When she brings him and you see that he is not the kind of man you would wish for your little girl, you do not show it and shake hands and exchange conventional greetings with him. You can do absolutely nothing if she is in love and adamant about staying with him. You can only watch painfully and wait. It will be hard for you, I know, but let her decide for herself, and then, if he's really bad, she will see it and decide what's good for her. She must learn on her own mistakes for her own good. Good luck!
I remember a doll, beautiful doll, mother bought me when I was 4 on the way home from doctor. I guess I had a hard time there at doctor's, so mother took me to the department store and bought me a doll with blonde curly hair and a blue dress, and she was right: I immediately forgot about doctor when I held the doll in my hands. Later I destroyed it when playing 'mother and child' - doing all kinds of things with it: cutting hair, bathing, experimenting with clothes, but children learn when playing with and then destroying toys. My parents were good people - they taught me how to love each other and be considerate to others, and many thanks to them from the bottom of my heart! Thanks for the thread - I loved it. Best regards!
Provided there are thorough checks for security reasons, I wouldn't object to helping people in dire straits. If a country can afford it, if its people are not in distress and refugees themselves, it is its duty to help, but security of its own people is of paramount importance. As for assimilation, the refugees' younger generations will go to local schools and assimilate naturally and easily. The 'stubborn' older generations will supposedly cling to their old ways and traditions, but in the long run their younger ones will do well and contribute their talent and knowledge to their adoptive country. Thank you for sharing your ideas on this topical matter!
I just don't know, which way I will run, Seems I'm lost, I'm in love, it's no fun. There's a star in the sky, it's as bright As your smile, smile is all I need for a guide.
Darling, you please remember that you'll always have me, Shall we sing song all over? Tell me where to begin, Sunny, dear, you are driving me out of my wits, I don't know how to start, let's begin with a kiss.
Like I have all the love in the world when you're mine, Like I've sung all the songs in the world ever sung, Like I needn't to worry when I'm sure you are mine, Like a blessing of fortune, me and you, you and I.
I will always be here ... waiting only for you, I'll fulfill your desires and protect you from wrong, Fly with you in the air, take you down to the earth, Like your guardian angel blessed wings I will grow.
Until the end of time I will stay with you, Should you send me away, I will stay with you, Should you scold me,ignore, I will stay with you, I'll keep close by your side, I will stay with you.
Our love will grow for eternity, Time will pass, years will add to our age, But the love so true that you share with me Won't expire, it will thrive with each day.
I'll be here for you, you must know, Our friendship will last, even grow, Life may suffer us blow, take away all the joy, Our being is battle we fight and enjoy.
That, when you're near, it still smiles at me, It haunts and inspires me, puts me at my ease, Asks for indulgence, accepts every whim, I love you, my baby, we're friends, you and me.
Your cookies look very nice, indeed, I would gladly taste them. Thanks for inviting to the feast, but I like them real. And I like them with strong coffee. Speaking of cookies, I'd better go down and buy some. Thank you, dear. You made my mouth water.
Let us share love and kind feelings towards each other. Let us learn how to love and care for each other from now on. Just imagine ... that this is possible and make it real!
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RE: What would you say?
When she brings him and you see that he is not the kind of man you would wish for your little girl, you do not show it and shake hands and exchange conventional greetings with him. You can do absolutely nothing if she is in love and adamant about staying with him. You can only watch painfully and wait. It will be hard for you, I know, but let her decide for herself, and then, if he's really bad, she will see it and decide what's good for her. She must learn on her own mistakes for her own good. Good luck!