Do woman really marry for love, or money...?? (89)

Apr 10, 2010 9:04 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
Cowhand: Thats hard to explain.... Well I can surely take care of myself... allmost.. I cannot scratch my back...
Of course a relationship has to be for love... respect and understanding ....for the ones "we are"...
But - if it was only for being together - having no family... no kids .... I believe it is very much part of love.... Not a burden - to be without!


Ok i mut be having a really off night cuz you still have me confused lol
Apr 10, 2010 9:07 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I cant speak for all women, but you should only marry for one reason wine
Apr 10, 2010 9:10 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
venusenvy: I cant speak for all women, but you should only marry for one reason


warm bed???confused dunno
Apr 10, 2010 9:11 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
Cowhand
CowhandCowhandAssens, South Denmark Denmark2 Threads 369 Posts
gemeh22: Ok i mut be having a really off night cuz you still have me confused lol



doh Confused...?? well...


If I married a woman ... and she could not give me what is the fruit of love . . .


I think it is just as big a part of a relationship... - as being together..... 2 people !!!!
Apr 10, 2010 9:15 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
elsson
elssonelssonLondon, Greater London, England UK24 Threads 1,864 Posts
venusenvy: I cant speak for all women, but you should only marry for one reason


I agree now where can I get that green card confused
Apr 10, 2010 9:17 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
Cowhand: Confused...?? well... If I married a woman ... and she could not give me what is the fruit of love . . . I think it is just as big a part of a relationship... - as being together..... 2 people !!!!


ok lol not sure how that pertained to me saying if I marrying again it will be for love - but I think get what your sayingteddybear
Apr 10, 2010 9:19 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
They marry because they love the money you have and the life you can accustom them to
Apr 10, 2010 9:22 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
Cowhand
CowhandCowhandAssens, South Denmark Denmark2 Threads 369 Posts
gemeh22: ok lol not sure how that pertained to me saying if I marrying again it will be for love - but I think get what your saying



Thanx a lot..... actually bothers me a lot.... because I am writing a little with some one - for some time...



and sure she can give me a lot - as well as I can give her....




But would it be fair ??? thant's the question...



would it be fair - it would only be half "love" ???
Apr 10, 2010 9:31 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
kanguroo
kangurookangurooMelbourne, Victoria Australia3 Threads 106 Posts
englishelegance: Some women do marry for money yes, but money can't buy you love!!!


Right
Apr 10, 2010 9:41 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
asianlady
asianladyasianladypagadian, Zamboanga Peninsula Philippines5 Threads 53 Posts
Confused...?? well... If I married a woman ... and she could not give me what is the fruit of love . . . I think it is just as big a part of a relationship... - as being together..... 2 people !!!![/quote


for me love is importand and this is really importand to us... I can live without money cause young i know how to live without money. Cause when i was young we live in a mountain area in my home town province and sorrounded by mountains lots of grasses and trees and animals.My parents teach me how to live without money.. we are happy family live that place.My father is a Captain of the barangay or small town we scared because that time was still under martial of president marcos my dad decided to moved here in Manila.

At age of 23 I maried with a good job man, and rich and educated husband .. then we got 1 daughter Nicole since...But 1 thing i dont like to him is cheater, and mamas boy he always depend to his [parents specially to his mama. there no love for me and to my daughter......after 7 and half years spent and live with him with love and sincere and honesty and fighting to make a happy family life and gave it with him all, i stop and i give up cause his mum always control me what i wanted to do for my family....because am only poor not like them...

so i give up everything , house and lot,my all clothes everything we have and money all them i gave it to them except my daughter and that is the only 1 i have ......FOR ME LOVE IS IMPORTANT THAN MONEY
Apr 10, 2010 10:02 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
laura139
laura139laura139Broomfield, Colorado USA11 Threads 1 Polls 668 Posts
I would marry for love, companionship, and money to enjoy the rest of our lives together. Of course, I would be a contributor also, so we share together....wine
Apr 10, 2010 11:08 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
dadvic
dadvicdadvicNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada7 Threads 6 Polls 189 Posts
asianlady: Confused...?? well... If I married a woman ... and she could not give me what is the fruit of love . . . I think it is just as big a part of a relationship... - as being together..... 2 people !!!![/quotefor me love is importand and this is really importand to us... I can live without money cause young i know how to live without money. Cause when i was young we live in a mountain area in my home town province and sorrounded by mountains lots of grasses and trees and animals.My parents teach me how to live without money.. we are happy family live that place.My father is a Captain of the barangay or small town we scared because that time was still under martial of president marcos my dad decided to moved here in Manila.

At age of 23 I maried with a good job man, and rich and educated husband .. then we got 1 daughter Nicole since...But 1 thing i dont like to him is cheater, and mamas boy he always depend to his [parents specially to his mama. there no love for me and to my daughter......after 7 and half years spent and live with him with love and sincere and honesty and fighting to make a happy family life and gave it with him all, i stop and i give up cause his mum always control me what i wanted to do for my family....because am only poor not like them...

so i give up everything , house and lot,my all clothes everything we have and money all them i gave it to them except my daughter and that is the only 1 i have ......FOR ME LOVE IS IMPORTANT THAN MONEY


hi ..bouquet ...thanks for that insight to your life and personal values.....

FOR ME LOVE IS IMPORTANT THAN MONEY.....as you sayhandshake wine
Apr 10, 2010 11:11 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
dadvic
dadvicdadvicNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada7 Threads 6 Polls 189 Posts
navygirl1: Again; who the hell needs love?


navygirl....i just admire your conviction dunno confused

who??moping
Apr 10, 2010 11:26 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
navygirl1
navygirl1navygirl1Calgary, Alberta Canada6 Threads 1,586 Posts
dadvic: navygirl....i just admire your conviction

who??


I just in beleive in being honest; why lie. What would that get me? grin
Apr 10, 2010 11:28 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
Kattsrose
KattsroseKattsroseKind of near Portsmouth, NH, New Hampshire USA52 Threads 4 Polls 911 Posts
dadvic: this was posted recently on a forum i wrote

name2010: I know what you mean sister; I was married 5 times and don't regret it .... it was much easier than doing 9-5 and it pays better would you guess this was a woman from western or eastern culture?


Damn! Your girl has the patience of the Buddha or she can't read English.
Apr 10, 2010 11:36 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
LoveMovies
LoveMoviesLoveMoviesBellevue, Washington USA21 Threads 3 Polls 536 Posts
I really think it depends on how much money she can make on her own. Say for example she has 10 children and is stuck at home raising them. Money would probably be a little more important to her. Maybe she would want a man who was a good provider that to live in a shack and drive a broken down car. If she was single and didn't plan on having any kids or only wanted a couple she could be a little more carefree and choose love. Is it selfish for a women to want to make sure her kids are taken care of? Just a thought.
Apr 10, 2010 11:43 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
dadvic
dadvicdadvicNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada7 Threads 6 Polls 189 Posts
LoveMovies: I really think it depends on how much money she can make on her own. Say for example she has 10 children and is stuck at home raising them. Money would probably be a little more important to her. Maybe she would want a man who was a good provider that to live in a shack and drive a broken down car. If she was single and didn't plan on having any kids or only wanted a couple she could be a little more carefree and choose love. Is it selfish for a women to want to make sure her kids are taken care of? Just a thought.


and a very realistic thought indeed

wine
Apr 10, 2010 11:50 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
LoveMovies
LoveMoviesLoveMoviesBellevue, Washington USA21 Threads 3 Polls 536 Posts
dadvic: and a very realistic thought indeed


Thank you. There are women who go after men with men money for selfish reasons and those for pratical reasons. I think it is important to see the shades of gray.
Apr 10, 2010 11:54 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
dadvic
dadvicdadvicNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada7 Threads 6 Polls 189 Posts
navygirl1: I just in beleive in being honest; why lie. What would that get me?


for the honesty my respectwine
Apr 10, 2010 11:56 PM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
LoveMovies
LoveMoviesLoveMoviesBellevue, Washington USA21 Threads 3 Polls 536 Posts
Oops. There are women who go after men with money...I better set this glass of wine aside.blushing
Apr 11, 2010 12:07 AM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
navygirl1
navygirl1navygirl1Calgary, Alberta Canada6 Threads 1,586 Posts
dadvic: for the honesty my respect


In all honesty I wouldn't marry for money. I can quite well take care of myself financially; the military has been good for me. However; I wouldn't marry out of desperation either. I enjoy my freedom and know I am not the type to be tied down. I certainly wouldn't discourage marriage to others but I know this is not for me. handshake
Apr 11, 2010 12:10 AM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
dadvic
dadvicdadvicNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada7 Threads 6 Polls 189 Posts
dadvic: this was posted recently on a forum i wrote

name2010: I know what you mean sister; I was married 5 times and don't regret it .... it was much easier than doing 9-5 and it pays better would you guess this was a woman from western or eastern culture?



This has turned out to be an interesting poll...especially if you look at the results of the POLL BREAKDOWNdoh laugh rolling on the floor laughing tongue

I think the poll breakdown says a whole lot ....lol
Apr 11, 2010 12:11 AM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
dadvic
dadvicdadvicNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada7 Threads 6 Polls 189 Posts
LoveMovies: Oops. There are women who go after men with money...I better set this glass of wine aside.


hahahahahahaalaugh rolling on the floor laughing wine
Apr 11, 2010 12:18 AM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
dadvic
dadvicdadvicNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada7 Threads 6 Polls 189 Posts
navygirl1: In all honesty I wouldn't marry for money. I can quite well take care of myself financially; the military has been good for me. However; I wouldn't marry out of desperation either. I enjoy my freedom and know I am not the type to be tied down. I certainly wouldn't discourage marriage to others but I know this is not for me.


well girl....i was married 27 years....and i have a sweet young girlfriend.....but marriage??uh oh wow moping

i don't know??.....another good friend of mine is talking divorce after18 months of marriage?blues his repair job did not hold...lollaugh

and its back to the dating sites for him i suppose....so i am more unsure of marriage as time goes on....doh
Apr 11, 2010 12:22 AM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
whitec
whitecwhitecNowra, New South Wales Australia6 Threads 1 Polls 265 Posts
Well me I would have to live with that person for a long long time before I would consider Marriage, and as for you guys and your wallets, I have managed fine on my own for years so why would I wont your money very mad
Apr 11, 2010 12:25 AM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
navygirl1
navygirl1navygirl1Calgary, Alberta Canada6 Threads 1,586 Posts
dadvic: well girl....i was married 27 years....and i have a sweet young girlfriend.....but marriage??

i don't know??.....another good friend of mine is talking divorce after18 months of marriage? his repair job did not hold...lol

and its back to the dating sites for him i suppose....so i am more unsure of marriage as time goes on....


Yeah, it would seem nothing is forever these days. Have met guys who said they cared for me but dump me for younger women so why would I waste my time with the dating game?
Apr 11, 2010 12:28 AM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
rashid0101
rashid0101rashid0101tehran, Iran15 Threads 58 Posts
i think women first marry for protect and care and after for love and after for born child and after for money .
Apr 11, 2010 12:42 AM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
LoveMovies
LoveMoviesLoveMoviesBellevue, Washington USA21 Threads 3 Polls 536 Posts
rashid0101: i think women first marry for protect and care and after for love and after for born child and after for money .


It really depends. I don't have any children, and I don't want any, so money is less of a priority. I'm not looking for a skid row bum either. I would hope to find someone my equal.
Apr 11, 2010 2:33 AM CST Do woman really marry for love, or money...??
dadvic
dadvicdadvicNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada7 Threads 6 Polls 189 Posts
LoveMovies: It really depends. I don't have any children, and I don't want any, so money is less of a priority. I'm not looking for a skid row bum either. I would hope to find someone my equal.


i understand ..thanks for your postwave

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