What women want...

Ok so i read a blog regards romance from Men..so i ask you ladies out there..what is romance..what you expect...

make it simple and list 1-10 making 1 being the most important..just curious....as I have read differing views.
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1grin Good smile in the morning with a word Good Morning
2wine Or coffee together on the couch in the afternoon
3: To a long tale in high hall withpopcorn
4: And for the rest pleasehelp nothing come to my mind any more


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Sends me flowers for no reason and opens doors for me - I easily confuse the pushing and the pulling.
Sorry, I don't like doing lists and I don't want to have my mind set, I rather stay open.
Oh goody ,at last we`re gonna figure out what women want

to be honest, I have my doubts ...grin
so far very little...seems easy enough...
Ian, only 10 points? laugh laugh
Romance for me means:
A man who is not afraid of showing his feelings and tells me how much he loves me - even if he has already told me thousands of times...

A man who brings me flowers for no apparent reason except to show me that he loves me and is thinking about me...

A man who takes my hand and walks with me in the moonlight and will sit with me counting the stars which might last an eternity...

A man who will prepare a nice meal on the terrace, with candelight and my favourite music...

A man who sits with me without looking at his watch all the time as he will only have time for me and nothing else will matter...

A man who will go down on his knees and propose...

A man who will make me feel like I am the most important thing in his life - before his car and his mates...

A man who will be able to "ruin" me for all other men...

A man who will keep the sparks going all throughout our life and will make me feel like every day is a honeymoon.

... and many other things - not necessarily in that order.
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Well Ian, I think Minnerva has said just about said it all in a beautiful way. Guess women just want to feel the centre of the universe to a man and it doesn't take a lot to make us feel it .... Just kind loving thoughtful gestures that say "I love you" in simple acts hug teddybear hug
@minerva...u been dreaming again..lol..you got no chance.
Ian. NO, it is not a question of "dreaming", but the value and worthiness that women put on themselves.dunno

If a woman loves and values herself enough, she will be able to attract men who will respect her and appreciate her for Who she is and therefore will shower her with love-heart wings heart wings heart wings heart wings
I expect two ways street - loving good communication skill, to keep sparks greeting each other with welcoming smile and respectful approach,tolerance,flexibilities,going on holidays to nature,walking on the beach,supporting each other true listening,understanding,working together in every days up's and down's,using positive reinforcement instead of 'cutting down' with negative facts,making of simple little ordinary things extraordinary,being affectionate and yes I like dinner with glass of rad wine,candlelights,soft music,dance,sense of humor,laugh,being a bit silly... and lot's more...wink laugh laugh
@Enigma.thumbs up laugh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Thank you for sharing some laugh about romance subject wink laugh It appears our friend Mr Ian sleeping on us now laugh teddybear
Nah...I was just out being romantic ??
Ian;' out ...in being romantic' ??confused
So have you got from Minerva or my humble self(or anyone else)enough encouragments to be more romantic;got any inspirational thoughts about writing poetry or poems or singing romantic songs?rolling on the floor laughing peace
I hope you forgive me for joking around;some times we need to brake seriousness into bit's of humoristic peaces to see things clear confused laugh wave
I have written 3 poems when I first meet my ex-gf..I've done all sorts of things...use to leave post it notes on doors saying open ..another saying go to fridge ..and she would follow the trail to find the final one saying .i love u...at Xmas we were at the table pulling Xmas crackers..I handed her a cracker to pull..out fell a set of keys..what's this...I said there the keys to that outside ..her dream car..alfa Romeo 156..I've done many things..but flowers were few and far between..I like to be different. Flowers die...I didnt like to think of the love wilting or dieing ..like flowers ??
Ian,

I always heard that men want to feel loved and women want to feel wanted. There is somewhat of a difference there. :)
honesty..so if he says your bum looks big in those jeans..will you hit him or thank him ?banana
if I put a skirt on and know my bum look big and ask him: honey do my bum look big to you? I f he answer No Darling I know he lies. If he say Yes my Darling and i love every inch of it that would be the man i love from bottom of my heart. You see truth can be said in a nice way
@ Ian...it depends on the way he say it, he might not meant it as a compliment. If it's nicely said then I'll thank him.
Ian;I think with all your examples of romance you're quite more generous than what I could guess...While I assume that most of us think of little sweet romantic gestures;you both your ex Alfa Romeo car laugh wine I am wondering;with such lovely shown romance in small and big ways ...why not to work things out,instead of giving up !?I am sorry if I ask too much.wine
Minerva well said cheering
I used to want a lot of things from the father of my kids but after walking out on our 17 years of marriage, all I wanted was for him to stay sober...but unfortunately he couldn't...
Nice and informative blog, I like to read all your comments!Thank you, Ian, this is a nice blog, and you attract a lot of nice opinions

Some can be very romantic, and a bit fancy, but still nice and if a guy can do that, there must be full of love between the guy and and lady!
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