zman a quick update, I found the culprit, disguised as Santa, he apologised profusely and after negotiations I agreed on one condition not to identify him (all in the spirit of the New Year). He accepted and changed his username to 'profile deleted'. This case will go down as another unsolved mystery
ps: Godan was blackmailed by him to confess to the crime
Sorry to hear about your brother. Give yourself time to mourn. Those who truly care will respect that, those who don't are not worthy. May peace and love find you
I'm speaking generally as I don't know you and have no details about your life. Doubt is normal and it is an emotional thing. Sometimes doubts are not justified, that is when logic comes in. It sounds as if your heart and head is at war. Take a step back and try to find a balance between the two. Only you can protect your heart. One's gut feeling is a strange thing that cannot be explained but shouldn't be ignored. Good luck
The tongue is a deadly weapon and should be used with care. Words spoken in anger can scar someone for life. I would rather walk away than lash out in anger. Thank you for all your good wishes.
May you and yours have a wonderful festive season and an even better new year
RE: New new new ! ! !
Cheers Foti! Here's to Luke and the New Year