No marriage ... she answered I do.

Geez its hard question night-whether i believe in it or not it takes two to tango what was that about a funeral??

Hi Waff. Good to see you.

When I saw you, I remember Parti. I hope he is doing well too.

I guess you believed in marriage. Am I right? The funeral means end.

Hi Angel.

Yes, she is/was the same me. She's gone now. Hopefully for a new beginning.

I am good. And how about you? Hope you are doing fine too.

Catfoot, those are some things to be cautious of. Thanks for the reminder.

Hi Ani...
You ask a very tricky question, at least for me. I will try to answer you how I feel about this. I do not believe in marriage any more. I was very young and got pregnant, and got married in the age of 17 and a half. But that marriage did not last, because both I and my sons father was to young to handle it. So I did divorce when my son was only 2 years old. And after that I stayed a single mom for many, many years. And I swear to my self that I would never, ever marry again. And I've stick to this all time after. I lived with a man for 15 year, but did not marry him. I see no reason to marry. And today I feel to old to re-marry. So my point here is that do not believe in marriage any more.
Thank you for listening.

Anisiltir i think i believe in very little to be totally honest, but i do think two people who are for each other can have something most never do. I envy those few but you get a thrill to see that on the odd occasion.

Welela, thank you for sharing your story. I would say you are a strong, brave woman by then to raise a child at a young age and single.

On the marriage thing, I don't have something to share on that as I have yet to experience (if ever my chance of marriage will happen). I do believe in marriage if you may possibly ask. Some say its very "risky". I would like to risk someday, and I hope I get to choose the right partner.

Waff, Indeed, only for a few. Many decided to get married but some struggle in keeping it.

Angel, Haha, V is hilarious. I didn't realize he was spying on his own blog just to keep track of the views. He's not too busy I guess.

Oh the "views spy" ... V.

Care to clear V? I am curious.

LOL Angel. You want some more wine?

Now I am lost.

I am? I have adjusted my settings already.

A sec.

And your reply V? Angel was asking you ...

the place where we were born and raised has formed us to be different individuals...as an Asian, we already get used by certain values, such as family values, togetherness, solidarity...etc etc... If we are surrounded by successful couples around us, these conditions will challenge us to gain the same successful standard... when we are in relationship with somebody who has broken home background and surrounded by failed people, this relationship would be more complicated because he doesn't believe in marriage ... even though he is not broken home, but if he is categorized as a hippy, do not talk about marriage to him...you only waste your time...you have the opposite values towards him... that is my reason why I am not seeking Hollywood type...in my case, distance is not an issue for that matter...the same value of respect does matter...

I like the same Asian... I don't wanna make any relationship with a losser...

Hi Cyn. Thank you for stopping by.

Though I am a sort of a liberated woman, I am proud and still remains in me my Asian (Filipino) heritage, culture, traditions. The importance of family, togetherness and all, that I would love to have one day too.

Angel and Virgo, you could private mail if that would be possible.

You both Angel and Virgo are making me smile in this hot KSA sun (though I am just inside with the AC on, lol)

Ssssshayy,,, hope you are keeping well,,, The question here is, do you believe in marriage? Then I'm sure it will work.. at any age

I do believe in marriage and want to start a family someday but with so many divorced nowdays i should think again


Hi All

I know what you mean.. its difficult to predict the future, and with so many yearning for marriage and a stable life, telling all possible candidates that they are the 'best'one available, who does one really believe??

In the end just heartache and remorse.. Not good at all...