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RE: Question for women

Fantastic, I'm a happy girl these days... Poor Danny, when ever he makes a thread it's always us "mature" girls who respond...

What is your favorite classic...

Ahhh some great choices, I also love hitchcock and peter sellers,

love that denzel line and love your new pict leo, looks like a spectre floating, quite haunting.

I haven't seen red dwarf, but those are great lines !

and or course Gone with the Wind, what a classic!

RE: Question for women

Hello Ladies... and Danny!

RE: Question for women

My daughter is marrying a former sweaty, mucky rugby player... it's how they met, and she is one of the most beautiful girls you would ever want to meet...

What is your favorite classic...

Was doing a little channel surfing and the original "Sabrina" with Audrey Hepburn and Humphrey Bogart just came on, what a wonderful film!

And a great movie line when her father says " you're still chasing the moon" and her reply is "No, the moon is chasing me".

What's your favorite old time classic film? Favorite line from a film?

RE: Great great great

Well done!! Did you stick around for the adoring fans?

RE: yet another sunset

mmmmm brings such lovely visions of sunsets shared with friends on Benniras beach, listening to the drummers drum the sun from the sky...

RE: I'd like to know why men

That's so true... I can't laugh...

RE: me, here, now ...

Hi, lots of places for discussion requiring bottles of pain killers, also lots of laughs. Hope you have a good time!

RE: I'd like to know why men

It's contagious... I find myself replying to her in similar style

RE: I'd like to know why men

I wonder if it's the same guy?

RE: I'd like to know why men

how did the party go?

RE: I'd like to know why men

That makes sense the first time, but I changed picts 3 times one week, one guy had rated all of them within a couple of hours of my changeing it. I sent him a flower to say thank you, but never heard back.

RE: WOT R U EATING RIGHT NOW?

hmmmm looking for dinner invite..... can't seem to find it...

RE: I'd like to know why men

I understand it with people I talk to online, I click on profiles to see if people are online.
I always wonder... you were interested enough to look, what didn't you like?
or why did you click on my profile if you are looking for 18 to 28?
or why everytime I put up a new picture do you give me a 10 and never contact me?

RE: minor children involved? appropriate time to blend households?

That's ok... I have a cookie "on hold"

RE: WOT R U EATING RIGHT NOW?

Now I'm craving something sweet, but nothing in the house. Maybe a cup of hot chocolate....

RE: minor children involved? appropriate time to blend households?

I like cookies...

RE: WOT R U EATING RIGHT NOW?

I however cooked mine...
About earlier, my Spanish is crap,
he is from finland but speaks spanish well,
it was one of those phone company recordings...
yes I felt stupid...
he thought if was funny, made him feel good

RE: minor children involved? appropriate time to blend households?

You should have seen the mess I was when she first told me she was moving to Austrialia... I hid it from her, but the nights of tears and fears...
What would I have in life without her?
You do adjust... and find another life and happiness,
especially when you know they are happy and have a good life.

Like you, my daughter is so much smarter then I ever was...
and has made such good choices in her life...
I look at her and think... how the hell did she come from me?????

You make me write like you

RE: WOT R U EATING RIGHT NOW?

Omelet with bacon, onion and cheese... yummy

RE: Useful Remedies

Some great tips... thanks lass!

RE: minor children involved? appropriate time to blend households?

Thanks Claire, but I really don't look at it like that... it was more about circumstances.

Had Jen's dad chosen to be a part of her life then I would have had time available to date and socialize, it just happened that wasn't the case. I was blessed in having a daughter that I genuinely like, we all love our kids, but that doesn't mean we necessarily like them. So I really enjoyed time spent with her and her friends...there was always on or two of her friends that spent the night 3 or 4 nights a week and with it being a house of "girls" we had lots of beauty nights... manicures and face masks and lots of silliness. I loved my time spent as a mom... the difficult thing was letting go and having to face a life that didn't have her in it everyday!

RE: ~~ Dark sides~~

Hi Ladies

I'm a lot like you mf in that what you see is pretty much what you get, I easily share my thoughts and feelings, as most on CS can attest to I have lived on my own for so long that I wonder if I will be able to share my life with someone. I'm so used to making decisions without consulting anyone else. I like time spent on my own and have a difficult time imagining sharing a space with someone 24/7.

I like this thread Koni... My attitude about having a successful relationship is that it's easy to love the positive attributes in a person... look for the negative traits (yes we all have them) and decide if those are things you can live with, if they are... then I think you have a chance of making it work.

RE: Chavez threatens to cut off oil to the US, what should the US do?

People like you give people a bad name... this mentality scares me, violence the answer to everything

RE: Maybe you can relate to THIS

can you believe the nerve of some women!!!

RE: minor children involved? appropriate time to blend households?

I was out last night and saw a young mother out with her 9 month old baby, in a bar. Baby was in a stroller stuck in the corner while mom was making a play for everything in the bar... somehow I don't think she'll be to worried about merging families... stuff like this makes you believe in mandatory sterilization!!!!

RE: Video Link.....Help!

Yes, I just tried it and couldn't get anything to play..

RE: minor children involved? appropriate time to blend households?

I've been on my own since my daughter was 2, her dad decided not to be a part of her life so it's always been just the two of us. I never considered dating or relationships until she was 16. Between work, her gymnastics, she was a competitive gymnast, traveling all over the country for meets, spending time with family, having her friends at the house... there was no time to consider a social life and i felt it would detract from our relationship if I were focusing half my energy on someone else.

I did feel that since her dad wasn't around that she needed good male role models... my father, brothers, and best friend filled this role admirably. The hardest thing about making the decision to raise my daughter the way I did is the void when she became independent and move on with her life. She fell in love with a wonderful Australian guy and after being together for 2 years moved to Australia. The hardest thing I ever did was put her on that plane. After years of defining myself as "Jens mom" all of a sudden I had to learn who Jacquie was.

I had traveled throughout the states prior to getting married and always had a desire to see the rest of the world, so I sold everything I owned and bought a backpack and began an amazing 3 year journey. When I called my daughter to tell her what I was doing I was worried that she would feel abandoned, or insecure because the home she grew up in would be gone. Instead she said that she had been feeling guilty having left me "on my own". She was so happy that I was going to explore and have a life that it made it OK for her to have made the decision to move.

So now we live on opposite sides of the world, but are still as close to each other as ever. I miss being able to wrap my arms around her, but knowing that she is happy and in an amazing relationship allows me to pursue my own happiness and having a mom that is happy with her life allows her to enjoy her life and the decisions she made.

I know a lot of people would question my choice to focus all of my time and energy on my daughter, but I see the end result, a happy well adjusted woman with a great job, in a loving relationship for the past 9 years (getting married march 2009 ) and I know I did the right thing.

So MF I didn't vote in the poll because none of the options would be something that I would choose.

RE: Kansan's 3rd cup cafe... Come on in!

I don't know that my stomach could take a coffee this morning. I'm such a lightweight when it comes to drinking... I normally have about 2 botttles of wine a month... I've had that much the last 2 nights...I'm supposed to go out tonight to hear a blues pianist, think I'll be on club soda