Hi Abby this immediately has warning bells all over it for me. Jealousy of flirtation, or another man paying you some attention is normal. Even the most self confident person will feel a pang of jealousy if someone was to go near their lady. But jealousy of your children is not healthy. You created those amazing beings and they will always be there and a priority in life regardless of their age. Love is limitless and there is enough for all, it's not about competing for or jealousy of it. Why should or would you allow his insecurities to affect how he treats you. Potentially this could grow and his jealousy could be projected onto other elements in your life. If he doesn't see he has a problem or is unwilling to accept you have a life outside of your relationship then I'm sorry but he needs to be shown the door....value yourself and what your gut is telling you. If you have blogged about it before then you know it's wrong for you to have to justify your friends and family, , you just need to find the strength to make the change
Now that would be funny. You could sing to me about absolutely anything, what you had for dinner, the weather, the guy up the road and I would be completely oblivious Yeah why not go for it
I feel like I've been in hibernation since November. Leading up to Christmas I love dark cold evenings, cosy nights in and preparing for the December madness. Then when Christmas has been and gone Im desperate for spring to come! I poked my head out for a little look today and still looks grim to me think I'll go back inside too....
Thanks map, as usual your right! Glad I didn't inject my porridge now. I'll stick with natural, especially as I love pasta. I just get caught up in this superficial world at times and thought that plumper was the way to go. . Your amazing I feel better already
Morning map, you are a man of many talents...I'm not ill and I don't have any pets that need transplants otherwise I would be seeking your advice. But we do have a fish called wotsit (he is orange, the colour of a wotsit crisp) I've often stared in his bowl admiring his lips....they are big and puffy and would look fab with lipstick on. Is there any home procedure you know of that would enlarge my lips, without pumping in Botox? I eagerly await your reply as I'm home today so can give it a whirl
Yes John I agree, freedom to choose to retire at 60.
I can't be going all political this time of night Scotty ;0) but yes it is unfair on the majority who don't have the luxury to retire early. On that note I'm going go retire to my bedroom lol. Nite
Bless her, im sure she knows what's best as sounds like she is bright as a button. We feel the vulnerability that they don't! Hope I'm still fit and active at 71.
It is common for someone who has worked hard all their life and been healthy, to retire and become ill. I think this is because all those years there was a purpose and then all of a sudden everything changes. I can't ever imagine doing nothing and see myself doing some form of work or travel etc until the day I pass. I think that everyone deserves to do as they choose at whatever age, if someone wants to and can retire at 40 or 50 then great, but think that upping the age all the time is unfair as some people dont have the luxury of choice. I think the answer is marry a nice rich man and not have to worry (only joking) I'm far too independent to live off of a man!
RE: Jealousy
Hi Abby this immediately has warning bells all over it for me. Jealousy of flirtation, or another man paying you some attention is normal. Even the most self confident person will feel a pang of jealousy if someone was to go near their lady. But jealousy of your children is not healthy. You created those amazing beings and they will always be there and a priority in life regardless of their age. Love is limitless and there is enough for all, it's not about competing for or jealousy of it. Why should or would you allow his insecurities to affect how he treats you. Potentially this could grow and his jealousy could be projected onto other elements in your life. If he doesn't see he has a problem or is unwilling to accept you have a life outside of your relationship then I'm sorry but he needs to be shown the door....value yourself and what your gut is telling you. If you have blogged about it before then you know it's wrong for you to have to justify your friends and family, , you just need to find the strength to make the change