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Self Confidence

thanks for all great comments, everyone..


A little frog in coconut shell refers to someone with limited knowledge that leads him/her into 2 possible destructive characters :
- He/she will become a very arrogant person and always belittles others around them...
- He/she will have low self esteem and always thinks that life is a big problem...He/she will expect more than he/she deserves...

Self Confidence

and balance itself is not always "the same amount"... lol

Self Confidence

hey Non, too much self confidence is not good... Believe it or not !!!

Self Confidence

yes, serenity...!!! let us enjoy our life and happy with what we have...!!!

Self Confidence

have a good day, Praison...

Self Confidence

I have no problem with that...after read some comments....there are loads of surprise comments I found here :


- it is so difficult to find a man/woman to be my bf/gf...
- why nobody contacts me ???
- Am I unattractive to get some attentions ???

RE: Platonic Friendship

can a man and a woman truly have a pure platonic friendship ???

We are talking about younger people in the prime of their life; when all the necessary hormones are still in place and where there still is plenty of chemistry at work. People spending time together and going out together.

it happened to me several times...not only at school/college... yet I am amazed when I found some similar questions in this site... if the question comes from a fanatic religious country citizen, I can understand it...But accidentally, these questions come from some very permissive societies citizens...

RE: Platonic Friendship

my big fam dominated by men...can you believe that I was playing kite with my cousins ??? we played hide and seek... but don't get me wrong... I am still a woman... I like badminton or volleyball...but I can't do boxing or wrestling... oh yeah, when I was at school I had 2 male best friends...

RE: Don't say love easily

oh, no...I correct my comment :

I meant, I fully agree with your first phrases...someone who is easily to say I LOVE YOU just like a teenager in crush and far from maturity...

except the cleanliness, wow...I don't like smelly breath and I'm allergic to yukky habits...

RE: Count Your Blessings

Life is a challenge !!! Live without fear !!!



interesting blog, Cat

RE: devoted heart or exeptional personality?

wow !!! I like cat because it can kill all mices in my house...and I found my nice cat...he is below 40 and not an ex-hippy with 2 kids...

RE: Australian English really confused me...

but I give up for 'slang words'

RE: Australian English really confused me...

I have no problem with conversation because I also speak English everyday...

RE: I wasn't coming back

Did you mean she started learning English at late 40 ??? then, what were she doing when she was at 12 y.o ??? I hope she has a very good memory... Learning in the classroom doesn't give any better...that was only reading & writing... I can't imagine how terrible for her to hold conversation if she moves to your country...

RE: No marriage ... she answered I do.

I like the same Asian... I don't wanna make any relationship with a losser...

RE: No marriage ... she answered I do.

the place where we were born and raised has formed us to be different individuals...as an Asian, we already get used by certain values, such as family values, togetherness, solidarity...etc etc... If we are surrounded by successful couples around us, these conditions will challenge us to gain the same successful standard... when we are in relationship with somebody who has broken home background and surrounded by failed people, this relationship would be more complicated because he doesn't believe in marriage ... even though he is not broken home, but if he is categorized as a hippy, do not talk about marriage to him...you only waste your time...you have the opposite values towards him... that is my reason why I am not seeking Hollywood type...in my case, distance is not an issue for that matter...the same value of respect does matter...

RE: FINAL GOODBYE!!!

thanks for remind us....

RE: I just know it

I had enough, Teddy & I learn from my mistakes... congrats for the succesful ones...

RE: I just know it

good luck, Teddy... I am not seeking LDR or SDR...but "long live and prosper relationship"...so personality, values, soul are more important requirements than distance, race or physical thingy...if LDR is only for vacation trip, no thanks...

RE: Shallow women and why there flakey only towards av

I understood your point... thats why I said : it depends on what kind of relationship we are looking for... If we only seek less than 5 years relationship/t, then do not expect too much instead of physical thingy only...

RE: Greener Pasture .. U Think So ?

sorry to hear that, Joleen... i know its not easy for you...

RE: Shallow women and why there flakey only towards av

put your shirt on would be much better... well, it depends on what kind of relationship you are looking for... if only just for fun, do not expect too much instead of physical thingy only...and if she drop her choice just based on "the looks", no need to regret if 10 years later there would be any possibility for her to change her mind...

RE: I get two different age groups looking at my profi

hey, don't get me wrong... I am not talking about 'fortune teller', astrologers, ghost, or any kind of mystic/supernatural things...I am not God either... i don't have prerogative rights to guess or predict the future...

RE: The Language Barrier

my 2nd language and I don't use translator at all...i prefer conversation than being a script writer...

RE: friends

really ? bus is also bad here, rarely use it too... mostly use subway train to save time...

RE: friends

except in rush hour or in the morning, of course !!!

RE: friends

I'm so surprised after reading your blog because I think its easy...in my offline life, I have no difficulty to find friends... Everytime I go to a new place, I always find new friends...even on the train or bus !!!

RE: English Language, anyone?

the art of interviewing, Joleen don't wear police uniform to catch a big thief !!! sometimes we have to use "reverse logic" to learn their "way of thinking"...

RE: sleeping beauty

I mean, in online...

RE: Hi

I meet my man already, not just "bf/gf only"... and sadly, some online elites are gone... now only online proletariats here...but not life lossers for sure...