Fraya: Where are you? Set a scenario....are you shopping, in traffic, sitting in a dentist waiting room with a jaw full of numbing stuff?
I'm at a random place that is not specifically a 'place to find a date'.
Or maybe I am, but include the places that aren't!
The bar scene is a lot simpler, really. You kind of expect a woman who is alone or with friends, but without a man, to, perhaps, possibly be single.
But, I meet a lot of very attractive women I'd like to introduce myself to at the 'everyday' places like the grocery store, restaurant, gas station, etc.
I mean, OK, I know, one doesn't need to hit on women everywhere, one can go to said 'places of interest', but really, where I live, you meet by-and-far more women on the odd-chance-out than in such a place as a bar.
I prefer just a simple hi my name´s.....or I´m.....with a smile, not a grin or a lecherous look.
Last night I met somebody who came over to the table I was sitting with friends, introduced himself and actually shook my hand. It was quite sweet,and I´m meeting him tomorrow night for a drink.
venusenvy: Well like I answered in the other thread ...just smile and chat, If shes at all interested, believe me, she will chat right back at ya ...she wont let you get away
Indeed, indeed! Perhaps that is the next step!
What to do when it's time to leave?! Pass off a number, offer your own, let it go and hope you meet again?! Very serious consequences to be had, for sure! :)
Barrellofart: Indeed, indeed! Perhaps that is the next step!
What to do when it's time to leave?! Pass off a number, offer your own, let it go and hope you meet again?! Very serious consequences to be had, for sure! :)
take out your cell phone look at it, like maybe you are checking a text and say, give me your number, i want to call you. she will give it to you 90 percent of the time, even do this at the gas station if you chat for only 3 minutes, what is the other option, never see her again??
I prefer just a simple hi my name´s.....or I´m.....with a smile, not a grin or a lecherous look.
Last night I met somebody who came over to the table I was sitting with friends, introduced himself and actually shook my hand. It was quite sweet,and I´m meeting him tomorrow night for a drink.
Oh. your killing me. I could NEVER do that. Esp if she was sitting with some other women.
I prefer just a simple hi my name´s.....or I´m.....with a smile, not a grin or a lecherous look.
Last night I met somebody who came over to the table I was sitting with friends, introduced himself and actually shook my hand. It was quite sweet,and I´m meeting him tomorrow night for a drink.
ooops, good luck BTW (not a lecherous grin) Was he wearing a hat?
And the fact that I was with friends made it all the more special. It took guts to do that.
Spanish men are different though, fewer inhibitions.
I think it took zero guts, if I walk up to some woman of a different country or race it is much easier than with your own you need more skills to impress your own kind.
elmoangel: I think it took zero guts, if I walk up to some woman of a different country or race it is much easier than with your own you need more skills to impress your own kind.
You talk through your backside.
I´ve lived here for six years, only have Spanish friends and speak Spanish.
Walk up say Hi and be honest about why your there..like I caught your eye..or you were wondering if I was single and would like to go out for coffee. People spend so much time playing games..think up front honesty would be refreshing!
Barrellofart: Indeed, indeed! Perhaps that is the next step!
What to do when it's time to leave?! Pass off a number, offer your own, let it go and hope you meet again?! Very serious consequences to be had, for sure! :)
For sure you will know the right thing to do B ...no worries
elmoangel: I guess that is you barbaric way of expressing disagreement with my statement, are you a scouse too?? LMFAO!!
I dont know what a "scouse" is but im totally with Jan on this one...I live in Mex. and I have lots of mexie and international friends. I speak spanish ( well franglish really) and I get by, but A good guy is a good guy and a bad guy is a jerk in any language.I think her man showed nerve.
Hey Jan good luck on the date G'friend...I hope magic happens
venusenvy: I dont know what a "scouse" is but im totally with Jan on this one...I live in Mex. and I have lots of mexie and international friends. I speak spanish ( well franglish really) and I get by, but A good guy is a good guy and a bad guy is a jerk in any language.I think her man showed nerve.
Hey Jan good luck on the date G'friend...I hope magic happens
It is good that you come to me in your quest for scouse knowledge but at the same time troubling you didn't just google it, I will give you a hint, beatles, now come back if you need more help.lol
Jan, please educate your minions before sending them forth. Lol.
K.I.S.S = Keep it Simple Stupid! Use a simple intro. Be nice and confident. "hello, my name is so and so." You use a pick up line then it just sets you up to look like a doofus. Good luck.
In my experience women from the north east coast are very brutal if they think they are out of a guys league and he has the nerve to ask the time of day. In san francisco it was a shock no matter how beautiful the women answer so if you have game you can score at will.
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Perhaps if I leverage my logical abilities against what women will tell me they want, I can work out the ultimate Self Help dating guide! Heheh.