Weeel...every relationship,is different. My daughter married and Aussie she met on line through at chat room. They became I inseparable always online , the phone or web caming. But he started showing her by his actions that he was sincer and that she wasn't just a piece of meet. He'd gift her often, console her when she needed it.....and he paid for her to move to him...showing her and her family he was so serious about her that he didn't care if he had to work two jobs for her . she's been married for 10 years now...
There a LOT of good women and good men on CS. It it doesn't necessarily mean they are the one for you. I know there's just as many men who are seeking a permanent parter on here just as women. They are patiently resting, making new friends, and like some of the men...sitting back hanging out, reading what is being said and trying to decide if they can even be friends befor they are lovers. At our ages.....were tired of the "dating game". It's actually more fun to hang out with people being able to be relaxed than it is being on a date being stressed and wondering if your going to say the wrong thing or not...
It'll take time...keep yourself busy busy. Recreate "your" world. Ask God to restore and renew you to be even better than before. Don't go looking for a man right now...you couldn't possible mentally or spiritually be with him because your heart, mind, and body still aches from the withdrawals. But trust...trust...in time and probably sooner than you think it will all go away and be this foggy memory. If you can't give your all to a different partner you're stealing from them and will hurt them. Be patient and heal and make sure the next person loves you so much...and sees your worth and value that they SHOW you.
Prayers going out for you to be healed and renewed swiftly!
It'll take time...keep yourself busy busy. Recreate "your" world. Ask God to restore and renew you to be even better than before. Don't go looking for a man right now...you couldn't possible mentally or spiritually be with him because your heart, mind, and body still aches from the withdrawals. But trust...trust...in time and probably sooner than you think it will all go away and be this foggy memory. If you can't give your all to a different partner you're stealing from them and will hurt them. Be patient and heal and make sure the next person loves you so much...and sees your worth and value that they SHOW you.
Prayers going out for you to be healed and renewed swiftly!
I bet I could handle this with less than $2,000,000,000 day....our leaders for some stupid reason treat war like a football game following plays pre written only. To heck with that...we shouldn't even be talking about it...we should just do it. Even though I hate war....I also hate good people everywhere being murdered by any and all radicals....get rid of the whack jobs please! And send all prisoners to the front line that want to continue committing crimes t get 3 hots and a I cot too. Wouldn't all those mass ,under ers have a field day!
There must be sheep. If everyone was a leader, there'd be no one working But we supposed to care properly for the sheep. Unfortunately.....many don't and you can tell who the good and bad leaders are. And and sadly, because of the favor the leaders were shown, many become arrogant, prideful, selfish, and egotistical and loos that favor not just for them, but their families and workers
Hey....just so you know Smartty... ....there's not to many "Chrisitianity" sects I'm follow I'm not fond of any organized religions who follows men's traditions in the first place
GG is far from religious. But she's very personable!
I. To iced you didn't get upset when Hans used your name though! Do you resent sweet women who are personable like a man is. Or are you judging her because she's a follower of Jesus.
The worst kind of relationship is to a relationship where a person lives in fear and trusts no one. I've done int and waisted many years....actually many many many precious diamond seconds not just of my life....but my loved ones because it stole my time and their time.
Just be you....and live life...you do not have to prove you are worthy to be trusted.....you just need to be.... It's not worth trying to prove to anyone your worth. If they can't see it they never will....
Those who trust no one....let them be them and let them be the walking dead alone.....
If you are spiritual in any way.....the deal,is just this. We are all spirits encased in a body. Not all spirits are good it is what it is. Move on if this person isn't helping you grow......
Sorry I haven't been able to participate in my blog. I'm back to work for the season and won't have much time to participate. I thought I set it with no one being able to comment.....sorry guys...
I look around and watch people. It's part of my job that I do. And it's just an observation of mine. Sometimes we have to "pretend" .....
Examples of PRETEND
He had a big stain on his shirt, but I pretended not to notice. The children pretended to be asleep. She looked like she was enjoying the party but she was just pretending. It was a mistake, and to pretend otherwise would be foolish. The children were pretending to be animals. He pretended to make a phone call. Let's just pretend for a moment. I'm your boss. What would you say to me?
There is a huge difference in needing to pretend though....and deceiving and manipulating.
RE: so blessed
What a blessing for all who read. So much love here...