friends

What happened to this world? Why people dont wanna be friends anymore?
On the contrary, if you ask someone to be friends, they take it for offence or just something absolutely useless, they dont call me a fool, but i feel they really mean it.dunno
I remember the times (when i was young and still pretty :)) it was so cool to be bff with someone, like u invite them in ur life and they invite u in theirs with absolutely no second thoughts or some probable benefits, or hopes to become something more sooner or later.dunno
People enjoyed being friends, but now i see so few of us still do.blues
This song reminds me of the times bygone.
There was deffinitely something about all that frienship thing.
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is very easy for find screen friends in 3 minutes you have a whole collecting laugh cheers
Lol Jared, i didnt mean cs friend requests collection, this one is absolute bslaugh i meant friends with whom u at least talked or seen em on camdoh
ohh i see. i have one monkey he look every day in my screen. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
I have 2 monkeyswink laugh
I'm so surprised after reading your blog because I think its easy...in my offline life, I have no difficulty to find friends... Everytime I go to a new place, I always find new friends...even on the train or bus !!! wave
I'm very happy for u Cyn, unfortunately its not so easy for me.
Maybe because i'm after a real frienship not just friendly chit-chat.
Have u played that song?
theres one good friend. in this crazy world today. yourself. you can trust he never let you go. and he is always there if u need him laugh thumbs up
Guess its she for me tholaugh she bores me so often, shes so predictablelaugh wish it were heroll eyes rolling on the floor laughing
except in rush hour or in the morning, of course !!!rolling on the floor laughing
Cyn, i dont use buses, so this oportunity is except for me forever.
And look who use buses here:
-refugees who just arrived and have no money to buy a car
-erderly, who cant drive due to age thing
-drunk people who cant drive in this condition.
-school students, who are 10 years younger than me (best case scenario but anyway not the right type)
I wonder who use buses in all the other parts of the worlddunno
really ? bus is also bad here, rarely use it too... mostly use subway train to save time...
As the world changes, so do the value systems of people. Friendship that you talk of is very rare. It has always been rare.

When you were young and beautiful, you might thought that it was easy to make/find friends, but if they were with boys, then I bet the boys were thinking of something else other than being friends!

True friendships can often be counted on the fingers of one hand. You know the ones. You can turn up at their place any time and they will accept you into their home, you can ask to borrow money and they will lend it to you, they are there to support you when you go through tragedy.

I have some of these friends, but they are rare to find.

Also, as we get older we also change. And as we change, we attract different sorts of people and we don't like some things that we used to like when we were young. Also our memories play tricks on us. I remember a movie I watched when I was young and I thought it was wonderful. I had to opportunity to watch it again recently, and I wonder what I ever saw in it.

This example is of many things that happen as we grow older and change.

I understand your lament and question, but the reality is that true friendship is rare. Just like true love is also rare.
I do think it's hard to make real friends, a lot of people like to call everyone a "friend" without any real meaning attached to it or people don't want to put the work and effort into holding on to friends. dunno
I went out to find a friend,
But could not find one there.
I went out to be a friend,
And friends were everywhere!


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Hi guys, thank u for ur interesting comments.
Halv, so much truth in ur words, i just thought the other day, that we loose friends gained years ago.
This is inevitable, world changes and so do people, diferent interests, difrent goals, diferent points of view on the same matters start keeping us apart. and this is just too sad that we cant replace those relationships with any new ones, thats impossible, people dont want to be friends anymoredunno
KN, i totaly agree with you. all this twisted reality with twisted difinition of the very basic words that we learn from our childhoold not to understand but to feel them with ur heart..... all this makes me very sick.blues
George, u're such a sweetielaugh applause nice words.
and Cyn, we dont have subway here, just that one snack bar, where all those suffering diabetes eat 'healthy food'dunno laugh just that one, but i prefer KFCwink laugh
Aisha rose

Mostly because we allowed it, by the wrong reasons; sometimes because we love them, other because we let them “rules our lives” somehow.

As we do selfish things during our life, and later on realize the consequences, sometimes we forget to take the lessons. The important thing is being aware of our actions and when we error.

Don’t just accept it like it's the only way for someone to stay with you – there is no real sense of appreciation.

still believe in people and world !!
Hi Bogart, ohh I'd love to, but the facts dont leave a tiny little hope.
It was easier to make friends some years ago, and its harder now when people are so preocupied with their problems.
I cant say that there were less problems in the past, but people werent just so focused on problems only, were they? They used to leave some room for 'just friend', but now it seems, they aint any interested in that dunno
Aisha, i understand and even accept your point of view; it was easier to make friends, but it still is... the issue now, we have more choices, we know too many people, we use internet too much...and sometimes too many is like a box of chocolate.. which one?
The friendship reaches the same result, as bravery, but only more pleasant way.hug handshake
Aisha this is 4 u my dear. I am still attractive n look young. but i have one friend. women hated me. lol we can say my beauty but wht ever. i had gum put in my hair in school . n all horrible things . lol . your not me. but sometimes u just need one
Aisha, I once had friends for 40+ years, but no more...they ended over misunderstanding, or something less than that. It saddens my heart these friendships have ended.

@ Ed I can relate big time to your comment. Its pretty messed up when people put more value on technology instead of people (just seems that way to me).
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