I have heard from so called experts (thoses are perts that aren't any more) (Doctors research) that aspirin is the most effective for Mister Ritis and inflamation. Most other things are just sell goods with less relief.
I understand now! When my freind calls me in the middle of the night and cries her guts out......I should keep out of her business and tell her to go to hell! I understand now!
My friend died and his son blew the top of his head off! I considered it my business. My fellow human beings are my business! You have no understanding at all of that which I am talking....it is not in you.
I was not in thier marriage....stop putting your imagination into my words. You are not even close to what I was talking about.....it is not in you.
When you put a gun to your head from depression or such.....do you what me to let you be.......I don't think so.
My friend need some approval because he got nothing but torn apart about everything. I went camping with my freinds and let him tell me how to do stuff I already knew. It made him better to be right and the one who knew. I played dumb and it made him have some joy in life.......How is that so wrong......your assumsions have nothing to with the events.
Now spout more off if it makes you happy.....opps! I'm suppose to butt out......so!
The simple thing of the seat up or down can never be solved because of self.......The solution is simple....out of love put the seat in a position for the precieved next user. But love is not stronger than self interest. Even the Holy Rollers can't understand it. maybe that is also why the Bible is so hard to understand for them. Crazy world!
In this posting....many who did not understand and voice their grand wisdom out of context will never come back after voicing and understand for the sake of understanding. They have gotten thier reward and now do not return....thinking badly of me for the sake of self gradification.
But my reason for posting was to give other though on love and friendship .....and even the care of others. Something lacking in the deepness of hearts today!
If you were in front on your friends and let a silent but deadly.....and it would make you look bad in the eyes of your friends and it would mean a hurt to your esteem......for your sake as a freind or spouse....I would act as if it had been me. Because they mean little to me and their opinion means little to me.
Ya'll missed a key.....in public. If a person correct their spouse in public they degrade their spouse in the eyes of others. Don't do that....wait until your home.
Many people will correct to show their smarts and to position to be the top dog in the family. Don't do that in public.
If your spouse makes a slip up and it can't be ignored....then to take the blame to keep the spouse from being shamed is an act of love and best. All situation are different.
Many many many times, I have take blame to protect my mother's self esteem and how she feels she is seen by others. If she wrote a ticket in the wrong ticket book and it is known....I would say, "Opps! I'm sorry mother! I forgot to tell you that we have a new book to write than in....I forgot to tell you." If you will not protect your family or spouse....I would examine your love.
If time allowed to explian it better, those of a different nature may understand.
I had a friend who was in a high position to lead.....but was not good at it. I many many times would place ideas in his mind to make him look more of a good leader. He was my friend....I even took blame for things because I could handle it and he was not. I have accept blame for something I did not do for the sake of keeping two friends. i don't mean serious things like legal issues but things that come and go in everyday dealings.
But you try to place something on me....you have a fight!!!
they do not like one who is trying to prove it all the time at the expense of other. A smart spouse raises up the spouse in the eyes of others even if it takes accepting the blame or stupid act on themself. Not only is it smart, but an act of love for the spouse. If one trys to prove, they lack confidence. If they take the blame then they are confident. This has been seen by all from the start and the smart person who PROVES is seen as a fool instead and the marriage suffers......and that is stupid to do.
Tanning like many many other vanities are foolishness. It is the chasing of a false image that all pretend is real,knowing it all is fake. It is like this....if one has had their big honker fixed......your kids will still have big honkers.
Did you know that the mule faced woman had men fighting over her. She was a sweet loving and caring person.......very desired.
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RE: Self Esteem
My father used to say......Say anything about me that you wish....but be damn careful what I hear.