Molly I don't judge a person by looks and I would befriend people regardless of how they look and it's all about having the right attitude, personality and having an opened mind to the world
Looking for a partner is different from expecting people as friends and looks should not matter one bit, but some might still have a problem with that, so each to their own
Cach, I have to tell you women are far more in need of validation than men and all you have to do is look at advertising agencies, advertising makeup, clothing etc, with the selling point that those items will give someone validation and women spend a fortune on their outer layers, but some never have control over their inner layers, because they are made to be emotional and feminine
Molly, I woman needs to know her body well and what turns her on, so that when a man comes along, she can teach him to please her and he can teach her to please him, maybe you need a bit of practice if you feel that way about your previous lovers performances
Insecurity and seeking validation go hand in hand, so a woman seeking validation, could be in an emotional state, because she is suffering from PMT or just insecure deep down, so validation is always needed
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I wrote two on the forums last night
Alone with my thoughts and a poem on CS
Why the itchy and scratchy