The reason why I said I understand your words, Ian, is that I have been working hard these years, cos I don't like to beg from other man. I think the same, I respect hardwork, in a way,a guy is willing to do something is another story. but most of the cases,women had better earn your living, and so that you can be respected by guys
It will be of very good luck if the guy treat the woman nicely, if not, so long as you earn your own living, then it is not a big problem.
I have been working hard these years, cos I need time to settle my own family members.So I missed the better age, I mean younger. but I will not regret.
Ian,Yes, I also don't mean too seriously about these words. I only want to say that,a lot of jokes in fact speak out the real intentions.
From a thing, people think differently.
I respect your idea,the same as I respect my own idea. Not to mention, it is only a blog, just telling some stories,no need take it too seriously.And this is a story I heard from the woman,if the story was told by someone else,it might sound differently!
I am just talking in this blog objectively. I am not sure how this guy was rich from, and I only know he was a rich guy. And I didn't know more details about him.
In general,most people will lead slightly happier life when they get wealthier. I agree richness does not mean happiness,but poverty does not mean happiness either.
The sentence you wrote was on somebody else's blog. Together with the 5 women you met, including philipina, Lebanese,etc. Please find this sentence yourself. I don't need make the sentence for you.
The woman was not rich,and the guy was willing to pay. The key factor was that, he should not go to hongkong to get back the older brother's possessions. I think if it was not a big sum, he would not take this risk either.
Ian,thank you,in fact the blue dresses and the black dresses are my own dresses.
I am natural in daily life,but I like dresses, and I like to be pretty in life. I am hard working, but I do like dresses and I like to look nice in life.
I am good looking woman in life, the reason why I put these photos, sometimes you don't get good shots, and I think the bad shots really can't show the real me. Anyway, it is no sense for me to put a fake photo, and with first glimpse at me, guys can see me immediately.
In emirates, people often ask me whether I am a model or not,seriously!
I agree with you Ian on Arab guys. I will not be one of their possessions.
I know too well of this, I have seen some ladies married arab guys, indeed, everyday they need put on the black abaya and the scarf on their head. I will never be able to do that. I prefer to work with my head and hands to get my own freedom!
I do seem to attract Arabs,but as I know myself, Arabs are definitely no for me. In fact, I will not put money first at all. In life, it is more important to be able to face life together, and shoulder the responsibilities and share the love. And love does need contribution, building.
Corniche is a place for the emirates guys to show off their big and fancy cars. I was taking a walk and an emirates guy in a black porche stopped next to me. Indeed he is too young for me!
Guadal, Life often shows us the cruel side, so that I still accept your comments. And we need take efforts to get what we want in life, so that, some bitter people might be a good reminding in life.
This is not the first time I have to work hard, and shoulder the bitterness, or hardship!
Even Ian had talked about some sharp points about me, but I still kept his comments. One thing please notice, even as a guy, he pointed how cruel an Arab guy can do to their wives. He mentioned 3 Phillipinas Ian knew regretted to marry an Arab guy. I met a Phillipina, who married an Arab guy, she is purely the maid for the families. I think even maid can have the salary, she could not!
I have heard some western ladies in Emirates talked about the Arab husbands, if you marry an Arab husband, you need prepared your neck got grabbed by the Arab since then.
As I am very independent all these years, but I respect people and myself. So I will go for an equal role in a family! Arab husband is a definitely no for me!
I never think being upbeat, try to earn a good living will be purely on the opposite side of getting spiritual happiness. In fact, after working these years, I have plenty of time to do what I want. Learning swimming,travelling, handling my own small investment.
I can't see any hope for me to enjoy these spiritual happiness if I am in a poverty state.
I always think poverty is the enemy of happiness. I decide to work hard before instead of going hunting with my ex, this belief is a basic idea of mine.
Not all the good looking women are providers, which I dare say I am a provider.
I spent my prime time working hard supporting my families! I feel very nice to be able to provide my family better life.I sacrifice my time to do all these, if people ask me,you are only providing material to your families, not spirit, but for me to be able to provide better material to my families, it is a big relief for my spirit. And my daughter can go to drawing lessons, can go skating, skiing,can have dolls, and buy some shoes. I feel her happiness as a little girl sheltered by her mother,me,that is a great reward for my spirit. Also my other family members, I am about to help,to provide better material!It is a great comforts for my spirit, I know my daughter can get better education,and has better teachers, I am happy for her!
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Ian, I don't want you bang your head against the wall for this! YOu need work hard!