Lies and Betrayal ( Archived) (64)

Jul 29, 2010 1:12 AM CSTLies and Betrayal
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts

Lies and Betrayal(Vote Below)

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I have been lied to and betrayed
62
85%
I lied to and betrayed someone
4
5%
No, neither, I have been lucky
7
10%
Total Votes
73
Maradona, the coach of the Argentinian national team, storms out after losing in disgrace to Germany in the World Cup, claiming that he was lied to and betrayed.

In life and love, have you experienced these situations? Wether in love, friendship or at the workplace, betrayal and lies can be the most devastating issues to deal with.

Famous Betrayal: "Et tu, Brute?" - Caesar's words to the Senator Brutus while being knifed in the back...

Famous lies: "Til death us do part..." - heard weekly in a church near you.


How have you dealt with betrayal or lies, and have you recovered from it?

comfort hug
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Jul 29, 2010 1:28 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
:drum roll:


Who goes first? grin


Have you, OP?





popcorn
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Jul 29, 2010 1:35 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts
I was lied to by my mother at the age of 3 months...she said" Oh he's so cute, I'm sure he's going to be the handsome one!"

doh laugh
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Jul 29, 2010 1:39 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
You learn to let go, otherwise the bitterness & hurt will eat you alive.
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Jul 29, 2010 1:39 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
BoyracerBMW: I was lied to by my mother at the age of 3 months...she said" Oh he's so cute, I'm sure he's going to be the handsome one!"


hug I am sure she didn't mean to... she thought you couldn't understand yet. hmmm

Post the pic BR! cool
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Jul 29, 2010 1:40 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
rocky_zen
rocky_zenrocky_zenManila, Metro Manila Philippines4 Threads 50 Posts
Yes, I was with a lady and she said she was a virgin.... hmmmm but she wasn'trolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Either she lied or she was a Naturalapplause banana
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Jul 29, 2010 1:45 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts
"Forgive to get free".....but that is another theme. cheers

langleygirl: You learn to let go, otherwise the bitterness & hurt will eat you alive.
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Jul 29, 2010 1:51 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
afterbam
afterbamafterbamP.A., Pennsylvania USA18 Threads 2,006 Posts
It's not a lie till this 's known...grin
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Jul 29, 2010 1:54 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts
Interesting comment...like, it's not a loss until you sell your stock?

But a life based on a lie is wasted the moment the lie is discovered....ooh, that's a bit deep for this time of the day...sigh

afterbam: It's not a lie till this 's known...
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Jul 29, 2010 2:03 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
afterbam
afterbamafterbamP.A., Pennsylvania USA18 Threads 2,006 Posts
BoyracerBMW: Interesting comment...like, it's not a loss until you sell your stock?

But a life based on a lie is wasted the moment the lie is discovered....ooh, that's a bit deep for this time of the day...


in all my life..I only lied once...very small thing...PS
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Jul 29, 2010 2:20 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
BoyracerBMW: Maradona, the coach of the Argentinian national team, storms out after losing in disgrace to Germany in the World Cup, claiming that he was lied to and betrayed.

In life and love, have you experienced these situations? Wether in love, friendship or at the workplace, betrayal and lies can be the most devastating issues to deal with.

Famous Betrayal: "Et tu, Brute?" - Caesar's words to the Senator Brutus while being knifed in the back...

Famous lies: "Til death us do part..." - heard weekly in a church near you.How have you dealt with betrayal or lies, and have you recovered from it?


I threaten to show my Shalonga to their wifes.... sisters .... grin
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Jul 29, 2010 2:21 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts
You lie in your teeth! laugh

Boban1: I threaten to show my Shalonga to their wifes.... sisters ....
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Jul 29, 2010 5:04 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
candorthoughts
candorthoughtscandorthoughtsNoida, Uttar Pradesh India8 Threads 18 Posts
Yes,

I was lied and betrayed by the girl whom I loved for 7 years, to result in a break up !

Its a terrible experience !

Difficult to digest & takes time to heal !

Lying and Betraying will go hand in hand most of the times !

It results in bitterness in the end and massive change in ones beilef system.

Nikhil
BoyracerBMW: Maradona, the coach of the Argentinian national team, storms out after losing in disgrace to Germany in the World Cup, claiming that he was lied to and betrayed.

In life and love, have you experienced these situations? Wether in love, friendship or at the workplace, betrayal and lies can be the most devastating issues to deal with.

Famous Betrayal: "Et tu, Brute?" - Caesar's words to the Senator Brutus while being knifed in the back...

Famous lies: "Til death us do part..." - heard weekly in a church near you.How have you dealt with betrayal or lies, and have you recovered from it?
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Jul 29, 2010 5:11 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
Betrayed and lied to. And i took him back. doh

over and over again for 5 years. doh doh
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Jul 29, 2010 5:12 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts
Quit slapping yourself. Let me do it.

doh doh

plainlyjune: Betrayed and lied to. And i took him back.

over and over again for 5 years.
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Jul 29, 2010 5:20 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
leostartingover
leostartingoverleostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 1 Polls 1,685 Posts
BoyracerBMW: Maradona, the coach of the Argentinian national team, storms out after losing in disgrace to Germany in the World Cup, claiming that he was lied to and betrayed.

In life and love, have you experienced these situations? Wether in love, friendship or at the workplace, betrayal and lies can be the most devastating issues to deal with.

Famous Betrayal: "Et tu, Brute?" - Caesar's words to the Senator Brutus while being knifed in the back...

Famous lies: "Til death us do part..." - heard weekly in a church near you.How have you dealt with betrayal or lies, and have you recovered from it?


But re: the latter, is it a lie if you believe it to be true at at the time? I am lucky not to have had to deal with betrayal, which I think takes a lot of time to heal from; but have definitely had to deal with lies. I always tell myself, they were lying to protect themselves - it was not directed intentionally to hurt me, in fact ironically usually a lie is because they don't WANT to hurt you, and I let it go. The alternative is to let it eat you up like a tapeworm - ewwww would rather not let it get any bigger and longer - would rather nip it in the bud!
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Jul 29, 2010 5:24 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
Raynew1959
Raynew1959Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA120 Threads 2 Polls 2,218 Posts
I'd had a triple by-pass in '95 and my wife at the time waited til I was back on my feet and working before telling me to get out because she couldn't deal with my having a heart problem. This was just shy of our 10th anniversary.
At the time I was going through post op depression and that sent me right to the bottom. Let's just say I pulled myself out and very rarely speak to her.

Had a girlfriend who admitted to cheating twice on two previous husbands but was committed to us. I should have ran when she admitted to the cheating as later in our relationship I found her with someone else. I walked away without saying a word
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Jul 29, 2010 5:25 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
BoyracerBMW: Quit slapping yourself. Let me do it.


ouch!! think that was personal right there! moping
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Jul 29, 2010 5:27 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts
Slaps on yer bum don't count.. giggle

plainlyjune: ouch!! think that was personal right there!
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Jul 29, 2010 5:28 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts
Yes, often people tell lies to avoid the unpleasantness of having to deal with the truth...we all tend to take the easy way out, innit?

leostartingover: But re: the latter, is it a lie if you believe it to be true at at the time? I am lucky not to have had to deal with betrayal, which I think takes a lot of time to heal from; but have definitely had to deal with lies. I always tell myself, they were lying to protect themselves - it was not directed intentionally to hurt me, in fact ironically usually a lie is because they don't WANT to hurt you, and I let it go. The alternative is to let it eat you up like a tapeworm - ewwww would rather not let it get any bigger and longer - would rather nip it in the bud!
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Jul 29, 2010 5:30 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
I have led a sheltered life wink
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Jul 29, 2010 5:30 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
leostartingover
leostartingoverleostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 1 Polls 1,685 Posts
BoyracerBMW: Yes, often people tell lies to avoid the unpleasantness of having to deal with the truth...we all tend to take the easy way out, innit?


Yes, and lots of times people lie by omission! sigh
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Jul 29, 2010 5:31 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
BoyracerBMW: Slaps on yer bum don't count..

now you're gonna be slapped back scold
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Jul 29, 2010 5:33 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts
Oh goody! banana

plainlyjune: now you're gonna be slapped back
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Jul 29, 2010 5:34 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
BoyracerBMW: Oh goody!


can't believe i fell for that doh
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Jul 29, 2010 5:35 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
I was betrayed by someone very close to me .

My ex recorded a telephone conversation I was having with a co-worker/friend and we were talking about our boss . Some things that were said weren't so complimentary . He person took the taped conversation to my boss for him to listen to .All because we had a fight and I told him I wanted a divorce.dunno
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Jul 29, 2010 5:36 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts
Don't worry, you'll get over it. comfort

plainlyjune: can't believe i fell for that
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Jul 29, 2010 5:37 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
deadbutwhy
deadbutwhydeadbutwhyeast, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia9 Threads 2 Polls 1,295 Posts
sultryash: I was betrayed by someone very close to me .

My ex recorded a telephone conversation I was having with a co-worker/friend and we were talking about our boss . Some things that were said weren't so complimentary . He person took the taped conversation to my boss for him to listen to .All because we had a fight and I told him I wanted a divorce.
wow he really didn't care for you much thumbs down
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Jul 29, 2010 5:37 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts
Holy crap!...people have killed for less!!...jeez, I'm speechless. That I could never forgive. doh

sultryash: I was betrayed by someone very close to me .

My ex recorded a telephone conversation I was having with a co-worker/friend and we were talking about our boss . Some things that were said weren't so complimentary . He person took the taped conversation to my boss for him to listen to .All because we had a fight and I told him I wanted a divorce.
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Jul 29, 2010 5:39 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts
Yes, strange how things turn out. But it still takes huge emotional intelligence. Hi Muse!

wave

invinciblemuse: To forgive the unforgivable is the most evil thing to do to the person that hurt you - because you'll ALWAYS win any comparison with the person who's taken your place, forever! The sweetest revenge...
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Jul 29, 2010 5:42 AM CST Lies and Betrayal
leostartingover
leostartingoverleostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa33 Threads 1 Polls 1,685 Posts
sultryash: I was betrayed by someone very close to me .

My ex recorded a telephone conversation I was having with a co-worker/friend and we were talking about our boss . Some things that were said weren't so complimentary . He person took the taped conversation to my boss for him to listen to .All because we had a fight and I told him I wanted a divorce.


What a meanie! thumbs down Did you lose your job? Sometimes the universe works in strange ways. I hope if you did lose your job that you found a much better one, and also a better partner! hug
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