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RE: Say What you need to say, but say it nicely to whom ever and about whatever...

Lela, I know I checked out of here last night, and may again for a bit. However, I'll send you my email address and phone number. I'll always be there if you need me, my friend.

RE: Shadow boxing

RE: Shadow boxing

Pietro, It's gotten to the point that I must read what you write. I love your style. You're interest and intellect are intriguing.

I understand your realization about children. I once had the same myself. I was shopping for a niece and thinking I would never have a child of my own. I was fine with it, as it had been the decision I had once made. However, it saddened me.

I remember spending Christmas at my brothers house. Getting to help with the gifts on Christmas Eve was a treat. I had my 5yo nephew sleep with me, because when he awoke on Christmas morning, I wanted to wake, so as not to miss a moment. We did wake together and I rushed behind him to the living room. I wanted to catch every second, every expression on his sweet round face. It was beautiful. Even more so now, that he is no longer with us. He died at 19, 4 years ago.

I have my own child now. She's a miracle. It's a miracle she lived, and she's a miracle in my life every day. I think I would have been okay not to have had children, but I've been blessed with the one that I have.

Don't stop sharing.

RE: Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

I had wondered as well since I've been back, Jeff. He certainly is missed.

RE: Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

Cris, thanks for posting Phils pic. Em has been trying to remember who he was. She knew the name because I used to speak about him and read her some of his posts.

We're both so sad about this loss. And to all of you who were close to him, my heart goes out to you, and our thoughts are with you.

RE: Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

Dave, I was taking a little break from this place, but keeping an eye on this thread. I had to respond to this post.

This, my friend, was brilliant. I laughed and thought of Phil all the way through it, until the end. I think he'd be a tad upset with you for that one.

Perfect tribute for Detente. Well done, my friend.

RE: I see this alot

This is exactly the kind of controller my ex-husband was.

Funeral

I know, Rich, and I do thank you all. You've all been so great to us all.

RE: Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

I couldn't agree with you more. I so hate this.

RE: Good Question,"Do you have a limit to what a man can fantasize about in bed?"

Other than the kid thing, no limits. And then I want to know wvery damn one of them. They make for good plans.

RE: Randomly Post The First Thing That Pops Into Your Head Thread

I'm so happy we all bore you to tears Robbie. Drone one about us some more.

RE: Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

He was. And a very handsome young man with dark hair. Very intelligent and a quick wit.

I had no idea about this and am very sad about it.

RE: Good Bye Phil- (username - Detente)

Vonney, what happened to Detente?

RE: Would women make good spies

My daughter and I have done that. Loved the story Riz.

RE: Describe yourself in one word?

Ready

RE: What present do u want to receive by Christmas?

I think I'd be banned if I say.

Funeral

Thank you, sweetie. We've been having a lot of those moments too.

Funeral

Thank you all so much for helping all of us through this difficult time. I'm so pleased that you all got to know our Adam and grew to care for him and his family.

I've sent Jenna a link to this thread. I hope in our love and tears, she finds some comfort in knowing that we care.

RE: I Need Some Advice For Something Special

I don't know much about trees either, Morgan. I do think the cherry tree sounds lovely with the little pink flowers.

I also think the idea of planting a tree in her sweet memory is such a wonderful idea.

RE: what happens to woman after 45?

I love being an inspiration! I'll have to be sure Charlie (bailey) sees what he has inspired, other than me, of course. I do believe he'll be happy about it.

RE: If you could...

I'm selfish. I'd be on the plane in the morning.

RE: Which emoticon are you right now?

RE: Mixed drinks in these difficult times.

RE: Christmas lights....and snow

Starlin, thank you so much for posting this. This is the kind of love we all aspire to. My thoughts are with you during the season.

RE: Why is a Christmas tree better than a man?

RE: You are all so nice

Thank you. It's good to have you here. I'm Dana.

RE: Why is a Christmas tree better than a man?

I have one of my own!!

RE: You are all so nice

We are?

RE: Mixed drinks in these difficult times.

Sorry, Pawsy, I'll stick with my wine.

RE: I was thinking ..

Sorry luv, but it's because the last time I visited my dad he asked why I was there.

I create my family whereever I go. Quite often, right here.