Candid women on CS who would talk about themselves?
Nope. We take our privacy Very Seriously.
I will say (and you knew I would say something) that my husband was an extremely good guy, very worthy, and a tad dull. When I left I did kick over the traces for a year or two, he probably thought much as you did, what the hell was I married to? But I had been worthy and dull for about 10 years and I needed a stretch.
We're still friends. May be more accurate to say we are still family. In fact most years I go there for Christmas, but it's an 8 hour drive, it has to be a loooong Christmas break!
People do change, though, especially after a break-up they cut loose and go off the rails a bit. After a while they settle back into who they really are - and that's often not the person you knew either. We all change a bit for our partners, because they bring out a side of us that we like, that's why we like the partner.
I did start keeping a journal in my thirties, when I was newly divorced, on the basis that if you keep an interesting-enough journal one day it will keep you. But somehow I never managed to meet anyone who went on to become famous or even notorious. Waste of ink
ANgel, so true, of all the friends I got (after I was 14) I am still good friends with 1, haven't a clue what happened to the others from that time, but we told each other everything.
RE: How well did you know?
Candid women on CS who would talk about themselves?Nope. We take our privacy Very Seriously.
I will say (and you knew I would say something) that my husband was an extremely good guy, very worthy, and a tad dull. When I left I did kick over the traces for a year or two, he probably thought much as you did, what the hell was I married to? But I had been worthy and dull for about 10 years and I needed a stretch.
We're still friends. May be more accurate to say we are still family. In fact most years I go there for Christmas, but it's an 8 hour drive, it has to be a loooong Christmas break!