Hi sweetie! I know what you're saying but I also know myself and if there's not a hint of tingle then it's just not going to happen for me... all that waxing and plucking for nothing!
Hello Everyone!!! Well got back from Mallorca yesterday afternoon and was kidnapped by my friends at the airport and didn't get in until 2 this afternoon... so I'm a bit knackered and either drunk or hungover...not sure which!!!
I had a really nice weekend on my friends boat and he fed me the most amazing meals, I think I ate more in two days then I usually eat in a week. Breakfast Saturday morning was scrambled eggs with smoked salmon and caviar with champagne... talk about getting spoiled! We sat up late into the evenings listening to music and talking and never seemed to run out of things to say to each other.
He was exactly the man he portrayed himself to be, a wonderful gentleman who hadn't lied about anything and treated me sooooo wonderfully. In spite of all this I just couldn't feel anything towards him other then as a friend and can't see that changing. Yes, I'm a little disappointed... I would have liked to have felt that spark... but it's not to be. I don't regret anything except maybe getting my hopes up a bit high and hope that he's interested in remaining friends... but he was a disappointed that I didn't want to pursue anything else so I'll just have to wait and see.
So did I miss anything? Any hot new boys around... I'm on the market again
Thank you to all of you, your kind words and good advice are really appreciated! I'm off for a soak in the tub and then going to pack... I'll be back sunday night, or monday and will either be celebrating or looking for shoulders to cry on! You really are a lovely bunch of people and I do appreciate you!!!
No it's only a 40 minute flight, we live on different islands only 100 miles from each other, but seperated by the sea... if it were land, I would have been there 2 months ago!!!
First I prepare the potato, mush it all up with butter and sour cream and taste it to make sure its juuuust right, then I taste the steak to make sure that it's almost still mooooing and after that it's a bite of one, a bite of the other and so on... mmmmmmm you're making me hungry!
I'm not afraid of marriage if I could actually get involved with someone. As liberal as my ideas are I have never lived with a man outside of marriage and at this stage of my life would probably change that... but I would hope that marriage would be the end result.
I tried, when I first started here to answer all messages and IM's and thought people were rude to not do so... then reality hit.
A good portion of the people who contact me haven't even bothered to read my profile, or they wouldn't have contacted me in the first place. I state in no uncertain terms that I do not want children, do not want yours, and that's not going to change. I am 48 years old what do I want with a 23 year old boy and as harsh as this sounds I am not here to make friends, I have friends.
I have found friends through the forums from laughs shared and good conversations and I'm glad I found them, but that's not the reason I'm here. So basically you are a stranger who has sent me an email, you want children, I don't. We have never shared conversation on the forums... so why out of all the millions of strangers in the world should I make an effort to be your friend? Again it would be different if you were someone I had enjoyed conversing with on the forums, that might lead to a basis for a friendship, but other then that your just someone who for whatever reason sent me an email.
Oh and when I say you, I don't mean you personally.
Wow... I got shivers reading that!!! I'll bet you're glad you've got such a smart son!!! I'm sooooo happy for both of you and may everyday you're together be like the first weekend you shared!
Well it sounds like we all did it to please everyone but ourselves... won't make that mistake again!!! But at the same time, no regrets... I have a beautiful daughter I wouldn't change for anything!
In spite of my temporary insanity... I would not be happy if a man proposed to me in public!!!! He was lucky she said I'll think about it, I would probably walk out
RE: jbibiza,where are you?
Thanks lush! bring on the new blood!!!