prenuptual agreement......how important in your next relationship (113)
nanners2863: If it were important to him then yes I would sign a prenup as long as it was a fair agreement. I think trusting someone is not the question..because we all trust the ones we love at the beginning..it's when that love turns to anger and revenge that you need the prenup.
thank you ...very thoughtful and considerate words...
i would wonder what you consider fair...hehehe
dadvic: i am in a relationship and my girlfriend and i have talked about it....and she seems to be alright with a prenup...what do you have to say about that in your life and future?
I may not have much but in this day and time a prenup seems good for everyone concern I still dont want him leaving me should he decide to and he gets his hands on my nothing or does not follow any of my wishes should I proceed him in death I told my soon-to-be-ex that I wanted to be cremated he said no never I told him he had no choice it is what I want and my insurance I left in my daughters name because I could not trust him to do what i wanted he did not like it but stuff like that if you dont have it in writing they can do whatever they wantladyfingers: Well, at the rate you go through girlfriends, I'd suggest that you get a pre-nup or the next time you might not be able to afford to have a new girlfriend.
hahaha
....how many can you count???
and it has been over a year...
lovely4u7da: I may not have much but in this day and time a prenup seems good for everyone concern I still dont want him leaving me should he decide to and he gets his hands on my nothing or does not follow any of my wishes should I proceed him in death I told my soon-to-be-ex that I wanted to be cremated he said no never I told him he had no choice it is what I want and my insurance I left in my daughters name because I could not trust him to do what i wanted he did not like it but stuff like that if you dont have it in writing they can do whatever they want
very good point lovely
dadvic: hahaha ....how many can you count???
and it has been over a year...
and it has been over a year...
I counted on my fingers and toes, all 12 of them...and still
I really couldn't a fl@ck
welll......................
welll......................
ladyfingers: I counted on my fingers and toes, all 12 of them...and still
i wish i had so many girlfriends
felixis99: I really couldn't a fl@ck
welll......................
welll......................
is that about the prenupt???
please tell me your thoughts about the prenupt?
dadvic: as john says ...its not about trust.....
it seems the naysayers are just looking at it as a lack of trust.
like they have transcended.....to a more mature place..hahaha
when i had nothing ...i did not think about it....but i have 4 kids from a previous marriage ... and some assets
and my new girlfriend made commitments to love me and care for me to the last breath..
which should be rewarded if kept....
and unrewarded if not kept.....
...right??
or should i just trust ???
it seems the naysayers are just looking at it as a lack of trust.
like they have transcended.....to a more mature place..hahaha
when i had nothing ...i did not think about it....but i have 4 kids from a previous marriage ... and some assets
and my new girlfriend made commitments to love me and care for me to the last breath..
which should be rewarded if kept....
and unrewarded if not kept.....
...right??
or should i just trust ???
Absolutely - if you don't trust her that much, don't marry her (this is different from BJ's concerns).
dadvic: as john says ...its not about trust.....
it seems the naysayers are just looking at it as a lack of trust.
like they have transcended.....to a more mature place..hahaha
when i had nothing ...i did not think about it....but i have 4 kids from a previous marriage ... and some assets
and my new girlfriend made commitments to love me and care for me to the last breath..
which should be rewarded if kept....
and unrewarded if not kept.....
...right??
or should i just trust ???
it seems the naysayers are just looking at it as a lack of trust.
like they have transcended.....to a more mature place..hahaha
when i had nothing ...i did not think about it....but i have 4 kids from a previous marriage ... and some assets
and my new girlfriend made commitments to love me and care for me to the last breath..
which should be rewarded if kept....
and unrewarded if not kept.....
...right??
or should i just trust ???
I hope she reads the post quoted above so she can see just what sort of a person you are, before it is too late.
dadvic: yes thanks for the reality check!!!
they certainly need to be properly executed and independent council is required...what else have you heard??
they certainly need to be properly executed and independent council is required...what else have you heard??
I didn't HEAR it. I researched it...for future reference...just in case.
katt1017: I hope she reads the post quoted above so she can see just what sort of a person you are, before it is too late.
she already knows me...hahaha...and she is a member here at c s ...
..ok
yes this is a nice place to get to know what kind of person YOU r
dadvic: thanks kissmedeeply.....when i was a hippy we had the same attitude...hahahaha
but this is the real world...and everyone is playing for all the marbles....and after the fact..people in the west like to enforce their rights....just look around!
i see your happy in a relationship of trust ...and your property that you have worked hard to earn is meaningless to you ...
you say "I dont know or care about other people"....
i hope you are not condescending towards those who find it necessary to consider such things....or do you feel superior to them ....since you have no care about others or things...???
but this is the real world...and everyone is playing for all the marbles....and after the fact..people in the west like to enforce their rights....just look around!
i see your happy in a relationship of trust ...and your property that you have worked hard to earn is meaningless to you ...
you say "I dont know or care about other people"....
i hope you are not condescending towards those who find it necessary to consider such things....or do you feel superior to them ....since you have no care about others or things...???
I said and i quote i dont care if others need/want a prenup..
I didnt say i dont care what happens to others..
Geez so many people dont like others disagreeing on here thats for sure..
If i thought for once i needed to protect me/my things..
Then i sure is hell wouldnt marry the person
Ambrose2007: Exactly. If you have any doubts about a person, you shouldn't marry them. (Hi, J!)
hello how have you been?No its not about children..
Children always are in the middle..its not about protecting them..
Its all about the adults as i have seen many many times..
And i still stand in what i say
kissmedeeply: I said and i quote i dont care if others need/want a prenup..
I didnt say i dont care what happens to others..
Geez so many people dont like others disagreeing on here thats for sure..
If i thought for once i needed to protect me/my things..
Then i sure is hell wouldnt marry the person
I didnt say i dont care what happens to others..
Geez so many people dont like others disagreeing on here thats for sure..
If i thought for once i needed to protect me/my things..
Then i sure is hell wouldnt marry the person
Here Here, i could not agree more
englishelegance: Here Here, i could not agree more
dadvic: i am in a relationship and my girlfriend and i have talked about it....and she seems to be alright with a prenup...what do you have to say about that in your life and future?
I would insist upon it merely to protect the assets of my partner. Furthermore, it may help to instill confidence in the relationship.
Then again, I have never been married nor do I intend to be.
Blues63: I would insist upon it merely to protect the assets of my partner. Furthermore, it may help to instill confidence in the relationship.
Then again, I have never been married nor do I intend to be.
Then again, I have never been married nor do I intend to be.
Me neither, never been married, never will, so pre-nups will not be a problem for me. A WILL will decide how my assets get disposed of.
Blues63: I would insist upon it merely to protect the assets of my partner. Furthermore, it may help to instill confidence in the relationship.
Then again, I have never been married nor do I intend to be.
Then again, I have never been married nor do I intend to be.
Exactly.
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yes thanks for the reality check!!!
they certainly need to be properly executed and independent council is required...what else have you heard??