Englishman55: Hi Margarete Sorry that happened to you. There is no excuse for rudeness and certainly no excuse for not being able to upload a photo.
CS will upload them for you if you are having problems yourself. All you need to do is E-mail the photos to the site and they will do it....... so his excuse was a lame one, and I hope if someone else tries to use it you are now knowledgeable enough to point this out to them.
Hello!
Thanks for letting me know, I knew that there should be some sort of help available in CS, just didn't know how that worked. To be honest, since then, If I get a message from someone who has no pic I simply ignore it. That was also why I added to my profile that I would not answer to messages without a photo, I am here to meet people, and who knows to meet the man that will take my breath away, not to get distressed with time wasters like that.
Now, can someone say something really funny and silly to lighten it up??
Englishman55: Don't you think you are limiting yourself though ?
If I were to ask you to send a photo prior to us meeting.... would you, and if not, why not ?
Seeing that you are in Italy and my chances of meeting you are next to none, I would wonder why you need my pic.. However, I have sent my pic to others, only to find that once they got the pic they were not interested in me......their loss not mine.
mychelle: Seeing that you are in Italy and my chances of meeting you are next to none, I would wonder why you need my pic.. However, I have sent my pic to others, only to find that once they got the pic they were not interested in me......their loss not mine.
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
mychelle: Seeing that you are in Italy and my chances of meeting you are next to none, I would wonder why you need my pic.. However, I have sent my pic to others, only to find that once they got the pic they were not interested in me......their loss not mine.
My question to you Mychelle was a hypothetical one, not actual.
Sorry to hear the person lost interest after you sent a photo, but as you say.... Their loss. I hope it doesn't put you off sending them in future though.
LonelyMontse08: I don't respond (usually) to messages or ims to profiles with not pics cause it is not fair I have 8 pics in my profile, all of them are recent and I change them often and I only expect that the persons that contact me have at least 3 pics, what is the point on getting online on one of these sites if you are not willing to show your pics anyway?
Because chemistry is a toatlly internal concept, hmmm
venusenvy: Its ALL about chemistry baby, But, a picture is worth a thousand words. Are you telling me men dont check out a ladies...assets ? Please! I cant say my love life is "failing" or lacking in any way in fact, Can you? Sooooo hows that working for YOU?? I just think if I have the cojones to put it out there, I would expect the same from men. Trying to take a disembodied head outline seriously is to say the least...disconcerting.
Hmm the old I do so you must concept. Hmmmmm so then if I say I am going to walk naked down your towns main street you will 100% join me, as well because fair is fair , hmmmmmmmmm
Why the anger, if you are so happy, hmmmm juxtoposition perhaps??
Well lets see I teach physed, officiate 3 sports, and volunteer at youth camps and clinics, hmmmmmm.
I don't NEED to put it out how "successful" I am, for being at ease with whom I am, and understanding that sight has nothing to do with chemistry ...
Photos or no photos, does it really matter. I was contacted by one person (not on this site) that had a nice picture. He wasn't smiling but that didn't matter. We planned to meet and then he added . . "now don't be surprised but I have a couple of teeth missing in the front." I covered by relating my experience getting my teeth in shape. Luckily, he emailed me the next day saying he didn't think we were a match.
The only person from this site that I've met in real life is someone who has never posted a photo.
He first wrote to me almost 2 months ago, and we spent a month emailing about all sorts of things... until I felt totally comfortable to meet up. We have become very good friends. A day that we don't talk/text/email is rare. He lives 90 mins away, but we get together a couple of times a week anyway. Whether it develops into a romantic relationship or not, I have no regrets because the friendship will be an enduring one.
I came to this site at the end of April because I'd just arrived in Tennessee and didn't know anyone. IMO... reading profiles w/o pictures is so totally worth the time it takes!!!
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Sorry that happened to you. There is no excuse for rudeness and certainly no excuse for not being able to upload a photo.
CS will upload them for you if you are having problems yourself.
All you need to do is E-mail the photos to the site and they will do it....... so his excuse was a lame one, and I hope if someone else tries to use it you are now knowledgeable enough to point this out to them.
Hello!
Thanks for letting me know, I knew that there should be some sort of help available in CS, just didn't know how that worked. To be honest, since then, If I get a message from someone who has no pic I simply ignore it. That was also why I added to my profile that I would not answer to messages without a photo, I am here to meet people, and who knows to meet the man that will take my breath away, not to get distressed with time wasters like that.
Now, can someone say something really funny and silly to lighten it up??