jbibiza Forum Posts (4,914)

RE: Hi peeps! Yep, I guess I'm a noob here...so you're wondering "What does he want to say?'

Hi... just wondering...
Is a wolftrap anything like a coyote trap?

RE: WHERE HAVE ALL THE HANDSOME 45YR OLDS GONE

I'm not worried about handsome... just someone who I find attractive that can enjoy the life style that I enjoy. I manage a jazz club and restaurant, I finish work about 3am and then enjoy a bit of clubbing and dancing or sitting on a terrace with some friends enjoying a good conversation and a nice glass of wine... I walk home as the sunrises over the ocean and usually get to bed between 6am and 7am. I wake around noon, get a few things done around the house and head for the beach or a cafe to meet up with friends. i enjoy being very social and like a partner who can keep up with me, so 35, 45, 55... doesn't really matter.

The attraction is his smile, the naughty gleam in his eye, the way he handles himself socially and the fact that he finds me irresistible. That's all I'm looking for...

RE: Young men dating older women

of course she is!

RE: Young men dating older women

Pass the wine sweetie... should we offer him a little cheese to go with his whine?

RE: Young men dating older women

If I have sent you any private posts I welcome you to post it... you can't because I haven't sent you anything via email, it's all right here on the forum. You are the one who sent a rude and nasty post to my email.

RE: Young men dating older women

Oh damn... was I to blunt.... again?

RE: Fun with words...

Mind over matter,

I don't mind and you don't matter.

RE: hello

Saskar, Angelgreen... welcome. Yes most of us are a bit mad!

RE: dates vs. long term

What you say makes a lot of sense. If I don't connect with someone, then I don't see them again no matter how fun they are, or I suggest becoming friends rather then try to pursue anything else. When a person is "on" all the time, it's very difficult to make the kind of connection needed to pursue a relationship.

RE: The X-factor for dates :)

Wish I was going to be around for it!!! I've got a nightclub opening I have to go to... all the see and be seen people, not my kind of thing but a good opportunity to promote the jazz club/restaurant. So I'm in the process of donning my finery...

Great idea for a thread ladies! and guys.... I'm very impressed, some really good ideas!

Have a great night!

RE: The X-factor for dates :)

Well for me it's a tight race between Tufty and Willbejammin, they're both so different, but both really appeal to me.

On the whole I'd have to go with Willbejammin only because picnics are kind of my thing... It's quite common for the guy in my life to be "kidnapped" and taken somewhere lovely and remote for a first class picnic.

RE: The Truth About What Women Want

It's been said before and I'll say it again...

A good man is hard to find... but a hard man is good to find.

RE: Photo ratings - what influences your rating?

Very good tactic... that's how I started talking to someone I'm talking with on the site... he gave me a 10, I thought he was cute and liked his profile and sent a flower to say thank you, shorty after received an IM that lasted 3 hours and we're still chatting and will meet in June.

RE: what is KIss???

Sometimes a kiss is just a kiss... not an inquiry.

RE: Curiosity...

Yes, and I started out trying to be nice, but that usually just made the situation worse, now I just delete and block... unless they're cute and it comes across like they're trying to be funny...

RE: Where would you kiss the person above you???

In a dark ally...

RE: The person above you turned into a snack. What kind of snack are they.

Chili con Carne... hot and spicey!

RE: if you choose name for above person then what it would be ??????

Cool Dude

RE: Do we scare people off the forums ??

hhhmmmmm, sound a bit like " I didn't get my own way... so I'm gonna take my toys and go home!"

It's a shame that you feel it's all right to come in and criticize others, but can't take a little "dissension" when it's thrown back at you.

RE: Do we scare people off the forums ??

Well there is certainly a difference between sounding like a bunch of clones and openly criticizing people whom you know nothing about. If this is your normal entrance into a group then might I suggest you read "How to win friends and influence people".

We are all individuals but try to use common courtesy when addressing each other (in most cases) and I have often had differences of opinions with many of my "clone" friends, but try not to insult them when having a difference of opinion.

There is a difference between being rude and walking to a different drummer.

RE: These Forums are entertaining and all BUT???

Just like any good party... it's not enough to just "show up". You've got to put a little out there if you want to get anything back. Look at who liked your photo, if you see someone interesting send them a flower to say thank you, join in on the forums..... you may find someone who shares many of the same ideas and values, but don't just sit back and wait for it to happen!

RE: Are you new to the forums? Been lurking a while? then come in Heeeere.

OMG, I only lurked for about 3 minutes! How is Maine these days... I used to live in Brunswick.

RE: hey everyone, new guy here

Don't let us scare you off!

RE: Do we scare people off the forums ??

I liked it bettet before the correction!!!

RE: Americans are vastly deceived when it comes to food

I'm with you Dad... people need to be responsible for making their own decisions. I am so sick and tired of everything being blamed on big business and government. When do people accept responsibility for their own actions? No one is holding a gun at your head when you go to McDonalds, no one is forcing you to buy frozen meals, microwave pizzas, bags of potato chips, etc. These things are manufactured because people choose to buy them, stop buying them and you'll see them start to disappear from the shelves.

I go to the market every other day and buy my fresh fruits and veg locally and organically grown. I know the pedigree, where it was raised and what it was fed of the meat I buy from my butcher and yes I even indulge in a little junk food now and then and that's my choice and my responsibility as it is everyone's.

RE: Is America Ready for a Woman President?

Thank you dahling... great new pict!

RE: Do we scare people off the forums ??

I think people have to take responsibility for themselves, if they introduce themselves on a thread they get a lot of warm responses from everyone. After that, it's a bit like real life... you have to get to know people and start mingling. I haven't been around that long... only 3 months, and I remember those early days of feeling invisible and uncertain but I stuck it out and now have met some wonderful people that I would love to meet in real life. On the other hand... you can't get along with everyone and we all have our share of spats and disagreements, you just need to put those aside and focus on the positive... and there is a lot of that!

RE: Is America Ready for a Woman President?

I think the question should be..." Can America survive another Man as President?"


Hi Everybody! Kisses for all the "enlightened" people!

RE: Where would you kiss the person above you???

one for each cheek... the ones on his face of course!

RE: Question For The Guy's Coz I'm Really Curious .......?????????

It's not to bad if the socks are white... but dark dress socks...