midnight_angel_1 Blog Comments (219)

RE: Why can't dating be for fun?

Some people get so used to being with someone that they are ready to latch onto the first nice one to come along. Taking time off would be good advice so that when you do date you will be open to commit to the right person.

RE: Much Help For Japan Tsunami Victims

With disasters happening all over it is nice to see people coming together to help as much as they can where it is needed. This shows that there is still good in humanity.

RE: road not taken

This can be a relationship that never blossomed, one that was avoided because you or the other person would have to make a huge sacrifice to follow things through, if a person is married and although you may have feelings for them, you cannot act on them. If you think about it, you can most likely come up with other reason of your own.

RE: Courage

We should not forget that courage and bravery comes in many ways. Some may be from war, some from sacrificing their lives to save others and those who get up every day and work to make one more step forward for mankind or to just save a child.

RE: ROAD

So true! It may take time and perseverance to make it, but it can certainly be done. I can say from personal experience that I have traveled many wrong roads, but since turning things around I have never been happier.

RE: the rollercoaster

I must admit though that medication and counseling doesn't hurt either.

RE: What Old People Do For Fun...

If I ever do get old get back to me and I may have an answer then.

RE: TEXTING

Since I have a 5 yr. old to raise my time to talk is rather limited so I I respect that the same may be for the other party. Texting is a quick way to get in contact without having to tie up too much time.

RE: Messages

Its more like you should let him drop. Don't give him the benefit of playing you. There are still other fish in the sea. Sometimes you have to throw back the small ones. Goo luck to ya.

RE: A Helpful Hint For the Ladies!

Here's a helpful tip for you too. Men can be as obnoxious as any women can seem to be. I am not looking for marriage, but I won't waste the air I breathe either on the games the guys want to play.

Would I give a guy a chance? Of course, but he has to ask nicely. Have a good one.

RE: Luck

I have to admit that George Clooney and Mel Gibson appear to be a good catch, but be wary of what lies beneath. In life it takes more than luck to succeed. Having faith and good karma goes a long way.

RE: Finding a Mate After 50 - Part 3

As for #6 you're right. If grandchildren are present in the home stop right there. If anyone cannot accept her being raised by me then why in hell would I need anyone? Good thing I am not looking, but one never knows, he could find me anyway.

RE: Seeking For Serious Relationship For Marriage

Unless this is an old picture of you, I have to ask why you would want to get married so young if at all? Try going steady for awhile.

RE: A Little Bird Told Me...Final Installment

Thank you for writing this.

RE: Long term relationship

Since I have children a bit older than you are I only wanted to know something about you and why you would have trouble meeting someone your own age. You may live in a rural town as we do and not have many people to choose from. The best thing I can tell you is that you are young and should not feel so rushed to get something started. Give things time and you just may one day find someone on CS who will fulfill your needs. Good luck to ya!

RE: My Free Time is Spent How...

It seems like the only difference between your town and the one I live in is that you have to cruise around for the night. At least you guys can save on gas.

RE: To ladies who read blogs.

Welcome! You will meet an assortment of people and if you are patient about hooking up that can happen too. Be open minded, have a sense of humor and you will have things made.

RE: Age?

I do not have a particular age in mind, but I would not care to go lower than 15 years because I do not want a kid or over 15 years because I am not ready for retirement.

RE: I'm tired of being done wrong

Patience is the key to success. Hang in there for what you believe in and the day will come when you will be rewarded.

RE: THANKS to all cs friends GREAT advice

Here's wishing you all the best times together.

RE: THE COLOR OF LIES...

Personally I would rather have it straight up. Now lying to a child about Santa, Easter Bunny, Tooth Fairy and such would be the simple give them something to believe in "white lie." As for lying about anything else, then no I can't do it. It may seem brutal, but honesty is the way to go.

RE: Mistakes

At some point we should learn from our mistakes. Forgiveness may not come easily, but when it happens it takes the weight of the world off our shoulders. When encountering someone who has betrayed you, use extreme caution.

RE: so how is everyone doing so i need some people to

Things are wonderful and getting better. And for you?

RE: what a female named franki from nyc, i am here...

Welcome to CS. I am also from Brooklyn. I traded the city for the country life and never looked back. Good luck in your search.

RE: for the real relationship

You do make a lot of sense.

RE: Where Does All the Time Go

Times drags on like a bad cold when we are kids, but when we get older it fast forwards. I have no regrets, just a couple of I wish I hadn't done that. LOL. Over all things in the end turn out well for us as we live and learn. It's too bad that we can't seem to find the happiness we want until we are older. Having found it at a younger time would have made things so much easier. I suppose that is what is known as wisdom, we live and learn.

RE: London UK

I can commiserate with what you are saying. Here in the states singles in the west TN area are few and very far between. No I take that back, you're right, cemeteries here have more going on. LOL. If you do hear from someone who seems like the right one, they live states away from you. Unless either of you want to pull up stakes and relocate, you are so out of luck. Of course, for me it has been the guys who were interested who expected me to drop my
life to move near them. We can't have nothing!

RE: Hurt

The better thing would be to judge people you call friends. False friends can be found anywhere, but don't allow the experience to tarnish your feelings about trust. Simply take this as a learning experience and move on. Never let anyone take anything away from you that makes you who you are.

RE: from spring,tx

To tell you the truth I would consider dating you, but I am also 50. I have 2 grown sons and am raising one of my granddaughters. You seem to be making a quality offer and for the right woman you would be ideal between the ages 32-40. Best of luck to you!

RE: Those White Lies-Hmmmmmm

Well I am not ashamed of my age, 50 as things have been good for me. I can't retouch my pictures because I don't know how, don't have a younger sister and am not ashamed over how I look. As far as circumstances go, sure they shape our lives, but even the bad times can make you a better person for the experience. Ah religion, yes, I have one, but that shouldn't matter. I don't label others and don't expect to be labeled either.