I also think that on line chatting is not a life, it is something to put a start of life. I can't imagine, like in a race,you always put yourself on the position:REady, and never start to do the jouging.
Internet chatting is always on the position of zero. It can never replace real life.
I have been working hard all these years. I am fairly good at standing on a poor base and head for the peaceful nice life. It is not luxury,but just enough for my families.
I know I have nothing to regret.Life is full of changes. I am grateful to God. Even it is turbulent, I enjoy doing eveerything I can.Thank you for sharing
Ican't see any reason a lady should jump into problem. There are some life bills you can't afford to pay.
why the low quality guy is so special that the lady should pay at her happiness cost. So long as there is nothing special, there are alternative choices.
If a guy can't change himself at this sort of age,it is naive think you as a lady to change him!The poor soil is formed by all these years,experiences,knowledge,personality,virtues.
I am not in my 20s to jump into so called love without thinking. It is like to jump onto a sinking ship,and then decided to fill in all the holes. It is better to stay in my own ship, at least I know it is safe.
Ican't afford jump onto a sinking ship,or work on a poor soil. I might be exhausted and find out nothing happened to the soil.
True,so it is sad that when we are young,we might forget ourselves to love the other.But it is important to love yourself first, and have your own dignity,then you can love someone else.
I mean of course I will have my own things,not suitable to speak out. But in terms of something, which is not a secret, I will like to share. Anyway, I just lead a life I can afford and appreciate. I will not regret cos i have done my best!
Thank you everyone to share your thoughts here! Me too, just wish everyone have a good weekend. So long as we can decide our life, and can work for our own life, nothing can stop us to appreciate ourselves!
I think it is difficult to trust people on line. Once you know life, you know what you want, and it is difficult to find the right match even in real life .On line because of distance, it is even difficult to tell the people quality.
Some people can write or talk beautifully,but in real life, maybe it is complete failure.
Once you calm down, there are a lot of things to enjoy in life. I also try to make friends in emirates. I am thinking of taking part in the charity activities there as well. I'd love to meet more people.
Oh, I don't know, I am just happy with this kind of great personality. But it must be difficult for him to stay in this kind of state. And his families also suffered a lot because of his tolerance.
I just seem to be interested in this kind of topics a lot. I feel the hardship and charming part of history. I like to watch the hard time when the king had to fight with the officials. And the officials always doubt the new measure which might harm their original interest.
I like the perseverence of the king also. Such an important person,but he could still take the efforts to do things for poor korean people. And he never moaned for his own pain,sometimes the officials were just too much.The king even tolerant the officials who did hurt him,and who did harm his father in law.I just can't believe in that!
I learn to appreciate good personality. In life, it is always not enough to have people who are responsible and capable, and shoulder the blame and misunderstanding of other people.
This king also invented Korean written language. What the background was was that Korean noble class would learn chinese Gonggi characters. But it is almost impossible for the low class Korean to learn Chinese. Not to mention, noble Korean class refused to use the same written language with the low class. the king decided to find out how korean poor people to make the pronunciation, and after many years of working and studying.He created this much easier korean language. Which even an important scholar was against this inventory, when he found out the king lost his eyesight during the hard working time, this scholar was very ashamed and admitted that the king was an excellent person who did a lot of things for the korean people.
I sometimes do like to watch some serious side in history drama or series. And the more I see this kind of historical charactors,the more I can feel we modern people still experience the same. I realize that,to me I don't have the right not to work hard when I had to support my daughter and mum. Until now, I form the habit, whenever I have some good food, and something to enjoy, I would think of them to be able to get it. It is too luxury for me to say I don't want to take the pains or efforts to work in a cold weather outdoor. I have to be responsible for the job, cos the teadious job provides good income for me to give a warm life to my family. From this side,the cold job is a warm thing.
I like the way the director presented this kind of important charactor, as you know, as a king, he had some concubines, in fact, the director didn't show much of the concubines side. He put more efforts on how the king tried hard to push his idea among the important officials. How to creat the new technology in Korea under the shadow of big Chinese Ming Empire. And how to fight against the nomandic tribes in north-east of MIng empire. He lost his teacher in the battle, who taught him since he was a little boy. When he became a king, his teacher fought for him on the border as a general and finally died there.He lost his great supporter,who since he was an idle prince,hopeless to do anything under the shadow of being imposed to be a rebel to the crown prince,the supporter helped him to work with the poor people,and formed his own theory and idea of life.
I just feel even as important guy in his time, the King still had to fight his way against the old officials. and sometimes the officials indeed won over the King. The king had to accept to kill his father in law. And he need face his wife,the queen's sorrow daily,his own children missed their grandparents and felt sad of the ruin of the grandparents family.
In a way, it is good that we don't need do that. but in this society, we still have to do things maybe we need take efforts or pains.
Life is all the way full of choices. I am happy what i had done before in general. I made several mistakes, but I made the major choices correct. And I know even slowly if your direction is right, you will get to your goal in life.
In terms of feeling, I love China,as my relatives are there. Cousins, aunties, uncles,my brother. But as the severe pollution is very harmful, and I need think for my daughter to receive an English education, cos her Dad is a British. I want her to be back to the British society. So my first step is to take her to emirates to study.
I think it is sometimes too costly for the outsider countries to solve this kind of problem. If UK was staying in Cambodia until now, it can still be problem until now, how much uk citizens need pay. Battle need a lot of money and energy to deal with.
It is very difficult to find a decent guy, I admit. I like to come here every now and then, and write out some idea.
Ken, I need settle my life after my deal in the coming several months. I wish i could have time later on to visit other countries. I realize it is so good to find some good people to be with.
I am using the internet from Secondcup. I usually would not use this kind of place, unless I need the internet connection. I am not a big consumer and buyer, not good for the circle of economy.But good for myself, and my family.
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I also think that on line chatting is not a life, it is something to put a start of life. I can't imagine, like in a race,you always put yourself on the position:REady, and never start to do the jouging.Internet chatting is always on the position of zero. It can never replace real life.