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Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ? ( Archived) (54)

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#0
Jul 17, 2010 4:00 PM CSTDo you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
GoodHeartforYou
GoodHeartforYouGoodHeartforYouEarth, Alaska, USA5 Threads 4 Polls 218 Posts
GoodHeartforYouOPEarth, Alaska, USA218 posts

Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?(Vote Below)

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Yes
52
74%
No
18
26%
Total Votes
70
If you said yes -
Then is monogamy so important to you? If so is this not a contradiction in your beliefs?

Without quoting religious books or you parents or "the way I grew up":
Please explain why you think humans put such an importance on having s*xual exclusivity with their "partner", "mate", "boyfriend" or "girlfriend"?
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#1
Jul 17, 2010 4:12 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
AmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
GingerBe: Could have a lot to do with not catching a disease that might ultimately kill you.



thumbs up wine
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#2
Jul 17, 2010 4:17 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
Well imagine if there were was just one type of fruit in the world.wink
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#3
Jul 17, 2010 4:22 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
GoodHeartforYou
GoodHeartforYouGoodHeartforYouEarth, Alaska USA5 Threads 4 Polls 218 Posts
GoodHeartforYouOPEarth, Alaska USA218 posts
Veritaas: Well imagine if there were was just one type of fruit in the world.


OK I understand - fruit is the most important thing to have variety of cheers - that is what the quote means
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#4
Jul 17, 2010 4:23 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
DagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA3,076 posts
Veritaas: Well imagine if there were was just one type of fruit in the world.


Really. You couldn't even choose between bananas and, and, um...oh dammit. Well that joke fell flat.

wine 54
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#5
Jul 17, 2010 4:24 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
oldfoxyguy
oldfoxyguyoldfoxyguyLarnaca, Cyprus12 Threads 5 Polls 513 Posts
oldfoxyguyLarnaca, Cyprus513 posts
Fraya: variety is spicy and can happen and work very well in a monogamous reltionship. The variety I speak of is paying attention to the fun aspect of a relationship since routine and habits can form quickly. The multi-partner thing is messy I`d say..... in more ways than one.


Well said,,,head banger
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#6
Jul 17, 2010 4:25 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada3,454 posts
That would be pepper.
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#7
Jul 17, 2010 4:30 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
FrayaCork, Ireland3,762 posts
oldfoxyguy: Well said,,,


Thank you Sir
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#8
Jul 17, 2010 4:35 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
Dagosto: Really. You couldn't even choose between bananas and, and, um...oh dammit. Well that joke fell flat.

54


Only if there were others, like mangos, guavas, blueberries.wine
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#9
Jul 17, 2010 4:37 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
GoodHeartforYou: OK I understand - fruit is the most important thing to have variety of - that is what the quote means


Variety is a stimulant. Imagine if there was only one type of book on one subject.
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#10
Jul 17, 2010 4:39 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
kidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada16,544 posts
Veritaas: Variety is a stimulant. Imagine if there was only one type of book on one subject.



That could depend on who wrote that book too.grin


wave
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#11
Jul 17, 2010 4:40 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
I dont think of "variety" in the same terms as you. I mean more variety and spice IN a relationship. wine
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#12
Jul 17, 2010 4:51 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
kidatheart: That could depend on who wrote that book too.


Any suggestions on the author? There can only be one now.wave wink
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#13
Jul 17, 2010 4:53 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
GoodHeartforYou
GoodHeartforYouGoodHeartforYouEarth, Alaska USA5 Threads 4 Polls 218 Posts
GoodHeartforYouOPEarth, Alaska USA218 posts
venusenvy: I dont think of "variety" in the same terms as you. I mean more variety and spice IN a relationship.


OK - agree

- thinking Karma just back at me - my computer froze up wow

- but did reboot - so I have been redeemed ?!? dunno
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#14
Jul 17, 2010 4:55 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
kidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada16,544 posts
Veritaas: Any suggestions on the author? There can only be one now.



You'll just have to find one that you enjoy thoroughly, with plenty of pages to peruse. cool

Nothing wrong with the odd magazine in the meantime though, glossy and short has it's merits too.grin
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#15
Jul 17, 2010 4:55 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
GoodHeartforYou: OK - agree

- thinking Karma just back at me - my computer froze up

- but did reboot - so I have been redeemed ?!?


Sounds like the cyber gods gave you a pass. angel
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#16
Jul 17, 2010 4:56 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
kidatheart: You'll just have to find one that you enjoy thoroughly, with plenty of pages to peruse.

Nothing wrong with the odd magazine in the meantime though, glossy and short has it's merits too.



Ooooo and pictures...make sure it has lots of pictures rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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#17
Jul 17, 2010 4:59 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
kidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada16,544 posts
venusenvy: Ooooo and pictures...make sure it has lots of pictures



Those are the things memories are made of.daydream


grin
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#18
Jul 17, 2010 5:00 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
kidatheart: Those are the things memories are made of.


Well, and videos grin daydream
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#19
Jul 17, 2010 5:10 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
nevica
nevicanevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden11 Threads 640 Posts
nevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden640 posts
GoodHeartforYou: Again - you are 3 times more likely to be killed in an automobile accident...So are you saying you don't drive a car either?
wine to the variety, your statistics are inspiring. I also think that the need of the variety depends on where you are in your life, when the kids are small they need stability, or you are busy with something else than love that gives you variety, but sure, nothing wrong with variety in love as well in my book, in some periods of our lifethumbs up
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#20
Jul 17, 2010 5:13 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
kidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada16,544 posts
venusenvy: Well, and videos



Instructional. or just simply for one's viewing pleasure?cool
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#21
Jul 17, 2010 5:19 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
Well im a one man lady,who DOESN"T believe in sharing....tongue
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#22
Jul 17, 2010 5:20 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
GoodHeartforYou
GoodHeartforYouGoodHeartforYouEarth, Alaska USA5 Threads 4 Polls 218 Posts
GoodHeartforYouOPEarth, Alaska USA218 posts
nevica: to the variety, your statistics are inspiring. I also think that the need of the variety depends on where you are in your life, when the kids are small they need stability, or you are busy with something else than love that gives you variety, but sure, nothing wrong with variety in love as well in my book, in some periods of our life


wine Good open minded honest answer. Depends where you are in life -

So many singles claim they are "open minded" but so few are.
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#23
Jul 17, 2010 5:23 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
kidatheart: Instructional. or just simply for one's viewing pleasure?


Could be both...and review grin rolling on the floor laughing
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#24
Jul 17, 2010 5:26 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
suggasugga
suggasuggasuggasuggaLos Angeles, California USA8 Threads 1,267 Posts
suggasuggaLos Angeles, California USA1,267 posts
GingerBe: Could have a lot to do with not catching a disease that might ultimately kill you.

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing THIS IS TRUErolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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#25
Jul 17, 2010 5:48 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
GoodHeartforYou
GoodHeartforYouGoodHeartforYouEarth, Alaska USA5 Threads 4 Polls 218 Posts
GoodHeartforYouOPEarth, Alaska USA218 posts
venusenvy: Not for me anyway...you dont even get to the...good stuff until you have trust in your partner...that happens with love and time.


So you are saying you can never love 2 people - and share your time separately with both of them.?

Say - like in the movies where an airline pilot has 2 wives in 2 different cities and claims to love them both

sad flower
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#26
Jul 17, 2010 5:51 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
venusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada20,003 posts
GoodHeartforYou: So you are saying you can never love 2 people - and share your time separately with both of them.?

Say - like in the movies where an airline pilot has 2 wives in 2 different cities and claims to love them both


God why would I ever complicate my life like that? let alone the bad karma. Mucho Trabjo man. dunno
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#27
Jul 17, 2010 5:54 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
nevica
nevicanevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden11 Threads 640 Posts
nevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden640 posts
GoodHeartforYou: So you are saying you can never love 2 people - and share your time separately with both of them.?

Say - like in the movies where an airline pilot has 2 wives in 2 different cities and claims to love them both

Love more than one person at a time is certainly possible, here is a proof, 500,000 polyamorous relationships in the United States.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory
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#28
Jul 17, 2010 5:54 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
sultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados3,203 posts
GingerBe: Could have a lot to do with not catching a disease that might ultimately kill you.
thumbs up wave wine
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#29
Jul 17, 2010 5:56 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
GoodHeartforYou: So you are saying you can never love 2 people - and share your time separately with both of them.?

Say - like in the movies where an airline pilot has 2 wives in 2 different cities and claims to love them both


Well it sure happens. Known a married couple, he has a wife and girlfriend, they all go out with each other, sometimes separately. It works for them but not for all.
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#30
Jul 17, 2010 5:57 PM CST Do you believe, “Variety's the very spice of life, That gives it all its flavor” ?
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
sultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados3,203 posts
Veritaas: Well it sure happens. Known a married couple, he has a wife and girlfriend, they all go out with each other, sometimes separately. It works for them but not for all.


Well I guess.......the world is made up of all kinds ........hi Kwave hug
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