How?

Well, I have been trying so hard to put Crocodile aside of my life. However, it has been a year since we broke up, every single thing in my life is connected to Crocodile!

Crocodile is not mine anymore, and we completely stop contact. I an getting familiar without taking to him, but How to stop loving him, I really don't know... Feeling miss him so much... Feeling angry with myself!sigh
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@ Mimi - If it's any consolation, it took me more then 3 years to get over my last relationship, Girl.... somethings just take time.... sigh

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The main reason is I believe that you have not found the right new boyfriend.
You have to let someone else in your life. Giving him a chance.
Have an open mind about it.
You know the other door is closed so no usefrustrated to keep going there.
Keep busy, keep busy keep busy!!!!!!!!!
I know have been there myself at one time.
Do everything you can to occupy your time...............

teddybear
I had a relatioponship like yours once.. We split up and i missed him so much i forced him to come back to me. We were ok for a while. But in the end i wishes i had not gone back to him. I wished i had not missed him So much . I should have done what people are suggesting you do...go out . Mix with people., get over it. Never Go back. Recognise it was a good. Thing while it lasted, now you are free, be happy.
Time is a great healer...a break-up hurts, missing someone hurts...it just takes time, but those feelings do fade....
It'll take time...keep yourself busy busy. Recreate "your" world. Ask God to restore and renew you to be even better than before. Don't go looking for a man right now...you couldn't possible mentally or spiritually be with him because your heart, mind, and body still aches from the withdrawals. But trust...trust...in time and probably sooner than you think it will all go away and be this foggy memory. If you can't give your all to a different partner you're stealing from them and will hurt them. Be patient and heal and make sure the next person loves you so much...and sees your worth and value that they SHOW you.

Prayers going out for you to be healed and renewed swiftly!teddybear bouquet
It'll take time...keep yourself busy busy. Recreate "your" world. Ask God to restore and renew you to be even better than before. Don't go looking for a man right now...you couldn't possible mentally or spiritually be with him because your heart, mind, and body still aches from the withdrawals. But trust...trust...in time and probably sooner than you think it will all go away and be this foggy memory. If you can't give your all to a different partner you're stealing from them and will hurt them. Be patient and heal and make sure the next person loves you so much...and sees your worth and value that they SHOW you.

Prayers going out for you to be healed and renewed swiftly!teddybear bouquet
Hi Mimi! One should not get too dependent on a person. though, it is up to you how long you want to leave the door open for him. dunno smitten
Mimi, yes like cal said, healing takes time and a lot of pain. It will pass, just be more time sensitive. But yes go out, it will take your mind off those memories.

Good luck Mimi. bouquet
Mimi, find a hobby that interests you, then go to clubs where you meet other people who also like that hobby. That's usually a good first start, and like someone else said, be open to the idea of a new relationship someday.

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If you have counseling services available, try talking to a counselor.
Breaking up is a grieving process, and you have to work things through.

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Work on becoming a complete,whole,person within yourself.

Learn new skills, do night-classes, save up for a trip you always wanted to do,then do it.

Do good deeds for those less fortunate than you. Volunteer with a charity. Take your mind off yourself and onto others.

If you fill your mind with positive thoughts and deeds, you won't have time to be dwelling on useless negative thoughts.

Leave the past where it belongs,in the past. Create a new future.
@Molly. You took all the words out of my mouth girl.thumbs up
I agree entirely with all that as this is what I do + other techniques to get over people and any emotional attachments.

You just cannot move on and meet someone new if you are still stuck in the past and haven´t cut those emotional cords.
Another man, at this stage of the game, would only be a "rebound" and used as a substitute!scold

We must first close a door before opening another. Heal the wounds of the heart before someone new can come into our life.teddybear
Let it go as the song says. If it's meant to be it will, if not it won't.bouquet
lolzz... You remind me one of my friend he was my university friend he woke up and said he saw a witch in his dream. He started drinking in the morning and then he revealed he saw his ex gf dream.laugh
I think now a days everybody has to face this situation at least once .
Some takes few months to move on and others take years depend upon the person and attachment to ex. It would take some time and its only you who can help yourself.
Involving in new relationship is best option this time because i m sure you must not be able to give your 100% and this new relationship can give you another trouble.
Your memory will fade after sometime and these memory will continuously come in your mind until you make new solid memories.
Think what please youhug peace
I must be the only one content being alone...thats alone..not lonely. I have had my fair share of hurt..its made me very tough now. Ive had two relationships this year, i finished both, next day i move on. Im not looking anymore, i may feel lonely when my son leaves me, ill see how i feel when he does.
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