I think that it is nice to hear....definitely brings confidence on from the site. I mean I am not sure about the rest of you, but I REALLY came here to meet someone that I can't just meet around the corner, fall in love, and hope to spend the rest of our lives together. I mean my screen name is LookinFurLuv! ;)
IAMARTISTCAROL--thanks so much for your understanding. I am grateful for the things that are in my control, just wish I had the control I so justly need and diserve for the part of me that loves.
Thank you to everyone for your Thanksgiving blessings.
Black Friday shopping, in the states, is when all retail stores and outlets mark things down at their lowest of the year, to push sales for the holiday season. They all close for the day of Thanksgiving and then re-open at unusually ridiculous hours for special "door busters", and free items.
I do appreciate the comments. Everyone has seemed to like it better this way, also, but I just am not comfortable with it yet. Hope everyone has a great weekend.
Great thing about life is there is SOOOOOOO many people in the world that you can have a possible relationship with! As long as you are open and honest...you really can't go wrong. I have been in two long relationships and both resulted in the births of my loving boys, but now the fathers do not do there part, so definetly remember that the grass is NOT always greener!
Best of luck in your search....maybe you just need to stop looking for snow bunnies and look for a warmer weather creature to make your den with.
Thanks so much for that last comment.....I REALLY think that you should make that a blog all by itself. I think that I knew those things but that with my past situations it makes it less easy to be myself and it makes me more protective. I appreciate the HECK out of the honesty!
My dream was nothing to do with anything happy....it was him showing up with his new girlfriend, who by the way I used to babysit and who gave up her own child to her mother because she is a pill head. They showed up at a party where OUR son and I were and it was hell because for some reason I felt trapped in the situation because in normal situations I would have done everything possible to keep our son from him and the choices he's made. I talked to him, said things that I would've said if I actually ran into him, and settled things. The point being I haven't had a dream about him the whole split till now....think maybe its because my subconcious is allowing me to dream about him because I have let him go? Because I am no longer held down by him?
The reason for FWB is the whole thing that they are friends. One I was friends with first and one I became friends with for just this reason. I completely understand your concept but after you have been run over by so many guys in relationships its easy to just get what I need from them and let 'em leave. Women really can be like guys....it all comes down to over thinking things...which is what women are known for.
I'm gonna get mine.... That is NEVER the issue. A mind is a wonderful thing! Plus I'm agressive.
Anyway, that is besides the point, I don't sweat the small stuff and look at it as less effort on my part alone and he gets to have fun too.
I love my FWB's because in the end they are still my friends!
Whoa whoa whoa.... What the heck? Where's everyone's sense of adventure? What happenned to getting sloppy drunk n regrettin what u did? Is everyone so tied up in love that they can't just have a random? I mean don't get me wrong....I want love... But my needs to b met while I'm waiting! :)
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RE: I am going to married
I think that it is nice to hear....definitely brings confidence on from the site. I mean I am not sure about the rest of you, but I REALLY came here to meet someone that I can't just meet around the corner, fall in love, and hope to spend the rest of our lives together. I mean my screen name is LookinFurLuv! ;)Congratulations!!!