Hi despondent Cheer up, I too get no reply sometimes when I initiate contact, I don't take personally. I feel if I'm attracted to someone that is not attracted to me it's better if they just don't acknowledge my message than if they give me the "reasons why" they don't find me attractive. Everyone is not going to be attracted to everyone... simple. Hang in there, I look at it as " process of elimination"
Timotie I would but I noticed he started calling from a known number, when I didn't pick up I got calls from a unknown number and then a totally new number I didn't recognized. For now I just let all calls go to voice mail unless they are on my contact list. It's crazy!! Thanks friend
Balles I believe you have the right idea and I'll try to do it whenever possible, I mean when someone is close enough to meet. I'm starting to not even look at someone who is far away as anything other than friendship. This online thing is tough on the emotions ...mine anyway
Callio I waited about a month before exchanging phone #,at first it was just online cs. I'm just sorry I did now. He sends messages that are kind of nice but the amount of times he does it it's scary. What to do "next time" someone else wants to meet???Or is it even worth it??? I 've spent so much of my time on line and on the phone with him and it was such a waste.I don't want to make mistake again.I think I'll put a time limit on how long I chat before meeting so it's not such a waste of time. The fact remains maybe he's not even who he says he is. Thanks and you be careful too
@Balles I'm trying, but he's making it difficult. He sends messages onto voice mail and I'm just too curious to just delete before listening to it.I'll take advice above and not respond to any of it and he'll get tired. I liked a lot of things he led me to believe he was and our talks were for the most part fun. I just don't know what to expect anymore from guys on here, How long do we wait before giving out personal info, it's scary how some people can "appear" to be and then be so scary different. thanks
@Connect @Redex You ladies give very good advice, I'm glad I never gave him my address. I'd really be worried. I need to check into blocking the cell phone I don't know how, be careful too you just never know.
hi Virgo you are correct and i wish i could just do it... but i'm so down lately it seems an impossible task. hard time to get up when so down, but i know... "this too shall pass". thanks for the reminder friend
OH! OH!!think you might've opened up a can of worms here, if the men you speak of hear of this and think you are giving them advice they migh use the "B" word on you I totally agree with you... new fishing spot or change the bait
AWWW! this brings back many wonderful memories. Little Mermaid the orininal (teenagers....give them an inch and they swim all over you)toooo cute saw it 3x with my nice back in the day.
Never forget "short circuit" the original was best, my nieces are older too but now they have little ones, if not there's always the neighbors kid who loves hangin' out with me, she's a sweety too.
I love all the "ice age" ones too as a matter of fact I have them on dvd and maybe will throw one in,I need a smile, take care, feel better soon
i don't know about that, even all the freedom and all the fun gets old after awhile. when my head hits the pillow and i have a few moments to review the day/ wk i can't help but wish i was in the arms of someone who really loves me. but that's just me i guess
hello from providence, rhode island all's well here, had some heavy rain 1-2 pm but cleared up nicely, sunny and warm now. time here 4:48pm and got home from work, let the dog out and heading to the gym for kickboxing class. we are heading towards fall soon then winter.
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Great blog, Good to let others know there's a better way. We don't need to go through life hating.