A long time ago. My father would go to the pot and would play a electronic game call "Mastermind" One morning he goes to the bathroom and comes right back out......picks up the game and puts down the calculator and looks at me and says "Go ahead and laugh, damn ya!" and goes back to the toilet.
When you are real tired have you ever done stupid stuff. I shaved with my razor in the living room while catching the weather. I finished and proceeded to try to change channels on the TV with my razor. (my razor has the button on the front!)
Have you ever done stupid stuff while being tired.
I found my salt and pepper in the refrigerator once. I put the timer in there one time also.
I meant for those who need to consider their lack of perfection before rejecting others for the same things they are themselves.
To for the sake of just for fun, they insult others male and female.....over petty things. I am overweight and could care less. I tell jokes on myself all the time. But what about the man or woman who hopes to find a way out of their lonely life....that got slapped in the face.
They would never anything about Gays, Black, Mexicans...etc. But they will about others. Pointing out short comings but never their own. people have a hard day and then come here get a kick in the teeth because they don't meet others measure. Bull!
How can we insult someone and it be OK. when we say the truth we feel by calling it "just for fun."
Just for fun! Women with cellulite look like crap and repulse men! (just for example, not my true feelings) Now wasn't that fun! Except to the ladies who have cellulite. Can we not say something good about others.....then maybe we will begin to like them also.
This had nothing to do with me having a lack of self esteem. This was to make a point that in picking people to pieces over foolish things people remove all possible companions.....also being no better than they. People have things in life that people find fault with that are petty.....grammar, spelling, weight, looks, money,....etc. For the sake of a little nose hair will a woman refuse a man......I have seen many people pass up good hard working guys and gals for the sake of foolish things.....then marry a person who treats them like garbage and reduce them down to a blubbering mass of flesh. For the sake of petty things lacking and had they make foolish choices in mates.
I have no problem with self esteem, only in finding a woman who is LOCAL.....that has some damn sense about life.
Thats it! comfort zone and the fear of worse. It is their choice, and the only way is for a motivation of better or worse to move them. Without that motivation....they stay for no reason to make a change. It is the actions of others that can place a person there or motivate them out. We as a people....make the monsters of the news by cruel remarks and judging to those unable to handle them.
Is it so bad that a person has a flaw that is tiny and to be a turn off to someone who has a bigger flaw.
We men and women tear each other apart and we learn to dislike each other, with disrespect.............why don't we work on our own flaws and not judge others for theirs. Learn to be worthy of the love and capassion we seek to find.
If you ever knew the effects of poor self esteem of people caused by others....you would understand. It causes people to do bad things to others and to themselves. If you were treated in ways long enough....you would get depressed and would not hit a lick at a snake. The mind focus on only bad will destroy a person. If you don't understand this, read some books on selfesteem and maybe compassion will grow from the understanding.
Some do not have the ability to find a way out of poor esteem and their lives are altered forever. But if the teacher had taken him in private to help him instead of feeding her ego in front of the class.....maybe he could have overcome the poor life that overwhelmed him already. But being call that to his face everyday about 20 times each day from the third grade until high school....was a lot to deal with on top of the other. He worked.....but gave up! He did well compared to others who have gone postal for such treatment.
A friend of mine from school in the early years. He had dirty hands from working in the scrap metal. One of these women teachers who were so perfect, got him in front of the class and over several days made him scrub his hands cleaner. His family life was crap, they were just poor folks and the father was harsh. The teacher never got his hands nice and pretty.....but she did earn him and his sister the name "Cherry Dogs" for life. She said his hands were "dirty as a dogs" so the name stuck. Miss Perfect gave them the name to this day. The girls never dated and I never heard my friend speack of a girlfriend.....but later he became a drug dealer and went to jail. I wonder if he had not been a "Cherry Dog" if his life would have been better?????????????????????????????????????
One day a plumber came to a ladys house. He climbs under her sink and his butt crack showed. His pants were not fitting well because he bought them at a rummage sale for work pants. His shirt was too small for him and he had given up pulling it down to cover his butt crack. the shirt was too small because it was old and he had gained weight from eating too much junk food. He grabbed .99 cent honey buns and a coke for supper because he neede to keep working. He was a hard working man with long hours,saving all he could manage. You see his wife could not work...she was terminal...the nurses were costly....the daycare for the kids cost out the butt crack. What a piece of crap he is for the butt crack and poor clothing. But maybe people would think more of him if he was the banker with much money who left his wife because she bacame ill. Maybe the plumber would not have a butt crack showing then.
I am overweight.....and I most likely spelled something wrong or used bad grammar......so I'll leave you perfect ladies alone for sure....I don't want to inflict myself on you!
I do not lack self esteem....I just get tired of the pot calling the kettle black.
Now why do you want one of us sorry pieces of crap anyway and just what do YOU have to offer the perfect man when you find HIM.
I just realised sumptin. If a woman lives with a guy....thats rent to own! if he is just renting....does that make her a positant...prositant.....non catolic!
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Changing the TV channels with your electric shaver!
A long time ago. My father would go to the pot and would play a electronic game call "Mastermind" One morning he goes to the bathroom and comes right back out......picks up the game and puts down the calculator and looks at me and says "Go ahead and laugh, damn ya!" and goes back to the toilet.