Some husband used to complain if working wife dont have enough time for family, but some of them also complain if their housewife not independent and poor knowledge. So...which kind of wife u wish to have?
heavensmile: Some husband used to complain if working wife dont have enough time for family, but some of them also complain if their housewife not independent and poor knowledge. So...which kind of wife u wish to have?
he complained when I was a housewife - then he complained when I was working- so he just lost me.
heavensmile: Some husband used to complain if working wife dont have enough time for family, but some of them also complain if their housewife not independent and poor knowledge. So...which kind of wife u wish to have?
yes, thats was my ex bf want, ask me stop bussiness and my study, then focus to take care family and his parent . I cant completely do that, wait for sunrise and sunset daily.
MerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia11,403 posts
heavensmile: thanks sist, i post this question coz i have 2 friend, one is working and his husband used to complain for not enough time for her family, and other friend used to complain coz her wife not independent, used to ask everything to him, even to take her kids to doctor, must wait for him back from office. So...as i still single, never married. I want to know what man prefer. My ex bf tell me, that i must stop work or leave my bussiness if i marry him. But sometime women need self esteem or actualization of herself.
Hon, dont stop working...cos someone tells you to... its a power ego thing...
Be independant and do what you can to be happy. Working is often a good way to interact with people and learn many new things. This will help with self esteem and confidence and personal ride through life...
Soar with wide wings there sweetpea and let the wind blow you whereever to discover whole new life...
heavensmile: Some husband used to complain if working wife dont have enough time for family, but some of them also complain if their housewife not independent and poor knowledge. So...which kind of wife u wish to have?
I know this question is directed towards the men but my late husband made enough money that I was able to be a stay at home mom which was my choice anyway and I loved every minute of it too.If I could go back and do it all again I would in a heartbeat.
heavensmile: Some husband used to complain if working wife dont have enough time for family, but some of them also complain if their housewife not independent and poor knowledge. So...which kind of wife u wish to have?
I have to agree with Merriweather. The times that a woman can stay at home and only the man is at work, are over. Especially in this time, where many are unemployed, because of the situation in Europe. The money, you will get for your work, is less than before. The prices for to live, become higher. However, I would prefer, to have a Housewife, if children are there. Otherwise a working woman.
heavensmile: yes, thats was my ex bf want, ask me stop bussiness and my study, then focus to take care family and his parent . I cant completely do that, wait for sunrise and sunset daily.
every healthy relationship demands these characterristics. if you ignore a single one, you fail in maintaining a cheerful life. his demand was positive and reasonable.
heavensmile: thanks sist, i post this question coz i have 2 friend, one is working and his husband used to complain for not enough time for her family, and other friend used to complain coz her wife not independent, used to ask everything to him, even to take her kids to doctor, must wait for him back from office. So...as i still single, never married. I want to know what man prefer. My ex bf tell me, that i must stop work or leave my bussiness if i marry him. But sometime women need self esteem or actualization of herself.
Yah just can please them...have been in both places and nothing worked....your dammed if you do and your dammed if you dont....
Merriweather: Hon, dont stop working...cos someone tells you to... its a power ego thing...
Be independant and do what you can to be happy. Working is often a good way to interact with people and learn many new things. This will help with self esteem and confidence and personal ride through life...
Soar with wide wings there sweetpea and let the wind blow you whereever to discover whole new life...
Thanks sist, for me i have own bussiness that i can run from home or anywhere. But hope your advise usefull for many friends here.
chughtayejee: every healthy relationship demands these characterristics. if you ignore a single one, you fail in maintaining a cheerful life. his demand was positive and reasonable.
His demand was reasonable.....I dont think so....move into the 21st century please....
stefonline: His demand was reasonable.....I dont think so....move into the 21st century please....
Yes i am...If one desires a full of love life and expects a full time partner with whome he wants to go for outing and more more fun.. what should a woman desire for? a loving partner or a good job?
Feb 8, 2010 4:28 AM CST What kind of wife you prefer to have :
steve6610Goolwa, South Australia Australia2,184 Posts
steve6610Goolwa, South Australia Australia2,184 posts
heavensmile: Some husband used to complain if working wife dont have enough time for family, but some of them also complain if their housewife not independent and poor knowledge. So...which kind of wife u wish to have?
either 2,3 or 5. A wife should still be able to pursue the dreams & visions that she always wanted, if thats working in a corner shop, teacher, lawyer or politician, etc then she should be allowed to pursue these dreams as it only makes married & family life more interesting & vibrant
MerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia11,403 posts
chughtayejee: every healthy relationship demands these characterristics. if you ignore a single one, you fail in maintaining a cheerful life. his demand was positive and reasonable.
Chughtayejee, I strongly recommend that you find a girl who has your own cultural values...
This would not sit right for me... there is no way in this world that I would be stuck home and minding some one elses parents.. and doing menial chores.. like cooking and cleaning.. I like to work, have my own freedom, have my own money that I earn and do what I like when I like and be answerable to only myself...
Sorry hun, the cultural difference is huge and I acknowledge that, by you hopefully can also acknowledge mine.
Posted in good faith with cultural differences in mind.. I welcome cultural difference = I accept that others have and live differently but I personally dont want to join another culture.
chughtayejee: every healthy relationship demands these characterristics. if you ignore a single one, you fail in maintaining a cheerful life. his demand was positive and reasonable.
Are you sure about that!!?? She should give up her identity and become a meek mousey housewife?? and you think that is reasonable in this modern world?
I have worked all my adult life and been "the man" of the house. I'm getting a little tired of being a career woman so I am hoping to retire early and become a housewive.
I love cooking and homemaking, and think it would be amazing if I don't have to work and can stay home doing things I enjoy.
I have worked all my adult life and been "the man" of the house. I'm getting a little tired of being a career woman so I am hoping to retire early and become a housewive.
I love cooking and homemaking, and think it would be amazing if I don't have to work and can stay home doing things I enjoy.
MerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia11,403 posts
yayie: I voted housewife.
I have worked all my adult life and been "the man" of the house. I'm getting a little tired of being a career woman so I am hoping to retire early and become a housewive.
I love cooking and homemaking, and think it would be amazing if I don't have to work and can stay home doing things I enjoy.
Hey Yayie...
I just checked out your profile... jeez, for you to be saying that you have worked all your adult life is a bit amazing since you are still soooooooo young...
But hey, if you'd like to give up and nest.. thats good too. wishing you well...
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