I'd like to but would not fancy possible rejection
5
16%
I could only do it with a few drinks in me
5
16%
I'd be up for it, then bottle out
1
3%
I'd try it once, but not again, if it went bad
1
3%
Yup! I would have the confidence to do this, tomm
4
12%
Yes, and I have had success with it
8
25%
Done it, and didn't feel at ease..
5
16%
Other (please state)
3
9%
Total Votes
32
Guys,
Imagine you have given the net dating a spin, and found it was not for you. Your friends are all married, but, on the even more downside, they don't really have any friends that you would have anything in common with, really. And, you find trawling bars, looking to 'pull' women, a bit of a cliche, would you ever try this..
1) Spot a girl that you liked, not half drunk on a night out, sober, day time.
2) Introduce yourself, politely!
3) Ask her right out, just like that.
I've not really done it quite as direct as that, but close to it, and, to my surprise, maybe I was lucky, but when I did, it usually went well for me!
When I’m out I simply introduce myself politely by offering to buy a drink and in return ask for few minutes of their time. I usually get a pleasant response either yes or no.
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
ybfayl: When I’m out I simply introduce myself politely by offering to buy a drink and in return ask for few minutes of their time. I usually get a pleasant response either yes or no.
So what are you doing on a dating website honey, if you are so successful in bars?
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Question to blokes (esp). Direct approach..?(Vote Below)
Imagine you have given the net dating a spin, and found it was not for you. Your friends are all married, but, on the even more downside, they don't really have any friends that you would have anything in common with, really. And, you find trawling bars, looking to 'pull' women, a bit of a cliche, would you ever try this..
1) Spot a girl that you liked, not half drunk on a night out, sober, day time.
2) Introduce yourself, politely!
3) Ask her right out, just like that.
I've not really done it quite as direct as that, but close to it, and, to my surprise, maybe I was lucky, but when I did, it usually went well for me!