flirting is very cool, like showing an all round personality of colors of who you are. it should only be a single thing, not when you have a partner. no no, show your full on colors with him!
demonfairy: Someone tells you that they love you but still flirts with everyone they see,they do this because
Wow..this is perfect timing. I am a flirt..can't help it..just am. On cs that is the predominant personality that comes through..is that all I am..no..but is it wrong that this is all I am willing to expose to pple here..no. When I'm with someone I love, care and trust then I will be my full self and they will know that no matter how much I flirt..they are my only focus cause they get the whole me.
I find it interesting that most people are drawn to a people who is a flirt and enjoy the attention shown to them. But expect the person to change once they are in a relationship or married to them. We shouldn't think or want to change someone. It never works. If the flirting is truly 'just' flirting I see nothing wrong with it. It is part of the person's personality and that is part of what attracted them to you. It usually brings smiles and happiness to themselve (you) and others that you do it to.
So I guess I am saying if I find you and you find me I don't want you to change once we are in a commited relationship. Just don't cross the line from flirting to action on flirting.
nicki_loveoriginally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago15 Threads374 Posts
nicki_loveoriginally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago374 posts
Englishman55: Nothing wrong with flirting, but if they HAVE told you they love you, then why would they want to flirt with others ?
I fully agree.. if someone loves a you then all their flirting should be done with you.. might even help keep the passion alive.. LOL.. but flirt with someone else.. NO WAY!!
Sometimes people are considered flirts when they are just very social and outgoing people. My mother is 65 and flirts with the best of them, but she does it for fun and good times.
nanners2863: Wow..this is perfect timing. I am a flirt..can't help it..just am. On cs that is the predominant personality that comes through..is that all I am..no..but is it wrong that this is all I am willing to expose to pple here..no. When I'm with someone I love, care and trust then I will be my full self and they will know that no matter how much I flirt..they are my only focus cause they get the whole me.
Nanners you couldnt have expressed it better at least from my point of view- Im also an incorrigible flirt and its just like a jack in the box that wont stay put especially here on CS. But the one I love gets the whole me and only he will get that. I dont think its bad form to flirt especially on here if you have someone already its just fun and leads absolutely nowhere so its also harmless.
He is playing wih you and is still looking, I've experienced that and it is very ugly, he telling you he loves you and all of the sudden can't take his eyes of someone else, he is a liar and he is playing
Englishman55: I am a flirt, but if I found someone special and declared my love for her, it would certainly stop.
Flirting is part of human nature, to find a mate, so why continue flirting if you find one. ?
are we talking here about physical real live flirting or flirting on CS with cyber acquaintances? if its the latter then I dont really see any harm in it - if its the former then I agree with you.
demonfairy: Someone tells you that they love you but still flirts with everyone they see,they do this because
Flirts want attention; if I'm single I'm a flirt; If I'm with someone in a relationship I'm not.
If someone still flirts they are not the one to be with; they crave attention and many times if you add alcohol, this ends up cheating or going to far.
they should want attention from me, not all the men/women around them.
demonfairy: Someone tells you that they love you but still flirts with everyone they see,they do this because
Because it´s CS?
There are serious, serial flirters here, and most of us know who they are. Whether they are like that in real life I have no idea, but I´d be wary of them if they showed any interest in me.
A bit of mild flirting is one thing,but flirting with others while in the company of the person you have professed to love could be humiliating,and hurtfull-not how you would want to make your love feel.
I love to flirt...its so fun, however, if im in a realtionship I only have eyes for them. If I was with someone who flirted with others, I would think they were a playa. Demon: your posts are always sooooo fun !
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