting the group.

Now sieze your chance..... make sure you keep an eye on the one you are interested in, as you kick the handbags, and it's just a simple case of blocking her route back to the group once she has got her bag....
Job done.... apart from a corny chat up line that is !!

munching: Ah I see that you have been watching the nature programs, it is a clever ploy copied from hunting lions I think. Next time out ill try this, but if it goes wrong im in for a handbag beating.

Englishman55: You also gotta watch out for the bouncers when all hell breaks loose, but it certainly livens up a dancefloor

jokerlips: Of course you should be to, as long as you're being a gentleman and polite, not just to her but the girls she went out with.. Try to make conversations with her friends too, eventhou' we know you only have eyes on her, that's obvious :) Just goes on to show you're worth our friend's time cause you're a gentleman..

in other words, be prepared to buy the lasses a round of drink!!!!! Haha

BlainX: I live in a world of Regret. I go home thinking of all the things of should've said?