You are so lucky to have your children, always let them how important they are and how much they are loved because you never know how long you have them for.
Around five years ago my 23 year old son went to sleep and didnt wake up. He is remmembered every day with the deepest possible love.
My sisters husband is away for three weeks, sometimes longer due to work, when he does come home he is their for only 2 days...they have been together for 20 years. So yes it can work.
I have the same problem but mine is my mother not children. Most men who send me flowers and emails are really nice till they hear that l am a carer for my mother then l dont hear from them again. As it is with single mums and their children my mother comes first, most of the men l have come across on cs or out in the real world dont want to know me once they find out l am a carer for my mother.
A dear friend of mine who was holidaying in Brisbane flew to Cairns last night to help. I hope he remains safe and well. My thoughts are with everyone affected by the cyclone.
Yes it was and thankyou. He was a wonderfull child who grew into a very nice young man whom l was very proud of and always will be. l feel blessed and proud to have had him for the time l did. And yes he is always with me.
Same here, its not all the time and at times they do catch me by surprise and its the little signs that make me smile the most.
My mother lives next door to me and when ever l was mowing her lawn my son would stand on the fence and pass me a cold drink. To this day l still feel his presence and look at that fence and have to smile. At times l sware he is there holding a drink for me.
I have never felt his presence at his grave either, it always been at home mostly and places l shared with him. But once l felt his presence when l was in a sitiuation that made me feel uncomfortable and l immediatly felt calm and safe again. I have also been left with a tear but with a smile when l have felt his presence.
I have smelt my sons favorite body spray when their has been no one else around, it had to be him. I too would love to expierence more, it would be great to see him.
I understand completely l would never date a smoker either due to alergies which cause asthma and bronchitis. I even have to ask my date not to wear deoderant, aftershave ect; for the same reason.
Hey you never get used of them being gone it just gets easier. Kelly used lay down beside me where ever l sat. To this day l still look for her and sometimes stupidly put my hand down to pat her.
I have wonderfull memories of my girl and her spirit will always be with me. She still makes me laugh when l think about some of the things she used to get up too.
Hey Saucy know how you feel. It will 2 years in February since l lost my best friend of 14 years, she was a great dog with a beautiful personality. Still miss her terribly.
I know what you said is true, l am already happy with being me and wouldnt change myself for anyone but it doesnt mean l dont miss having that someone special in my life.
Its very easy to be lonely in a world full of people. I am due to my current curcumstances l spend every day and night alone. I see my family and friends every day but when you see them with their husband, boyfriends ect you cant help but feel lonely cause you long to have the same in your life. My loneliness isnt a state of mind its a fact. Loneliness isnt just needing someone to to talk to, its also needing someone to love you and hold you close when you need it or just to hug you cause they want too.
As others in this thread have said dont judge until you have been put in a position thru lifes complications that makes you feel lonely.
Words cant hurt you so why worry about what people say. You are only giving them power by letting them win. As long as you are happy with your self it doesnt matter what other people think. So wear that dress and treat them with the ignorance they deserve.
RE: what do u plan to give ur hunny this valentines day?
Ditto