I always have respect to people who can stand out and being responsible. I do think if a person is responsible and even working long hours to take care of the family members, this kind of people should not be bad at all.
A guy told me: his friend can sell the grandma for 1 Euro.That is how merciless some people can be.
Some people just choose to work hard to have a secured finance, so that they don't need turn for help to others,which there might not be anyone to help. People are different, some people naturally have higher sense of being responsible for their personal finance, and some even include their family members. I always think it is better than a person with a messy finance,and cry everywhere for help.
I reason why I said I am much richer than my ex, cos you asked me several times: what do a western guy have more than PHIlipino cos you think I was a Philipina.Thank you for sharing Ian, I still learn something from you.
Also Asian culture is more family oriented, and we do support our other family members. I love my families!
I have been always busy working until recent. Love is a thing people should wait for the chance.
I write this thread cos I was a bit in a low spirit.
I have always chatted with my ex instead of quarreling, even we split. We still get on. If I have my present secured finance, I might accompany him to do hunting.
Then our daughter now will suffer from a poor life. But the result can be also that we broke up, I can be a single mother with a daughter who suffer from poverty.
So I chose to work hard for my families. Because I love my daughter, my families, I can work for them for all these years without hesitance. It is purely from good sense of responsibility.There is nothing to be ashamed of working hard to support a better life to the families. Not everyone can do it!
Sometimes, you just live a life and you parted with your partner in the long way of life. Marriage need manage, it is not that simple.
I can't see why either Phillipina can be regarded as a money woman. I mean the guy married her,they loved each other. And young man and young woman love each other it is natural, if she was not a phillipina,instead a regular middle class young woman, the desert can also take place. I mean broken marriage can happen to anyone, no need put a sticker to a woman. So a woman happenly got mairried with a rich guy, is a money lover, so a woman married a poor guy, is a poverty lover?
I think if you can only think of things like this, you need really find out the logic in your way of thinking
I still want to find a guy, and i am more interested in setting up a life with my partner.
To enjoy yourself alone, comparing with to enjoy yourself with others, which is more enjoyable? The answer:To enjoy yourself alone is not as enjoyable as to enjoy yourself with others
I have sympathy for the Phillipina, cos during the 10 years my daughter now is nearly 10. I know how struggled I have been working to support my families. I had led a life I woke when the stars there, and I went home with the stars there too for so many years!
And I have no place to cry! I am the supporter and backbone for the family, so that I have to be strong.
I have to think and fight like a mum and dad! Prepare for everything my families need.
So that I know how difficult the life will be for the Phillipina!
Talking about the Phillipina sotry, cos I know how difficult it can be when a single lady try to stand up after so many years of caged life in a rich Arab family.
And Arab husbands also don't like their wives to work after marriage. She still tried to work in the bank position.Then she resigned.
I mean, I talk about feelings between a husband and wife, living together 20 years, with a son, is it necessary to push the wife to a slum life?
I do feel after being isolated from the society so many years, it must be very difficult for her in such a age.
i have already told you, I bought apartment in emirates, I have very secured finance.
I don't need anyone to support my life. I am only looking for a partner.
I talked about the story, cos now I have worked to the stage myself: that I can afford the life with the yields of my work for all these years.
This is also the reason why instead of looking for a guy when I split with my ex, I worked hard myself. I think you yourself is the best and most reliable people you can turn for. And work from my own hand just bears fruit!
I don't mean here to find any guy to do the supporting job for my daughter. I have done well now. But just imagine in the years part, I am in a role as a mum, I could not walk away like a dad!
And I am not like that! I want to be responsible for my daughter!
I learn swimming nowadays, and I do jogging. I also dance. I still like reading. Cos finance and history, philosophy can enrich my knowledge.
i read a story: saying a guy have to sail the boat for the local people back and fro on a river. But after doing this for many years, he began to wonder when can he stop transporting people on the boat everyday! So he asked the super natural being: "Please tell me when can I stop working on the boat transporting people, I am tired of that!"Super natural being told him: "till the day you find someone else to do this instead of you!"
As a guy, to get a better payment is a lot easier in this society. A single mother will have more difficulties even now we are supposed to be a modern society.
I don't regret I have been working hard these years instead of following my ex to do hunting!
After so many years of working, now I am able to move my life to emirates, this is not the best land full of honey and milk. this is not the worst land either.
Thank you Ian for telling me the guys in Emirates have too much temptations!
YOu have a very narrow mind. Nowadays, some chinese are indeed rich! Open your eyes please, there are poor chinese,but there are quite a lot of chinese with their possessions over 1 million usd. The number of this kind of middle class is ranking right after USA, and Germany.
I am much richer than my british EX with my own work! He knows that! As I had been only focus on work,cos he didn't want to work as hard. So I had to work hard for the future of my daughter and my family.
I am a chinese. I am not interested in your question. Everyone has their own preference, and maybe there is no reason, people just feel that is the way they want!
I am interested in western guys. I have been working with westerners in china. I mean if western guys are attracted to me, and we both like and love each other, why I can't choose a western guy?
I am not interested in middle east guys. I have good education and am capable in doing many things. I am able to support my life. i want to find a regular western family guy, we both can work to set up a life.
I am not keen on a rich guy! I am more interested a regular family western guy. I am willing to set up a life and work on the life!
I am not interested in muslim guys at all, cos my religion, and cos I have been working so independently. I am sure I am not suitable for any muslim guys!
But in life, I have always been shouldering my life, being responsible for my families, I have not done anything I regretted too much. I helped lots of people, so I am willing to accept what Life offers me in terms of looking for my partner.
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