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RE: What Is This Thing??!!

I beg your pardon to differ. But what I said is true because I experienced it. I don't know the basis of your assertion as you didn't mention it. If its merely your belief, then there is no use of a discourse. One is entitled to one's belief, rational or irrational.

RE: The hunt is sweeter than the kill...

You know "Hookah"..if you don't...must be knowing "hubble-bubble"..so there is one person in our village who makes mess of hookah in just one breath and so he is called "hookapad"...pad=one who has a big appetite. But he is tolerated because he has excellent sense of humor.

RE: The hunt is sweeter than the kill...

Well taken! great sense of humor, second best to that hookapad.

RE: The hunt is sweeter than the kill...

You are so right. Anyhow its okay after the sunset but the worst in the daytime...never.

RE: The hunt is sweeter than the kill...

yes like drinking in the daytime and a few more. But one thing especially which killed my mood and is a bad memory.

RE: CS and I...

I am seeing it first time you are opening up. Keep it on. May be life has something miraculous to offer!

RE: What Is This Thing??!!

It is incredible. Love can be false and true? A normal inborn emotion is too rudimentary to be called love. It lacks direction. It is self-oriented and, therefore, is prejudiced. It being novice and so all religions are playing with it, Christianity in particular. Could you then please enlighten, 'what is false love?

RE: relationships and our frustrations

I would like to cite an extract from Mahabharat....an amazing character Karna detailing his issues to go to the war.
Karna says:

"My friend, you are fighting this war for the throne. Arjuna is fighting for Dharma, for Indrapratha, for Panchali. But what am I fighting for? I am fighting for my glory. Yes, we are participating in the same war but the reasons are different. I will not gain or lose anything, no matter which side wins. But I am not ready to lose my glory, I will not let history point fingers towards me saying that I was a “Coward”. Hastinapur’s throne is important to you, I am aware of that. But my friend, learn to respect the reason and cause of your peers. We are all fighting our own wars and I am the loneliest warrior here after Bheesma, fighting for nothing.”

RE: relationships and our frustrations

Ps more than that its self-rewarding.

RE: relationships and our frustrations

Yes I understand its not a win/lose thing. It means something else.

RE: relationships and our frustrations

But I would encourage you to fight regardless of the results.

RE: relationships and our frustrations

I endorse your unabated struggle for a cause though I am skeptical of a major success.

RE: relationships and our frustrations

Phyllis
That suits them.

RE: relationships and our frustrations

Phyllis
Absolutely and for the same reason he was killed. How sad! But it was to be.

RE: relationships and our frustrations

@1to1
Thanks bro...

RE: relationships and our frustrations

Phyllis
I , by virtue of my disposition, don't follow any "osho" inclusive. I take him to be a guide, more friendly than a Guru. I mean 'osho' can well be a handicap if I cling.

RE: relationships and our frustrations

Yes, of course. At the most it can be the working, mind it, just working status quo can be maintained. And they claim the success on this behalf. "No friction" proposition can't be the evidence of love. Love is dynamic not static.

RE: relationships and our frustrations

Phyllis
I can't pretend to agree. Allow me to make use of a metaphor. Butter is not the outcome of the consistency of milk. It has to undergo a process.

RE: relationships and our frustrations

Phyllis
as long as love is the underlying motives of our relationship its sad but true..they live with an urge and die with it....

RE: relationships and our frustrations

I have had the experience of this precarious situation of flawed partners. And as you have pointed, there was all that drama..poking our minds and hurting our hearts..It persisted for 1-4 years...display of mutual hostility...then an idea struck my mind...if I retreat. And I actually did, leaving the ground for the single player. Now she came with an interesting complaint, why don't you fight with me? The episode was over.

RE: Activity Partner..

Minerva88
Well when someone starts a conversation seriously with me, first thing I do is, to express my perspective, specifically and explicitly.

RE: Activity Partner..

Minerva88
If the other has the same yearning. You know it. I specifically mentioned because I can't afford hypocrisy.

RE: Activity Partner..

Niyana
Liking or not..is others' prerogative. Your post posed a question and I honestly answered.

RE: Activity Partner..

Hans
You need not count the number of lines and words to earn a label. I award you without the exercise.

RE: Activity Partner..

Hans
You can be pretentious. Is it the defense mechanism?

RE: Activity Partner..

Hans
Let me translate your intelligence. It is pseudo, misdirected and a show business.
And I personally know the source of your reaction. The lady told me the whole story but I can't publicize her name because of the decorum.

RE: Activity Partner..

Niyana
Liking or not..is others' prerogative. Your post posed a question and I honestly answered.
Yep I do know some mediocre minds would come with fantastic reactions. And I am also aware of the fact that some timid persons can use the foul language as well.

RE: Activity Partner..

No particular pain taking...I was at ease!

RE: Activity Partner..

Niayana
I am sorry Niyana, please check for it. Your question has a basic infirmity. Increment and decrement can be measured by way of a specified measuring reference. Increased or decreased, in comparison to what?

RE: Activity Partner..

ekself
Yes certainly.
By the way what I have to do with your preferences? You need not tell me.