if i had a hammer i'd hit a certain CS member over
Hi all, I don't know if there's anyone here from about 7 months ago that remembers me writing about being "stood up" by a cs member. The day before we were supposed to meet he called late night and said he wouldn't be able to make it. Since I already had an appointment with hairdresser I ended up having to keep it. He cost me money, time and then I'm left looking good with no plans and pretty sad since I thought finally we would be meeting. To his defense he offered to pay for the hairdresser, I declined. I just told him because I thought it just wasn't a cool thing to do.He could've given me more of a notice from the excuse I was given he knew well in advance.Well we continued going back and forth online after that but it just got too weird, and after he said some hurtful things because I though we were not right for each other. About 1 month ago he starts with the bullcrap again, I told him I wasn't interested. This past week he has sent various messages on cs and today my phone had 4 messages from him starting at 8 am. I just can't believe this,he appeared to be so normal.The thing is he calls all hours even during work so I need to have phone off.
What should I say that might make this person understand I don't want to play the game anymore. I'd hate to have to change my number.Has anyone else had this kind of luck, I'm afraid I'm not such a good judge of character, I'd like to meet someone nice but I seldom hear of anyone who has...is it really worth it???
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Take care stay safe and keep smiling
You ladies give very good advice, I'm glad I never gave him my address. I'd really be worried. I need to check into blocking the cell phone I don't know how, be careful too you just never know.
Yeah I think you just didn't noticed
I waited about a month before exchanging phone #,at first it was just online cs. I'm just sorry I did now. He sends messages that are kind of nice but the amount of times he does it it's scary. What to do "next time" someone else wants to meet???Or is it even worth it??? I 've spent so much of my time on line and on the phone with him and it was such a waste.I don't want to make mistake again.I think I'll put a time limit on how long I chat before meeting so it's not such a waste of time. The fact remains maybe he's not even who he says he is.
Put his number on
Divert call and he
Will not b able to
Call you.
Or contact your phone
Service and tell them
To block his number.
Stay Blessed.
I love women but NOT that much
That might take care of it
If I recall correctly, you can file a complaint with you phone company. I think they ask you first to file a complaint with your Police Department.
This is the link to the contact form for the Police in Providence. You can ask them and they probably let you know the procedure to follow.
Good luck!
and the rest is your choice, make him proof that he really wanted you, all you have to do is wait and see, there are millions of fish in the sea, dont worry !