Cowhand: Thats hard to explain.... Well I can surely take care of myself... allmost.. I cannot scratch my back... Of course a relationship has to be for love... respect and understanding ....for the ones "we are"... But - if it was only for being together - having no family... no kids .... I believe it is very much part of love.... Not a burden - to be without!
Ok i mut be having a really off night cuz you still have me confused lol
Cowhand: Confused...?? well... If I married a woman ... and she could not give me what is the fruit of love . . . I think it is just as big a part of a relationship... - as being together..... 2 people !!!!
ok lol not sure how that pertained to me saying if I marrying again it will be for love - but I think get what your saying
Confused...?? well... If I married a woman ... and she could not give me what is the fruit of love . . . I think it is just as big a part of a relationship... - as being together..... 2 people !!!![/quote
for me love is importand and this is really importand to us... I can live without money cause young i know how to live without money. Cause when i was young we live in a mountain area in my home town province and sorrounded by mountains lots of grasses and trees and animals.My parents teach me how to live without money.. we are happy family live that place.My father is a Captain of the barangay or small town we scared because that time was still under martial of president marcos my dad decided to moved here in Manila.
At age of 23 I maried with a good job man, and rich and educated husband .. then we got 1 daughter Nicole since...But 1 thing i dont like to him is cheater, and mamas boy he always depend to his [parents specially to his mama. there no love for me and to my daughter......after 7 and half years spent and live with him with love and sincere and honesty and fighting to make a happy family life and gave it with him all, i stop and i give up cause his mum always control me what i wanted to do for my family....because am only poor not like them...
so i give up everything , house and lot,my all clothes everything we have and money all them i gave it to them except my daughter and that is the only 1 i have ......FOR ME LOVE IS IMPORTANT THAN MONEY
I would marry for love, companionship, and money to enjoy the rest of our lives together. Of course, I would be a contributor also, so we share together....
dadvicNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada189 posts
asianlady: Confused...?? well... If I married a woman ... and she could not give me what is the fruit of love . . . I think it is just as big a part of a relationship... - as being together..... 2 people !!!![/quotefor me love is importand and this is really importand to us... I can live without money cause young i know how to live without money. Cause when i was young we live in a mountain area in my home town province and sorrounded by mountains lots of grasses and trees and animals.My parents teach me how to live without money.. we are happy family live that place.My father is a Captain of the barangay or small town we scared because that time was still under martial of president marcos my dad decided to moved here in Manila.
At age of 23 I maried with a good job man, and rich and educated husband .. then we got 1 daughter Nicole since...But 1 thing i dont like to him is cheater, and mamas boy he always depend to his [parents specially to his mama. there no love for me and to my daughter......after 7 and half years spent and live with him with love and sincere and honesty and fighting to make a happy family life and gave it with him all, i stop and i give up cause his mum always control me what i wanted to do for my family....because am only poor not like them...
so i give up everything , house and lot,my all clothes everything we have and money all them i gave it to them except my daughter and that is the only 1 i have ......FOR ME LOVE IS IMPORTANT THAN MONEY
hi .. ...thanks for that insight to your life and personal values.....
FOR ME LOVE IS IMPORTANT THAN MONEY.....as you say
KattsroseKind of near Portsmouth, NH, New Hampshire USA911 posts
dadvic: this was posted recently on a forum i wrote
name2010: I know what you mean sister; I was married 5 times and don't regret it .... it was much easier than doing 9-5 and it pays better would you guess this was a woman from western or eastern culture?
Damn! Your girl has the patience of the Buddha or she can't read English.
I really think it depends on how much money she can make on her own. Say for example she has 10 children and is stuck at home raising them. Money would probably be a little more important to her. Maybe she would want a man who was a good provider that to live in a shack and drive a broken down car. If she was single and didn't plan on having any kids or only wanted a couple she could be a little more carefree and choose love. Is it selfish for a women to want to make sure her kids are taken care of? Just a thought.
dadvicNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada189 posts
LoveMovies: I really think it depends on how much money she can make on her own. Say for example she has 10 children and is stuck at home raising them. Money would probably be a little more important to her. Maybe she would want a man who was a good provider that to live in a shack and drive a broken down car. If she was single and didn't plan on having any kids or only wanted a couple she could be a little more carefree and choose love. Is it selfish for a women to want to make sure her kids are taken care of? Just a thought.
Thank you. There are women who go after men with men money for selfish reasons and those for pratical reasons. I think it is important to see the shades of gray.
In all honesty I wouldn't marry for money. I can quite well take care of myself financially; the military has been good for me. However; I wouldn't marry out of desperation either. I enjoy my freedom and know I am not the type to be tied down. I certainly wouldn't discourage marriage to others but I know this is not for me.
dadvicNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada189 posts
dadvic: this was posted recently on a forum i wrote
name2010: I know what you mean sister; I was married 5 times and don't regret it .... it was much easier than doing 9-5 and it pays better would you guess this was a woman from western or eastern culture?
This has turned out to be an interesting poll...especially if you look at the results of the POLL BREAKDOWN
I think the poll breakdown says a whole lot ....lol
dadvicNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada189 posts
navygirl1: In all honesty I wouldn't marry for money. I can quite well take care of myself financially; the military has been good for me. However; I wouldn't marry out of desperation either. I enjoy my freedom and know I am not the type to be tied down. I certainly wouldn't discourage marriage to others but I know this is not for me.
well girl....i was married 27 years....and i have a sweet young girlfriend.....but marriage??
i don't know??.....another good friend of mine is talking divorce after18 months of marriage? his repair job did not hold...lol
and its back to the dating sites for him i suppose....so i am more unsure of marriage as time goes on....
Well me I would have to live with that person for a long long time before I would consider Marriage, and as for you guys and your wallets, I have managed fine on my own for years so why would I wont your money
dadvic: well girl....i was married 27 years....and i have a sweet young girlfriend.....but marriage??
i don't know??.....another good friend of mine is talking divorce after18 months of marriage? his repair job did not hold...lol
and its back to the dating sites for him i suppose....so i am more unsure of marriage as time goes on....
Yeah, it would seem nothing is forever these days. Have met guys who said they cared for me but dump me for younger women so why would I waste my time with the dating game?
rashid0101: i think women first marry for protect and care and after for love and after for born child and after for money .
It really depends. I don't have any children, and I don't want any, so money is less of a priority. I'm not looking for a skid row bum either. I would hope to find someone my equal.
dadvicNorthern B C, British Columbia Canada189 posts
LoveMovies: It really depends. I don't have any children, and I don't want any, so money is less of a priority. I'm not looking for a skid row bum either. I would hope to find someone my equal.
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Of course a relationship has to be for love... respect and understanding ....for the ones "we are"...
But - if it was only for being together - having no family... no kids .... I believe it is very much part of love.... Not a burden - to be without!
Ok i mut be having a really off night cuz you still have me confused lol