How often?
I wonder how many of you face same problem? Believe, this doesn't depend much on our personality or age or the way we live.It just happens as a rule of nature, sometimes, but sometimes it doesn't .How often do you change your mind about which dress to wear this night?
This has recently become a regularity for myself, and honestly got me a little worried until I noticed one very funny thing. Today I found myself again in the same dress which I wore more than 10 times to all kind of different events and have so many photos of it as if it would become my second skin
Seriously, 32 my Facebook photo from about 200 are in this dress!
Then having a good laugh I suddenly realised that I'm in similar situation with men. No matter how much I focus myself on searching classy&successful, 7-10 years older, kind and generous always fall for pretty face & bunch of jokes.
That's saddened me a little, does that mean I have no chances for upgrading my life a bit?
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your mind
I was thinking about you yesterday! I do miss you...
I has a few problems in life. But! I guess that, is part of life. Anywho! Thats just your favorite dress. And most likely, you look great in it!......
Nope! Not all yet! It just take time. Thats is what people say, huh!. Oh, Well! I shall see. Anywho! I'm doing alright!
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wish you a nice weekend
Hi Aisha,
besides feeling a little sorry for yourself, how are things going.
All is good, thank you, sometimes out of my control, but still going the right direction.
Yourself?
Last time I did that found couple of items I completely forgot about, was very glad, like went shopping for free
Dont be sad. Be happy!
You've got alot going for you. So what if you like wearing the same dress or dating similar guys. Just keep on doing whatever makes you happy, or take a chance and make a little changes now and then to make NEW things happen that make you happy.
Most important is your happiness and comfort!
I always wish you the best!
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Just wear what you wear because I am sure you didn't look bad in all 32 of those pictures!
Personally I am looking for someone similar, not looking to upgrade, but also not looking to downgrade, why should anyone finance someone else's life?
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The word generous in this context didn't carry too much sense, as I was just listing all characteristics which I would like to see in my partner. I wasn't comparing one to another saying who is more or less generous, and in my comment to KN I think I made it clear.
I don't want to be a keeper but generosity is still very important to me, just to know that whatever happens I can be always protected in financial problems as well. I think this is what every woman wishes but not everyone is brave enough to admit it.
How are you btw? Haven't seen you for ages
We've had some rain here the last three days, how is it for you Girl....
Hope everything is fine for you....
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Being comfortable is important and creating a life style to fit your possibilities as well.
Nice men go for women with values and a sense of humour and certain mental and physical attributes....
Remember when Dressing, less is more... Designer chic can be very 'tacky' and attract the wrong type of man [Social climbing type].
The french women have it... a few good pieces in their wardrobe that they mix and max. They are Designer or expensively made clothes but timeless and that they can wear for years, just add a scarf or whatever or new belt and they have very little but all goes together... its simplicity. I had a Coat and a friend of mine said 'You will be buried in that ' why? because I loved it , wore it all the time. Wear what you love, I am not addressing the other issues but just be happy in your own skin first and the rest will follow