GoodHeartforYou: I said nothing about the Irish -though they have an abominable Orphanage problem that is run by the "catholics"
Why can't adoption be a solution to infertile women?
There is no reason adoption cannot be part of the solution. I WOULD adopt. When I was in my 20's a deaf woman whose partner could not handle the both of us having infertilty thus left, was frowned upon for adoption. In many places Adoption also requires huge amounts of money. Thus, it is oft, sadly, a closed road. In many relationships ONE partner will not agree to adoption.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
GoodHeartforYou: Our world population passed the sustainable population many years ago - hence starvation in Africa, India, and many 3rd world countries.... The Philippines is now the 2nd fastest growing population per capita - yet over one third of their people are poor and/or surviving only because of relatives living in foreign countries supporting them.
In the USA we have over 300 million people now, yet no more land to grow food, raise animals for meat, etc..
"Infertility" it is not a PROBLEM it is a SOLUTION
Nov 1, 2010 3:06 PM CST Is infertility becoming more frequent?
TrueBlue1986Sale, South Manchester, Cheshire, England UK1,322 Posts
TrueBlue1986Sale, South Manchester, Cheshire, England UK1,322 posts
GoodHeartforYou: I said nothing about the Irish -though they have an abominable Orphanage problem that is run by the "catholics"
Why can't adoption be a solution to infertile women?
You don't mention the Irish specificially, but your whole point of argument is that infertility is a good thing everywhere, and shouldn't be treated, to which I disagree.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
CjTenorSax: There is no reason adoption cannot be part of the solution. I WOULD adopt. When I was in my 20's a deaf woman whose partner could not handle the both of us having infertilty thus left, was frowned upon for adoption. In many places Adoption also requires huge amounts of money. Thus, it is oft, sadly, a closed road. In many relationships ONE partner will not agree to adoption.
I'm considering fostering when my daughter flies the nest. Have you thought about that?
GoodHeartforYou: I said nothing about the Irish -though they have an abominable Orphanage problem that is run by the "catholics"
Why can't adoption be a solution to infertile women?
im realy sure there are no orphanages in ireland any more and personally i would like the oportunity to try to have my own pregnancy before going for adoption.
jac379: Aaah, you know, ignorance and insensitivity when they should know better...maybe stupidity that they can't help, bless 'em
Jac xxx
thing is, and im realy not trying to be a trouble starter here but he isnt a woman dealing with infertility he is a man passing judgement on the world. i no many men are infertile and i no its not easy for them either. its sad realy x
please dont talk down to people on the forums. we are realy not out to make anyone look simple. i refuse to resign myself to be childless because you feel the rest of the world is overpopulated. irelands population is around 6.2 million.
LadyinDublin: thing is, and im realy not trying to be a trouble starter here but he isnt a woman dealing with infertility he is a man passing judgement on the world. i no many men are infertile and i no its not easy for them either. its sad realy x
That is it - As a man I am jealous that I can not conceive a child so I am spreading hate. Actually - no.....
I believe sincerely that the world is overpopulated by humans....
My opinions are NOT directed at you personally dear LadyinDublin, and am confused as to why you think I am attacking you personally.
i dont believe you are attacking me personally, im disagreeing with the fact you think infertility is a solution. what about other major populations of animals? the birds for example? we are the top animal on the planet, thats just how it is. nature will balance us out when its sees fit but until then humans will hopefully get to live their lives and pass the earth on to their children.
LadyinDublin: thing is, and im realy not trying to be a trouble starter here but he isnt a woman dealing with infertility he is a man passing judgement on the world. i no many men are infertile and i no its not easy for them either. its sad realy x
I know you finding rational thought hard to accept, I can see that from your posts.
Overpopulation is a separate issue from and individual's struggle with their fertility and the last thing somebody needs in this position is an insensitive twit thinking they know it all, when they so plainly don't.
A woman is born with all the eggs she will ever have in her life. Some women are born with less eggs and those unlucky women will probably not be able to have kids naturally after age 32.
My mother died of ovarian cancer at 30. When I went to my gynocologist at age 18, he told me "If you are going to have children have then soon. You have no guarantee that you will be fertile five years from now." So I had my daughter at age 20.
Shocker, I'm healty and never had the problems my mother did.
I do know one woman who had a surprise baby at age 45 without even trying and the baby was healthy, but that is extremely rare.
After age 32, the quality of a woman's eggs start to go bad gradually. The best time to have a baby is exactly what my doctor told me when I was 18. Women should be having babies from 18 to 27. After that, good luck.
I know that is not fun to hear, because women want to go to college and have a career....guess what?
I went to University and Ihave had a career and I had a baby at 20. It can be done.
Also, the world can ALWAYS make room for another cute blue eyed blonde, Mister. Bet on it.
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Why can't adoption be a solution to infertile women?